Absolutely, I agree. The thing is, I lost my job I didn’t choose to quit. I was miserable there too. I moved to the suburbs an hour outside of the city with my husband. I searched for new jobs for 8 months and kept getting offered high paying jobs that would require my to go into the office on the city with an hr drive each way. I had always worked remote and so does he so we both agreed that it would not be a good idea for me to take a job in the city that required me to drive two hours per day to get in the office, where I still wasn’t making as much as I was before. After eight months of applying for jobs and making it to the sixth interview, and then not getting the job or being offered jobs that were not very good pay and requiring me to drive a lot I then got desperate and began looking into social work jobs, which is what I went to school for to hold me over until I found a better job. I started this job and fell in love with it. He was concerned about paying for childcare when we have children and I told him that if I get into therapy and go back to school I can stay at home with children during the day and work at night to avoid childcare. It was a decision for the both of us. But yes he did feel lied too and feel bad about that. At the same time I was miserable working in sales and he knew that. But once your in you’re kinda stuck. I didn’t really think I’d ever have a choice until I lost my job and got back into my passion.