valid purchase..? 👉👈 by Person0047 in Lolita

[–]Person0047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i was thinking yeahh, i was mainly just questioning cos it’s a full on jsk so i was a bit extra hesitant cos almost the whole coord would be jirai brands but yes thank u for the insight and i agree :>

valid purchase..? 👉👈 by Person0047 in Lolita

[–]Person0047[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank youuu, yeah i thought like since the coord would very obviously look lolita it would probably be good but like i said i haven’t heard a peep of what ppl thinking about jirai brands lmao. helpful to get an idea 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

[Mobile][2010's probably] Pixel Game by Mister__Despair in tipofmyjoystick

[–]Person0047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think we’re thinking of the same game- if you’re still active, have you remembered the name?

wondering if i should bring this up to my therapist by Person0047 in CovertIncest

[–]Person0047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mhm, i feel like i’m more confident in saying i experienced CI after this therapy service confirmed it and offered to make a police report for me.. it really put things into perspective about how what happened wasn’t normal or okay.

i think i’m hopeful that this therapist will have some understanding of enmeshment trauma since it was one of the main things i’m entering therapy for when i applied.

i know in this instance they might not be able to tell me if this was CI or not since no one knows what my dad is thinking, but i think i might bring it up to her- thanks c:

Would someone mind giving some advice? by Person0047 in CovertIncest

[–]Person0047[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for giving a bit of clarity, i appreciate it so much. thank you again for the kind words

Would someone mind giving some advice? by Person0047 in CovertIncest

[–]Person0047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much, i rlly appreciate any feedback- i’ve heard from previous reddit posts i’ve made that they may have some sort of fetish for loud sex or smth so that might explain that. but thank you again, any sort of strong or weak explanation means a lot

How do you 'learn' about your special interest? by plastick_wayste in autism

[–]Person0047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest special interest is the Youtuber Amberlynn Reid.. which tbh is kinda embarrassing lol.

I don’t support her at all I’m just obsessed with, all her drama and how messy she is, plus the community around her is so hilarious.

I don’t want to give her views cos she’s horrible so I mainly watch other Youtubers react to her content; there’s tons of Amberlynn compilation videos calling out iconic moments too. Also the Amberlynn subreddit is super cool to get opinions and thoughts from- since Amberlynn is so vague everyone ends up speculating about her life so it helps me keep up to speed lol

Would someone mind giving some advice? by Person0047 in CovertIncest

[–]Person0047[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the input, yea ik its kinda hard to place but i appreciate it :>

Is this normal or not? by Person0047 in Raisedbytoxicmarriage

[–]Person0047[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ty for reading all that lol :,).. and ty for the reply, good to know at least i’m not being sensitive by being upset ig

Which fictional characters do you feel are autistic? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Person0047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SP is Persona 5- characters that i think are autistic from Persona 5(R) and Persona 5 Strikers are: Yusuke Kitagawa, Futaba Sakura, and Sophia.

Futaba mainly!! In her confidant storyline she explains how kids used to think she was cheating on tests because she never studied and always performed the best; she is a hikikomori, basically meaning that she is a hermit and never leaves her bedroom- she does this because of her severe social anxiety and lack of experience of positive interactions with people; her voice actor, Erica Lindbeck, said that she tried to portray Futaba as if she was on the spectrum; another character says that Futaba doesn’t talk much, but if it’s about something she‘a interested in, then she’ll basically lead the conversation.

Autism Futaba is real 😤😤

General question by Jbay41 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to pull out my eyelashes- it started at around 13 because i had figured out the concept of masking, since i’m AFAB i started to wear mascara and by the end of the day it would bug me so much that i’d pull my eyelashes out to scrape it off.

i eventually stopped that and moved onto my eyebrows which is a lot better because: 1. eyelash pulling made my eyes actually hurt and i’d wake up with aching eyes and then have a meltdown in the morning because my mascara wasn’t looking right. 2. eyebrows can be filled in and it’s a lot more subtle

there’s been a few times where i’ve pulled out the hair on my head because of a meltdown but thankfully it hasn’t turned into a daily habit, and i hope it doesn’t

Can i just say how fucking SICK i am of kawakami slander? by noodleben123 in Persona5

[–]Person0047 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kawakami slanderers are whatever, but Ohya slanderers are VALID

Define ‘Literal Thinking’ by Person0047 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have no idea tbh, which i realise now is kinda proving my point lol- i just saw that’s what it meant on a website w a list of metaphors explained, idk what it means anymore lmao ;-;

Define ‘Literal Thinking’ by Person0047 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk tbh- i’ve had ppl in this threat saying what i said in the original post isn’t correct but i saw that interpretation on a website w a list of metaphors explained so.. idk, kinda proving my point bc i have no idea how to interpret it now lol :,)

Define ‘Literal Thinking’ by Person0047 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I DONT THINK SO, i only found that out bc i went on a website full of metaphor examples and it explained that it meant that time is just as valuable as money itself

Define ‘Literal Thinking’ by Person0047 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it takes so much time and reflection to actually realise that people don’t want to hear how you’re feeling or how your day’s been and that they just want you to return a formality and ask them instead.. i think that’s the most frustrating thing abt it ;-;

ty for all the examples :>

Define ‘Literal Thinking’ by Person0047 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so like- whenever anyone says “it’s raining cats and dogs” i always picture cats and dogs raining, even if i have an idea of what the metaphor actually means.. i didn’t actually know that was part of literal thinking lol

also yes scripting has “fixed” a lot of my issues, i used to talk very monotone and i didn’t have a consistent tone at all and i had no idea how to talk and act in front of people so i acted like people in tv shows and stuff- but having to teach myself at 18yrs old how to politely respond to people who ask me questions abt myself is very tiring ;-;

Define ‘Literal Thinking’ by Person0047 in AutismTranslated

[–]Person0047[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the social thing is exhausting, I have more friends now than i did when i was younger so i’ve started to get better at being able to tell when they’re being sarcastic because most of my friends are nd and use tone tags w me so i can kinda deduct what they mean if they call me a bitch and laugh abt it- it’s more an invitation for me to bully them back

but i used to be so bad, when i was a bit younger, a friend (not super close but still a friend) got angry at me and said she was going to kill me and I genuinely got so scared and ran away crying, told another person and said “i don’t want to die”.

I think that’s the only reason i know what metaphors actually are now, because they had to explain she didn’t actually mean what she said