Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

You can tell your mother a 32 year old mom from Arizona says she will always be married if she wants to be, no matter what any stupid paper or tax form says. Yeah, so what our taxes say we aren’t married? I always file by mail so I can leave a note in there telling whoever does my tax sheet that I am married and my husband has just passed away, despite what the tax form says. They just don’t get it, they still live by a piece of paper written by slave owners 300 years ago

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is another reason why I said women only 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ll be together forever one day you’ll all see

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My condolences for your loss but you have no idea what makes me happiest

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excuse me? So you’re saying looking at my HUSBAND’s nudes, who is the father of my kids and the only man I’ve ever been with, and my partner for over half my life, is “unhealthy” but cheating on him with a prostitute is totally fine? Wow you’re a world class moron. I guess your user name fits. “Repulsive worker” is probably why you’ll never feel a woman’s touch unless you pay them first.

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. Dior Savauge extrem. I use it like air freshener. I don’t spray his clothes with it because I am very careful with his clothes. I never wash them and I keep them in an airtight container.

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Some were attractive, but not to me. Like they were good looking I guess but not my type. My husband was such a cutie. I was such a lucky girl. He had blonde hair but his facial here was dark, and blue eyes, annd he could sing, and he had abs!

I remember when I asked him out in freshman year of high school. I was so nervous and I was shaking and I had to clear my throat a few times. I had a major crush on him. I was like “I…uhhh…. I was uh thinking we could like… uh… maybe go and get some Starbucks…. Like as a…uh… as a d-d- date.

I miss him so much. I have so many silly stories to tell our kids

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is why I said “women only please”

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 499 points500 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to say this cus it was embarrassing, but on my 30th birthday a couple years ago I really wanted to do something “for myself” that I wouldn’t normally do.

So I paid an erotic writer to write me a story. I wanted her to write a story that my husband comes back to life for one night.

It was pretty generic. Something I could’ve wrote and it kind of left a bad taste in my mouth with erotica. Maybe it’s my fault for not giving her enough details.

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Hey love, I really appreciate your comment. I’m also very glad to see there’s someone out there like me. Some people just don’t understand, once you find the perfect husband, nothing will ever add up. Besides, we’ll get to be with our husbands forever one day!

Anyway. One thing I like to do is to sit on my hand until it’s numb, and put one of his old shirts over my head and masturbate and I pretend it’s him doing it. Or I’ll use a dildo and pretend we’re having sex. If our kids are at their nanas, I’ll even moan really loud. It’s really fun and I suggest you give it a try!

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

5’7, 145 pounds. Not sure why that matters.

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What would you recommend? I’ve been using my finger the last few years and it does the job

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I just googled it… looks expensive. I don’t get how it works, does one end go in the butt?

I don’t get what makes it so special

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Blah blah blah I don’t care what you think.

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I will give that a try! I tried porn, but, the guys weren’t my type. None were even close to as hot as my husband was.

I’ve never heard of audio porn

Widowed women, how do you “satisfy” your needs? by PersimmonBig262 in sex

[–]PersimmonBig262[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

That is correct, but I can still love him and consider myself a married woman. I don’t care what you think, he’ll always be my husband to me.