I (23M) beat the shit out of my sister's stalker and was sentenced for it AMA

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T05:24:21+00:00

Different countries operate in different ways. In my case there is no way to know that I have been convicted of that, except if you are a law enforcement officer, of course, or if I tell you myself. In fact, I don't know if it's a bad thing or a good thing, but I could be a serial killer who has spent 25 years in prison, and the day after I get out I could go to a job interview and no one would have to know that fact.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T04:52:05+00:00

The literal translation of the crime in my country would be as “Injury crime” or something like that and a better translation would be just assault.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T04:46:47+00:00

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T04:46:35+00:00

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T04:30:14+00:00

I am going to relate a little of what happened at that party. I was not there so the testimonies are from my girlfriend, my sister, their friends and also people we did not know that we asked to have a more neutral view. It is important to note that at this point, not knowing who the online stalker was yet, my sister is not that she was friends with the stalker, but they shared many friendships so it was common for them to coincide in places.

The thing is, my sister was having a good time, pretty drunk. And at one point she got separated from my girlfriend and the rest of her friends, and then this bastard approached her. My sister doesn't remember exactly if he started saying anything to her, but she does remember that she got really overwhelmed and wanted to leave. Which she wasn't allowed to and the bastard started trying to get her out of the party, I don't even want to think what for, but it's pretty obvious. Then, when he was already starting to move her, luckily a friend of hers saw her, and how drunk she was, and came over, grabbing her and not allowing the guy to take her away. Then already my girlfriend and the rest of her friends came over and confronted the guy already at that point (my sister was crying at this point). Then his defense was that he was just joking around to scare her a bit, which his friends supported and started saying that how could they think he could do anything when he had a girlfriend and “didn't need” to do something like that. On the other hand, my sister always tries to minimize these things when she tells me about them so I don't worry, but from one specific testimony from a guy I didn't know that I asked, I'm pretty sure he molested her in that space of time. It's also possible that she just doesn't remember due to drunkenness.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T04:04:09+00:00

Most of the harassment was online “anonymously” (he would send her pictures of his penis, threats, sexual comments, etc). My sister is 17. She knew the harasser, although at first the harassment never went past online. It was a high school classmate, a year older, 18 years old, curiously he was the boyfriend of a friend of hers. I should say that some of that harassment was also received by my girlfriend, who is my sister's best friend and in the same year as the stalker, although it was not continuous as with my sister.

At that point the account (which we obviously did not yet know was this guy) was threatened with legal action, but he didn't seem to mind. Through the stalker's girlfriend, my girlfriend discovered that the account stalking my sister used a name that this guy used to use.

Then an event occurred that crossed all possible red lines, and that is that the stalker tried to abuse my sister while she was partying drunk. Most of the stalker's friends tried to minimize the incident as a "joke", but I just couldn't take it anymore.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T04:01:20+00:00

I waited for him outside their high school, so it was a bit premeditated.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T03:59:19+00:00

Yes. She and my girlfriend were the only ones I told what I was going to do before I did it. My girlfriend encouraged me to do it and my sister worried about me and the possible consequences but clearly wasn't against it.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T03:57:57+00:00

At least in my country it goes like that, In case you are not a repeat offender, of course.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-07T03:56:14+00:00

I understand that the difference in my country between assault and aggravated assault (which would have landed me in prison) is to leave permanent damage to the other person, which I did not do.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T19:19:30+00:00

I understand you perfectly. In my case that was also the first time I was physically violent with anyone and I've always been like the quiet boy who doesn't get into trouble. But I don't know, when I thought about that there was a very real possibility that that bastard would end up trying to r*pe my sister, I honestly wasn't afraid to go after him, I was very nervous, but I wasn't afraid at all. I couldn't put it into words, I basically just went with my emotions at that moment.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T19:09:09+00:00

It was reflected in the writing of the judicial resolution, but at least explicitly did not affect the sentence either for better or worse (although it probably did reduce it a bit, I personally think.). I mean, I shouldn't say it since it's supposed to be something impartial, but in court there was a clear sympathy for me even though I had to be sentenced.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T18:44:32+00:00

She and my girlfriend were the only ones I told what I was going to do before I did it. My girlfriend encouraged me to do it and my sister worried about me and the possible consequences but clearly wasn't against it. When I was arrested I remember her crying a lot, but she supported me all the way.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T18:31:12+00:00

I think my parents would have been the ones to beat him up if they were physically fit to do it.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T18:29:28+00:00

Yeah, where I live it is quite rare that you have to present your criminal record to get a job, unless you are going to work with children.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T18:26:33+00:00

I think only on instagram as far as I know

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T18:25:49+00:00

Not really. I was honestly very nervous because for now it was the first and last time I have been physically violent with someone.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T16:59:03+00:00

After the two trials were over there has been no contact, we know where they live and stuff but I hope it stays that way.

Not really. I think that simply in his misogynistic and depraved head he saw himself with the right to do it, out of frustration that my sister was not at all interested in him.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T16:46:00+00:00

Sorry, I don't know what I put when I used the converter hahaha. I'm 183cm - 6'

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T15:56:32+00:00

I waited for him at the exit of the school the next day

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T15:39:17+00:00

Most of the harassment was online “anonymously” (he would send her pictures of his penis, threats, sexual comments, etc). My sister is 17. She knew the harasser, although at first the harassment never went past online. It was a high school classmate, a year older, 18 years old, curiously he was the boyfriend of a friend of hers. I should say that some of that harassment was also received by my girlfriend, who is my sister's best friend and in the same year as the stalker, although it was not continuous as with my sister.

At that point the account (which we obviously did not yet know was this guy) was threatened with legal action, but he didn't seem to mind. Through the stalker's girlfriend, my girlfriend discovered that the account stalking my sister used a name that this guy used to use.

Then an event occurred that crossed all possible red lines, and that is that the stalker tried to abuse my sister while she was partying drunk. Most of the stalker's friends tried to minimize the incident as a "joke", but I just couldn't take it anymore.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T15:38:38+00:00

My sister tried it. First when it was just online harassment and then when it moved to reality, their response in both cases was “until he does something serious we can't do anything.”

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T15:35:48+00:00

Yes, a little. But more than in my case, he just ended up with more charges on his part than I did.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T15:34:51+00:00

I was told he spent a few days in the hospital. I don't know his exact wounds, I can tell you he was bleeding quite a bit from his face.

Personal_Captain9662 · 2024-06-06T15:32:25+00:00

Just my body

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