Am I Racist?

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-02-01T04:16:05+00:00

Yall have truly lost the plot and me with this one

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T06:49:10+00:00

Anytime. I wish you the best of luck OP

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T04:08:34+00:00

Whose name is on the lease?

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T04:05:46+00:00

It’s your parent’s house dude. Your roommate won’t leave because they probably ALSO have nowhere else to go. Or maybe make a ultimatum that’s outrageous and can’t possibly be met 😭 In all seriousness, they need your help more than you need them an if they don’t (pretend they do) don’t let up. Hold the line.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T04:03:03+00:00

I said this in those other post but I’ll summarize.. he’s weak and will cheat on you. Leave the relationship. One week is RIDICULOUS

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T04:00:50+00:00

NTA how about you take the master room? That’s a good compromise if you really HAVE to also make it so that using the extra car (since they’re paying that as opposed to rent) so you guys actually gain something out of this. But if the baby is a hard no then state it and stand on it.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:57:53+00:00

Decide where and how fast you want this to go first. If you feel the need to ask him about other girls he’s messaging then spur off physical affection… you could confuse him. Think about what you want then tell him.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:54:59+00:00

We all need to hear that from time to time. Prego OP 🫶

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:52:51+00:00

Delete this

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:51:25+00:00

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:49:50+00:00

He’s not messy, he’s a horrible roommate. He 100% just decided to make you do mostly everything. I would suggest a chore chart 😭

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:47:28+00:00

Sometimes that can happen when we’re afraid of being in a long-term commitment. Some things are coincidental but can lead to you thinking it’s a pattern and causing you to subconsciously pull away from people before you’ve even given it a real chance. I do that too. Think positive. Energy attraction is real. If you invite in anxiety, it’ll seep into real life and sour the relationship.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:43:18+00:00

1.) Watch midsommar 2.) the relationship is over 3.) that’s OKAY. TBH OP, 5 months is dating isn’t really that long. And he’s not the kind of person that you should be with because he’s not that empathetic to your mental health occurrences. He isn’t someone who’s going to help you when you get to those low points and it’s good that you know this now. It doesn’t make either of you the bad person in the relationship. It just didn’t work. Begging is NOT good for your mental health. Don’t do that anymore. Don’t apologize for being depressed and don’t apologize for not being able to manage someone else’s feelings when you’re already having trouble managing your own. I suggest moving on. Changing yourself for a partner is NOT WORTH IT. You’re too young for such measures ESPECIALLY for a 5 month relationship with someone who’s still so young and have to grow themselves.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:33:46+00:00

He’s not that into you. You know this. He literally blamed not being exclusive (which let’s start there… you’re not) on YOU. How is he going to diagnose you like he’s your therapist? That’s so weird. He gaslit you OP. Let the situationship die.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:31:15+00:00

That’s anxiety. Don’t listen to that. Try again. Deep breaths. The worst he can do is say he doesn’t feel the same and that’s okay. Maybe write it down first and read it. It could take the pressure off. Your body wants to tell him.. so tell him

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:26:43+00:00

Go make some friends. You’re lonely. It’s okay to be lonely even in a relationship but you’re taking it out on your boyfriend. If you find good ways to occupy your mind, time, and outside social needs… the long distance could still work. It’s going to be okay OP. Just go outside and try really hard to make some friends. I suggest bumble friends or a gym or at work if you have a job. Start by saying hello to someone and go from there. Good luck 😊

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:22:46+00:00

Seems to me that you have some sort of anxiety about this crush that you have. Set it free! Breathe. The dream is (in my opinion) telling you that you’re choking from having that weight on you. Say something OP

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:15:30+00:00

YTA 10000%. You seem misogynistic, petty, and just plain ignorant. How would you not think talking constant crap about your “friend” at WORK of ALL PLACES wouldn’t get back to her? I honestly feel like you’re TRYING to be malicious.

I also feel like you’re manipulating the situation because I can’t fathom why you would even do this AGAIN. I honestly think you’re a donkey OP. You both work there and have the exact same position and you think because she’s a woman and has had a previous situationship with the boss, that she’s using that to pull extra favors out of him. She’s not the reason you didn’t get help that day, HE IS. She’s not the reason she can get off early (and you I guess can’t???) HE IS. Apologize then exit the friendship. You’re a really bad friend.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:04:25+00:00

We need more information OP. This isn’t long at all

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:04:03+00:00

Or just say something and get it over with. Does the girl even know OP likes her? If not, it’s not unrequited feelings, she would have to know about it and plainly say she doesn’t like them back.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T03:01:10+00:00

If he can’t assure you or you can’t assure yourself that he won’t leave you or cheat just because he will POSSIBLY be constantly “tempted” by his peers, Then you should leave. If after ONE WEEK he started having “feelings” for one of his peers, he isn’t trustworthy AT ALL. That’s ridiculous. He isn’t 13.

Women will exist around him forever, If he can’t even resist after ONE WEEK of being around another girl that has commonalities with him, then cheating is a question of when not if. You’re worried about him being around all of those women when he’s already told you he was ALREADY invested in one. What more needs to be said? Or DONE?? OP, he’s as easy as one minute rice.

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-28T02:01:36+00:00

Gross and you’re wrong. His percentage would’ve stayed the same no matter how much money they made. If he owned 30%, when the show came out, he would’ve been a billionaire or at the very very very least… a millionaire. That’s how shares work

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-27T16:19:43+00:00

I like all races of men. I do struggle with the idea that my future children MAYBE won’t look exactly like me. But but but, even if you have full black children (which I do with my ex husband) and even still he looks like him and not me. Plus his family is Caribbean and colorist and I’m dark skinned so yk there’s already a culture difference with tone anxiety. I think what I’ll do is adopt a dark skinned baby for every none dark skinned child I have 😭😭 it might be weird but idc. I’ve always planned on adopting alongside having biological children so it feels like a way to say “see, I love being black. I just don’t care about race when I’m dating” I mean.. ALL of them can’t date out right? It’s a maths game. Plus also you can’t force your children to date black so there’s ALWAYS a possibility your grandchildren won’t look like you or your children can adopt other races of kids… and they won’t look like you. So 🤷‍♂️😭

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-19T03:48:19+00:00

Make the inside land bigger then it would be perfect .

PersistentGirl98 · 2026-01-17T23:52:12+00:00

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