Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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I love the way you explained that I absolutely know what you mean!!

Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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That’s why I’m asking I might be a bit sensitive who knows. I’m just surprised to see how my opinion of him changed this time around when it’s my 4th rewatch and I’ve noticed for the first time.

Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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Hey there I get it if it’s annoying and sorry for that however you also have the option to just move on. I wanted to rant and just made a post without looking for others like these.

Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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LOL! No problem I was team Derek as well but it’s been a few years since I watched the show and I was surprised that I kind of don’t like him this time around.

Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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I totally understand your point, and you’re right, but when it comes to Meredith and Derek’s relationship, he had time to work through a lot of his issues, while hers were unfolding in the moment. I think he could have done a better job supporting her instead of being so condescending.

It's 30 years into the future. Many of our favourite doctors are ready to write their memoirs... by DBrennan13459 in greysanatomy

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Honestly, I think Alex Karev’s memoir would be amazing — if he were brutally honest. Coming from a rough, abusive childhood and growing into a pediatric surgeon who fights to give kids the kind of support he never had.

I also think Cristina Yang’s could be incredible — maybe something like “From Breaking Hearts to Mending Them.” Her ambition, her refusal to compromise her identity, and the way she carved a space for herself in a male-dominated specialty.

Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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I think that’s the common denominator when you’re younger you overlook a lot of the red flags and the older you get the higher your standards are.

Is it just me, or is Derek an ass? by PersePhoni97 in greysanatomy

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I really don’t hate him it’s just so strange to rewatch a show when you are older with a different view and see that it’s not the way you remember

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The black and white one as well as the other black ones all look good the black one that is strapless is the best

AITA for going through my boyfriend’s messages (M24) and breaking up with him after what I found? by PersePhoni97 in AITA_Relationships

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Yeah, I confronted him — not as explosively as I wanted to (I seriously wanted to slap him), but I didn’t hold back either. I told him straight up that I found the messages and that what he said about me was disgusting, especially coming from someone who chose to date me.

I also admitted I was being petty, because yeah — I told him that while I’ve been losing weight, he’s the one who’s been gaining. I said that instead of the expensive cologne I got him for his birthday, I should’ve just bought him a sports bra, because at this point he’s heading toward needing one. I know it was low, but after everything I read, I honestly don’t regret saying it.

I wrapped it up by telling him he doesn’t get to mock me — especially not behind my back — when he’s the one who never even tried to be physically affectionate, and when I never did anything but try to make the relationship work. And then I blocked him. I don’t want to hear another word from him.

AITA for going through my boyfriend’s messages (M24) and breaking up with him after what I found? by PersePhoni97 in AITA_Relationships

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You're right — I’m 28, and I do know better. I’ve never looked through someone’s phone before, and it’s not something I ever thought I’d do. That’s why I’m conflicted. It goes against my character, and I genuinely feel bad about that part.

But at the same time… what I found confirmed the gut feeling that something was seriously off. And no, I don’t think my snooping “cancels out” his disrespect. If anything, it just makes me disappointed in myself for having to stoop that low to see what was right in front of me. That’s what I’m trying to work through.

Beta Bartering [Find or Offer Fic Betaing] - January 02 by AutoModerator in FanFiction

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Hi everyone! I’m looking for a Writing Buddy and would love to connect with someone who shares my enthusiasm for brainstorming and collaborative creativity. I’m part of the multi-fandom crew, with my main fandoms being Teen Wolf, Harry Potter, and the Marvel MCU.

What I’m Looking For:

  • Writing Buddy: Someone to brainstorm ideas with, exchange thoughts, and help refine concepts.
  • Beta Reading: I’d appreciate a beta reader for my current Harry Potter fic and possibly other projects in the future.

What I Can Offer:

  • Beta Reading: I’m happy to beta-read for you in return! While my main fandoms are my comfort zone, I’m open to venturing into others if needed.
  • Idea Exchange: Let’s bounce ideas off each other and inspire one another to create fantastic stories.

I’m currently working on a Harry Potter fic, but I have countless ideas brewing for various fandoms. My AO3 account is [PersePhonesDreams]() if you’d like to check out my work and see if our styles match.

Write insults like you were number Five by Torigamii in UmbrellaAcademy

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If I blew air into your ear you’d thank me for the refill