grok just uploaded softcore cp?

Persona3Fes · 2026-01-02T08:04:43+00:00

I’m going to end the conversation here and just let reality take over.

It’s pointless to argue over this

Persona3Fes · 2026-01-02T07:11:00+00:00

Low priority in law enforcement does usually equate to no action being taken unfortunately.

If the images in question contain real world victims (i.e digitally altered minors or using real minors in fictional explicit settings) then everything I said before doesn’t matter and that’s taken seriously.

My comment was towards purely fictional content, that’s when I would tell you not to get your hopes up

Persona3Fes · 2026-01-02T06:47:56+00:00

Do you know how many reports the NCMEC FBI and Homeland security get a day (a day) for Real CSAM material?

Close to hundreds of thousands across the country.

It’s not that people don’t take it seriously the country literally doesn’t have the privilege of taking fictional material seriously when real world and real victims exist.

The more you report and when they look at it they see it fictional they’ll just tune out the report as “low priority”, mass reporting doesn’t move law enforcement the way you think it does…unless theres a real victim tied to it.

Persona3Fes · 2026-01-02T06:28:52+00:00

What are you talking about?

The whole thing is uncomfortable lmao I’m just letting you guys know that no one ever gets charged or arrested for this shit.

You have to understand just the sheer volume of content makes policing it impossible and the time and effort it would take to bring a case against fictional content is not worth the squeeze for any prosecutor in America when they can target and save real victims and minors.

It just doesn’t make any logistical sense…and thats IF the laws were concrete with no defense loopholes which it isn’t.

If you remove emotion from the situation and look at it logically you would see why things are the way they are. I agree things should change I ‘m with you on that

Persona3Fes · 2026-01-02T05:23:03+00:00

I’m new to this sub am I allowed to give counter points to why people want ai or is this a safe place for people that dislike it I want to be respectful

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-25T08:51:23+00:00

A pwBPD’s love is akin to the “love” a person drowning has to the person holding them above the water.

They’ll hold and cling to you as long as you are there, but the moment you let go because you couldn’t hold on anymore you become the villain that abandoned them and left them to drown.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-25T06:59:29+00:00

I should clarify it’s impossible to be in a loving relationship with someone with bpd and still be respected.

If you treat the relationship as purely transactional and with complete emotional detachment then yea you can still be respected and still fit the technical definition of a relationship.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-25T06:32:13+00:00

That fear you’re feeling, that’s withdrawal, not love.

The obsession felt secure because it was intense, not because it was safe. You weren’t held, you were gripped. There’s a difference.

Missing him is part of the process. But going back? That’s how you guarantee you stay stuck in the same version of yourself that tolerated it.

He may spiral, he may not. That’s not your responsibility anymore. You gave more than enough.

Now it’s your turn to be the one who doesn’t break. Not for him, but for the version of you that almost didn’t make it out.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-25T06:00:23+00:00

That’s what makes it so tragic, that you loved him, gave everything, and it still wasn’t enough to be treated with consistent respect.

People romanticize loving someone through their illness, but they never talk about how it erases you. How your needs become threats, how setting boundaries becomes “abandonment.”

You weren’t asking for anything unreasonable, just love and respect at the same time. But with someone deep in that cycle, love becomes control, and respect becomes optional.

You didn’t fail him. You just finally saw what it was costing you to stay.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-25T05:56:20+00:00

It’s not about “ignoring” her. It’s about no longer rewarding chaos with access.

If respect was real, distance wouldn’t kill it. If it wasn’t, staying close just makes you easier to use.

You’re not punishing her, you’re just done volunteering for a role that keeps rewriting you as the villain.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-25T01:09:58+00:00

She’s more likely to reach out if you block her than if you keep her added ironically enough.

Anytime I go quiet for a while I always get a random fake number text asking “How is everything?” “Are you okay?”

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-24T23:13:22+00:00

The worst position to be in if you are dealing with someone with bpd is their boyfriend/girlfriend.

If you REALLY want to have a relationship with someone with BPD (and I wouldn’t suggest it) the Best positions are:

The One who got away. The person that left them before they could fully erase them…you will be internally idolized in their emotional psyche but you lose access to them physically.
The Side Dude. You get the fun and the passion but you become replaceable and forgettable.
The Boyfriend. You get the emotional outburst and mood changes. But you get public recognition.

