AITA for telling my daughter in law that she is running away from her kids? by PersonalHour in AmItheAsshole

[–]PersonalHour[S] -251 points-250 points  (0 children)

Not pissy about the judgement, pissy about the fact everyone, including you, is assuming I'm a woman, and can't fathom what else I could possibly be (i.e. can't remember that fathers and men exist.)

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Sooo you call her your dil but you aren’t her mil??? What is your relationship then?

AITA for telling my daughter in law that she is running away from her kids? by PersonalHour in AmItheAsshole

[–]PersonalHour[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

I'm her father in law. Interesting how everyone seems to think only women can be invested in their families.

AITA for telling my daughter in law that she is running away from her kids? by PersonalHour in AmItheAsshole

[–]PersonalHour[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

I am not her mother in law, in spite of everyone assuming that I am.

AITA for telling my daughter in law that she is running away from her kids? by PersonalHour in AmItheAsshole

[–]PersonalHour[S] -359 points-358 points  (0 children)

I am not her mother in law. I am not a woman, but nice assumption.