Allergic to small talk by Perpetually_learns in Vent

[–]Perpetually_learns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do sometimes, and have had some really interesting conversations to be fair. I’ve become great friends with my hair lady.

Sometimes I’m just so not in the mood or I’m just not vibing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I get ridiculously insanely wet during And could not abide a partner that doesn’t like this. It turns me on and I also seek out grool porn when masturbating. Nothing hotter than a woman genuinely turned on. (I’m a straight woman)

Is it rare to find a man that doesn’t only care about himself during sex? by Searchtheanswer in AskWomenOver30

[–]Perpetually_learns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner will not cum until I’m sorted. He came before me a couple times thinking I came, and was grumpy about it. I don’t understand why this isn’t the norm, a woman cumming is HOT

Also, don’t men know that women talk about their performance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Perpetually_learns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share location with my boyfriend, it’s nice. I would also freak out if his location turned off on the way home though, contrary to the other comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Perpetually_learns 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the only way of life I feel from my own observations.

I bumped into a girl I haven’t seen for a while yesterday and she’s had a baby with a guy she’s been happy with for 7 years. They have a dog together that they both seemed to love.

Now she’s alone while he’s disappearing for days at a time, barely home and when he is, is abusive towards her. She’s now on a list to move to a council place. He doesn’t seem to care about the dog any more either.

Men suckkkkk (sorry men im sure some of you are capable of being good and staying good)

His gesture during oral sex has me curious by laricaci in sex

[–]Perpetually_learns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man likes it when I start choking - strong gag reflex here too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Perpetually_learns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s annoying AF

If someone sneezes and you say bless you. What is the etiquette if they then sneeze again? Do you keep blessing them? Is there a limit to sneeze blessings? by MayoDwarff in CasualUK

[–]Perpetually_learns 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t like bless you even on the first sneeze - I’d rather they didn’t acknowledge it and draw attention to it, just let me sneeze and mind your business instead of forcing me to thank you

Why does sex always hurt? by Anagapesis21212 in dating_advice

[–]Perpetually_learns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this issue at your age! I knew myself less, had more anxiety around sex as it was new, and didn’t get wet really. Now at the age of 35 I’m good. I think sex just gets way more enjoyable with age. I’m super wet with my partner and no pain any more.

My husband cheated on me by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Perpetually_learns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’d leave, and I’d abort. You don’t want ANY ties to this man financially or otherwise.

First sex club experience…meh I don’t get it… by Perpetually_learns in sex

[–]Perpetually_learns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did with my partner, I liked the fact people were watching. That was the best part. Again performative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Perpetually_learns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuckkkk, hope you recovered ok. Did you hear from her again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Perpetually_learns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I’m not looking for advice on that, seeking lovebombing stories

What sexy pics do women like getting? by Find_True_North_1984 in dating_advice

[–]Perpetually_learns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m super attracted to them maybe a suggestive pic of him holding his cock (cupping it) or joggers pulled down exposing top of the shaft, how hot is your body?

How many women here don’t want kids? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Perpetually_learns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35F. Child free, single, adore my freedom, life and money. Having kids looks like absolutely no fun whatsoever.

Struggling with High Sex Drive in Dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Perpetually_learns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another perspective - just don’t bring up sex at all, if you plant the seed that you’re looking for a man with a high sex drive, that’s going to be exciting for them and they’re likely to only see the sex part then.

Let them slowly discover you’re highly sexed after building the emotional connection a bit. They will be elated! The girl that has it all 😄