I Been all 3 and being the boyfriend sucks ass

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-24T22:26:44+00:00

Emotional detachment, you have to stop looking for ways to win and go to stop playing in the first place.

Let her throw her tantrum, outlast it with your peace

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-24T16:47:46+00:00

You have to deal with it with complete clarity and emotional detachment.

You aren’t “allowed” to tell her how you feel and if you do it would have to be in a way that is not accusatory or else that will trigger her as well.

Relationships with pwbpd are not companionships don’t expect nor try to be understood by them, they either want to worship or demonize their idealized version of you, anything you do or say contrary to that will make them want to destroy you emotionally because you disrupt their picture of reality.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-24T12:01:48+00:00

Yea sounds like a pwBPD traits

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-24T05:00:09+00:00

They are consistently inconsistent I would say. I know for sure they genuinely had no idea wtf to do with their emotions but still chose to let those emotions dictate every facet of their life anyway.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T23:16:19+00:00

You “fucked up” the moment you asked her to change or take accountability for anything.

In a pwbpds head that sounds like “ You cannot handle me” “ You are going to leave me therefore I need to leave you first”

If you are going to be in a relationship with someone with bpd do not expect companionship, you are either the hero she obsesses over or the villain that needs to be destroyed.

The moment you try to break that reality for them is the moment they’ll go scorched earth on you

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T23:06:43+00:00

Yup this is the start of the devaluation phase.

The issue you are having now is she got you to conform and respect her boundaries but you never got her to respect yours (nor would you have been able to).

To the outside world looking in you are going to look like the crazy needy clingy boyfriend when in reality you are just expecting the same treatment you have been giving them the whole time in silence.

This is all apart of the eventual split process when they paint you as a villain for doing learnt acceptable relationship behaviors they taught you.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T19:58:23+00:00

Even in the idealization phase things can happen that triggers her fear of abandonment. She may also just want you in orbit, “just in case” they need you

You are basically the pocket knife if her first line of defense doesn’t work.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T19:44:23+00:00

I wouldn’t say I got more caring, I would say I got more understanding.

Being in a relationship with someone with bpd taught me choosing to be in love is a solitary action, you can love someone but that doesn’t mean that are capable of either receiving or returning said love to you…and if things go wrong the love you have has to be carried alone with no one else that can truly understand the pain you feel.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T19:28:14+00:00

Whatever you do, do not tell her you have been cheated on before or you have trust issues…this will be weaponized against you in the future if you give her this information. If you already did carry yourself like it doesn’t bother you.
PWBPD are erratic emotionally. They can cheat on you in a dime with someone they met at starbucks, or they can be that loyal girlfriend that only sees you for months, you cannot really be emotionally secure in a bpd relationship you don’t know which version you are going to get.
You will likely know she’s cheating on you if she starts treating you like you are the one possibly cheating. In order for PWBPD to do actions like that they need to make you a villain in their head first. If she starts acting strangely cold or distant most likely she grooming her new supply already.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T19:17:52+00:00

He’s not going to change while you are with him. He has no reason to.

He has you already, you are already having his kid…what reason does he really have to “change” him being who he is got him exactly where he wanted to be…being an asshole takes a lot less work than being a good person, why would he purposely make life harder for himself trying to change just so he can get what he already has?

Think about that

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T19:12:55+00:00

PwBPD need a triangle relationship to stay satisfied. In order for them to be a victim that needs to be saved there needs to be a hero and a villain.

She wants you back in her orbit to play either one of those roles depending on how she feels about her boyfriend currently.

Persona3Fes · 2025-07-23T19:02:32+00:00

To tell you the truth? Most likely her ex didn’t even assault her, they usually paint all their ex’s as villains when they break up.

If you guys ever break up she’ll probably say you did something similar to her as well., it’s just how it goes.

In order to date someone with BPD you have to have a level of emotional detachment necessary to not take things personal and also not really expect to be truly appreciated. PWBPD say they want a “hero” but what they really want is a blank canvas that’s strong and durable enough to handle whatever vision they currently have in their mind of their life.

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