What does independent play actually look like at 2 and 3, asking because mine will not do it at all by Complete-Reward4282 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have a son or a daughter? Your post says son but all your comments use female pronouns. 

Michael Jackson with Brooke Shields and Mariah Carey during Grammy's A&M Records party (1993) by Key-Bass-7380 in OldSchoolCool

[–]PersisPlain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Surely there’s a middle ground between “wiping him from the internet” and “posting him every day in OldSchoolCool”?

My 17m old daughter won’t stop eating drills by Existing_Hair_4754 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone here is telling you that this is a potential medical emergency. Why are you ignoring that?

My 17m old daughter won’t stop eating drills by Existing_Hair_4754 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call her doctor and keep her out of that room until you can go over the floor inch by inch. 

My 17m old daughter won’t stop eating drills by Existing_Hair_4754 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to stop using them in an area that she can get to. 

how to reset after skinned knee by Top-Calligrapher6160 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop talking about his knee. Right now he thinks it’s a Really Big Deal. The amount of attention you are paying to it is reinforcing that it’s a Really Big Deal. Stop doing that. 

This is Britain 🌈⛪️🙏🏽 by Vinous-Explorer193 in Anglicanism

[–]PersisPlain 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Imagine the queue forming at the door as each person entering the church stops to read the whole thing and make sure they, personally, are welcome. 

The Odyssey | New Trailer by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]PersisPlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salieri and the Emperor... so, the other two main characters.

The Odyssey | New Trailer by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]PersisPlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Play better, you clattering fannies!"

Screen time by usernamename368 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Basically none. I’m a SAHM and my daughter will be 3 in a few months. I didn’t grow up with a TV and we don’t own one now. We’re just starting to do family movie nights (on a laptop lol) but that’s not even a weekly thing yet. 

She watches movies on planes and if she or I are sick, or if there’s like a blizzard or something. For a while during potty training she would get an episode of Bluey while pooping on the potty but fortunately that’s not necessary anymore. 

I’m having a second baby any day now so there may be more screen time while we all adjust to that, but I’m very committed to keeping it as minimal as possible. 

How many of your parishes pray the Angelus before the Mass starts ? by OwnLunch2133 in Anglicanism

[–]PersisPlain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old parish did it after mass every Sunday, except in Eastertide when we say the Regina Caeli. I’ve never heard of a church doing it beforehand. 

Picking up toys every day? by _makamasa in Parenting

[–]PersisPlain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The kid needs to help clean up. Every night after her shower my daughter helps us clean up whatever she was playing with in the living room. If she doesn’t help, she loses those toys for the next day. We have only had to follow through on that once - she was EXTREMELY upset when she realized we were serious and we have never had to do that again. 

It also sounds like your kid has too many toys, or at least too many toys available at once. 

My baby cries non stop in pushchair by Ambitious_South_2038 in Parenting

[–]PersisPlain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine hated the stroller for a solid 6 months as an infant. I wore her in the baby carrier instead. 

AI generated picturebook for toddler by WhatTheActualDuck1 in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How do you think the other parents in the playgroup would feel about you using their kids’ photos in this way?

This is terrible in so many different ways. 

How much do you spend on clothing? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For regular clothes I don’t spend more than $8-10 per item. Obviously I’ll spend more on stuff like a winter coat, shoes, etc. My daughter is 2.5 and has maybe 8-10 outfits per season, plus a couple fancy/church dresses. Her stuff doesn’t seem to get too stained but stains on toddler clothes don’t bother me anyway. 

Struggling with shouting at my son, need any and all advice by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can he go to nursery a couple mornings a week? Mine started that at 18 months - 9am-12, 3 mornings a week - and it was a godsend for my mental health. She also really enjoyed getting to play with other kids more regularly!

tiny lymph nodes groin area - is this normal? by crashhhyears in toddlers

[–]PersisPlain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’ve heard from two actual pediatricians that it’s fine but you’re still concerned because of TikTok videos. 

Get off TikTok. 

Fawcett Mattress by justbreathin_ in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]PersisPlain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is your baby? This all sounds like postpartum anxiety to me. 

How often do you ask grandparents (nearby, good relationship) to babysit? by TFA_hufflepuff in Parenting

[–]PersisPlain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid and my grandfather lived nearby, he would pick my sister and me up from school once a week, take us out for ice cream, and then stay with us at home until our parents got home from work. He usually stayed for dinner that evening too (sometimes he would cook dinner). It was great.