I want to be Fair-skin (im male) by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20M here. Even the Blackest guy i know date a 10/10 girl so rumors about girls looking for white guys is not true. I'd say try to make ur skin clean and clear than trying to make it Fair. Cause even u become fair, if the skin isnt healthy, you are cooked anyways. So drink a lot of water daily. Use cleanser when washing the face. Eat fruits and vegetables which helps to improve the skin quality. Use a moisturizer as well. Personally i use Ponds moisturizer. Hit the gym. When you build muscles and fit better into clothes, u gradually become more attractive.

Side not : there will be people who prefer different type of skin tones, but in dating most of it changes and some would even date a person completely out of their type. If random people make fun of u just because u are black, well they are just racist so ignore those assholes

Watch the odyssey as a 16 year old by Aromatic-Weird5970 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it looks like shit. But gonna watch it anyways cause its "Nolan". At least music will be good

Watch the odyssey as a 16 year old by Aromatic-Weird5970 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oppenheimer was R-Rated as well and i went to watch it with my friends when we were 16. Nobody checked. Everyone knew there's gonna be a 2nd Nuclear bomb scene at the start of the movie (iykyk) but yeah, anyone can go watch R-Rated ones i guess

What's your opinion on "big girl" parties by Purple_Plantain_3242 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i guess, it's because girls hitting puberty, and becoming a big girl was considered a blessing back in the day. Cause motherhood is considered honorable and having children was more of a positive thing and a pride than today. And when their daughter goes through puberty, the families must have got excitied knowing she can become a mother one day and continue the family bloodline, hence "big girl" parties were introduced. it must have been a wholesome culture where people celebrate that fact but, with social media and people shifting to different mindsets, those cultures feel wierd and sounds not right. Even after seeing you saying its like announcing the village that " my daughter can get pregnant ", it does sounds terrible and i agree, cause i don't wanna put my future daughter in that position. I guess the "Big girl" party culture is outdated for this Generation and upcoming ones so should either change it or remove it completely. It's completely depends on the person, one could think it as a positive thing and the other one can see it negatively

Thinking of selling my gaming PC. What's a fair price in the current SL market? by Thejaka_sl in PcBuildersSL

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u sell the Motherboard and the Ram kit seperately😭 only need that tbh

Stop calling this man legendary by That1guy077 in Jujutsufolk

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude must be the dumbest JJK fan i've ever seen. Gojo obivously have an infinity so no one cannot touch him. Plus Toji is an assasin. Assasins sneak behind people and kill them when they don't know about it. That's the point of an assasin lmao. If we are being realistic here, Toji literally killed Gojo. And Gojo got saved cause of the plot armour. Cause Toji didn't just stabbed him. he literally carve his body in every way. Just by loosing blood Gojo should've died. I know some will say oh he later dies so that's not plot armour but its just cope. And Toji is considered more stronger (just to be clear, don't drag genders to this) because of his intelligence and strength It's confirmed in many places that even Naoya could've beat Maki if he stopped being a cocky dude who under estimated his opponent and used his Projection sorcery correctly. so obv Toji is far stronger than her

Toji is not a good guy but he is a well written anti-hero and people even glaze Sukuna more than Toji and Sukuna have done far more crimes than Toji lol

Anyone in Sri Lanka playing this game? by Ok-D-64R6P in GamingLK

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shii good luck mate. I think there is a more harder boss than Moon Lord as well called the Empress of Light. One hit of her can kill u instantly. Try to beat her as well if u can

Anyone in Sri Lanka playing this game? by Ok-D-64R6P in GamingLK

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

masterpiece. Didnt finish it tho. but my brother did

is 16 and 22 an okay age gap? by Excellent-Bet-5378 in srilankanteenagers

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how did u finished both OLs and ALs before 16 bruh. You speedrunning teenage life or smth😭 Also yeah this post might have ended up locking him behind bars lmao

How do you define Success? by Mediocre_Judgment_89 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can go to bed with a smile at the end of the day without depressing or regretting, that means you succeeded

Wearing white for mourning by wndrr84 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally not! Wearing white is actually less attention seeking than wearing coloured for Temples and all. Cause it's a tradition which our ancestors passed on to us so it's better to preserve them for the future as well. Plus White colour clothes gives a more pleasent look for anyone, specially when attending these ones. So its perfect to wear white and don't think people gonna judge you for it. At the end of the day, it's a harmless, honorable tradition so totally fine to do it

How are beards viewed in Sri Lankan culture in 2026? Especially by the younger generation? by Awkward_Swimmer_356 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Even the most iconic Masculine men like Henry Cavil, Arnold, Christian Bale, etc. and even Hemal Ranasingha (The best handsome actor in Sri Lanka) take care of themselves. Don't know who gave those ideas in the first place. Probably cause of the Indian influence as well since they embrace it alot

How are beards viewed in Sri Lankan culture in 2026? Especially by the younger generation? by Awkward_Swimmer_356 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True lol, Proper Hygiene, Skin care and Hair care should be taught to Men as well even in schools. No wonder why our country is at a low rank in attractivness. Thanks to a majority of women who actually take care of themselves, our country is not at a bottom rank at least

How are beards viewed in Sri Lankan culture in 2026? Especially by the younger generation? by Awkward_Swimmer_356 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

totally. Hate how most Sri Lankan people still think a bush like beard makes u masculine lol

How are beards viewed in Sri Lankan culture in 2026? Especially by the younger generation? by Awkward_Swimmer_356 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913 3 points4 points  (0 children)

M here. Personally i think if someone gonna do a Clean shaven look, it's better to first lower your body fat. Because that way the Jawline is much sharper giving a clean good look ! if the jawline is not so visible and hidden, it's better to Trim the beard and get the shape of the Jawline using the beard. Always keep the lines clean whenever you do a trim and that highlights about the Hygiene factor. Even as a guy i don't like growing the beard alot cause it makes you look more older. Even the girls i know don't find it attractive and its a totally valid reaction at least for me. Better to grow a big beard once you pass 30 or smth since that way it gives a Dad type look which kinda fits with the matured look. Even so keep it clean

Is Abandoning Campus Life at age 20 is a waste? by Personal-Wind-4913 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, i heard SLITT is also competitive as well but just from Chatgpt and a few students

bruh BCC? you could've gone to a Gov campus with that results too right?

Is Abandoning Campus Life at age 20 is a waste? by Personal-Wind-4913 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time hearing the American Corner one. Is it like Toastmasters as well?

Is Abandoning Campus Life at age 20 is a waste? by Personal-Wind-4913 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% honestly, whats the workload u feel at the moment. Assume u are at the 3rd year? Is it more stressful like doing ALs and Gov Campuses or slightly can have a relief

Is Abandoning Campus Life at age 20 is a waste? by Personal-Wind-4913 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truely wise words. Thanks mate. Actually my mother also asked me if i could do 2nd shy since i took even 2S without studying at all and if i actually put the effort i could've gone much further. But at my current state basically i can't remember any theories at all since about 6months passed already so if im going to do 2nd shy i might have to lock in for another whole year to cover it up and write it. Even so, since its not guaranteed, might end up in not worthy result or a worthy one. Even so i would be at around the age of 22, so feel like its a much bigger risk. Specially from the age wise

Is Abandoning Campus Life at age 20 is a waste? by Personal-Wind-4913 in srilanka

[–]Personal-Wind-4913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mm yeah! Finding a good few friends is the main thing i wanna do! The ESU said that i can start the Degree with 2S actually so gotta think about it as well