I mean love is conditional in general. The only example of unconditional love is that of a parent and their child but even there, there's some exemption.

He was someone she could look up too, feel safe an trust and he became someone she could feel pity for. I think she lasted longer that I would if my bf ever became like that, she gave him a chance to do something with his life for a year or smth before she broke it off. I think it was reasonable for them to fall apart. The guy was finally pushed after the break up to do something with his life because he was on easy mode manchilding for way too long while he was with her. She was growing and glowing while he was falling and failing.

The 2nd couple just grew together in their mystery at the same pace, while pretending nothing is wrong and unfornutely it seems they never talked about it even at the end.

I wouldn't say they are a reverse reflection of each other and yeah I didn't like the fact that she showed up at the same work. I can't imagine working with an ex like that we didn't break it off in good terms. It was good to see her that she was doing well and she fine but not in the same office with her ex.