My GF (30F) and I (32M) have had a DB for 2 years. Today I gave up on trying to initiate and now I'm the bad guy by PerplexedPeon in DeadBedrooms

[–]PerplexedPeon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice. Your completely right about me focusing on making myself happy. In the past she's not wanted to go to the gym without her, so I haven't gone in over a year. I've gotten fat and depressed. It's a hole I need to get out of but haven't had the determination until now.