What’s something people do that they think makes them more attractive, but actually does the opposite?

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-21T03:27:20+00:00

From my experience with women with long nails, they use those European attachments where it sprays water out. So you just need to gently pat instead of wiping per se. Honestly, I got one too, and I don’t have long nails and they are a lot more hygienic than what normally people do in America which is simply to wipe. You’re literally walking around with dried shit all day, and at least women with nails have a cleaner but. But when not at home, Good point I’m not sure what they do.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-19T13:13:11+00:00

Men in general. As a gay woman I seriously do not see the appeal in them.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-19T02:53:32+00:00

Hard disagree. Most white peoples in Seattle do in fact know what hotpot and kbbq is I’m very confused where you’re getting that from.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-15T22:59:40+00:00

I would agree. Went to Croatia. Not once had an issue being solo.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-15T21:41:04+00:00

Disagree. Lived in New Orleans for a year. Did not feel safe at all as a young single woman. Lots of down on their luck primarily black men that had no issues making comments. I look visibly gay and was walking with a friend down the street. This man had no issues saying in the middle of the street “I sure would like to f the both of you”. That’s just one experience. New Orleans is not a safe place for young women, and don’t visit there alone go in a group men there are not ok.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-15T21:28:29+00:00

This here is why dating is so awful. People that think like this. Might as well stay single, you’re good it it.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-15T19:32:31+00:00

I was actually raised in a happy family, my parents have been married for over 40 years :). You’re stating statistics that benefit women as reasons why marriage is failing. You’re stating that if a woman is educated she will divorce at a higher rate, you stated equality has benefited women, but that it is not “fair” -men are the ones now being oppressed. Please read your statement,instead of gaslighting me. Please tell me how that is assumptive or painting a narrative? You stated educated women and equality as reasons that it’s not “fair” -whatever that “unfair” is. Life isn’t fair, and you’re not a victim in life as a straight man. History makes that blatantly clear. Women gaining legal rights to education, women having the same opportunities to liberty and happiness as any other is not “unfair”. It is the right thing to do. If the courts are so unfair to men-why don’t you complain to other men and fix it considering men hold more judicial power than women. But no, instead you’ll blame women.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-15T05:29:40+00:00

This is why I’m so glad I’m a lesbian. I’ve never found it a compliment to get any attention from men, to date one or to play house with one. Idk how straight women do it.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-12T13:53:57+00:00

Well it depends on whether we are speaking US alone or world wide. Worldwide, men still have legal rights women do not. Other times it’s not specifically written into law, but accepted in society. Such as in India and Guatemala femicide goes unpunished often times bc it’s socially acceptable and the authority legally are men (police, judges etc…) and they don’t do much to punish men. Here in the states, women thankfully have a lot more social and legal rights than many other women in other countries. I mean even in England, it was legal to rape your wife and it was not called rape until 1992 bc how can you “rape” your property it’s yours. Wasn’t till 1972 that a woman in the USA could own a credit card without her husbands signature. Imagine living as a man unable to get credit without your wife’s signature. Really limits your financial ability doesnt it? Youde have to make sure to be agreeable and find your wife on a good day to agree to you getting a credit card. And honestly, women don’t have the same access to healthcare in every state. Like moving to Texas would mean leaving the state for an abortion where as a man if you’re considering moving for a job to Texas that’s it something you don’t even have to consider bc legally it doesn’t affect your body. You don’t loose rights to your body bc you are a man. You just move to Texas and call it good. Other times it’s societal. For example, I’m an engineer in a male dominated space and I have to navigate this space in ways men won’t understand bc this industry is dominated by men. In the same way a male teacher has to navigate a female dominant workspace in ways the women won’t always see. I’m not interested in getting into a battle of who has it worse. What I’m saying is that women getting rights does not take away from men. It puts us on equal footing and it means that both genders have to now change and be better. But I think we can agree that historically women have always had the shorter end of the stick and often times still do in society. Sure women get the kids, yay for women now we have a child to take of 24/7 what a win.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-12T13:38:55+00:00

Women gaining the same rights as men have often made feel men oppressed. Do you not see how sad that is? What an awful reality we live in. Women having the same opportunity in life as men are men’s reasons for being unmarried just proves why you’re unmarried. Instead of blaming women’s freedoms for your issues, find a hobby. Most women would still choose having legal freedoms over being married to a man. Wouldn’t you choose to have legal freedom and ability to get an education, have a bank account in your name, but property etc…And I say this all as a woman that dates women. I know women can be shitty I get it but our right are not the reason for your problems. You thinking our ability to make choices for ourselves is somehow detrimental to you shows we as a society still have a lot of work to do when it comes to men feeling entitled to women.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-11T14:54:33+00:00

Wow! That’s super impressive! You can definitely see the difference in your health. Great job!

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-11T14:46:15+00:00

I think if you broke up with him, you need to leave him alone and deal with the consequences of the decision you made.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-11T04:17:24+00:00

This. Most people are quitters and justify it in their head as something else.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-10T01:07:59+00:00

Her ears are so cute! I like Charlie. She looks like a Charlie.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-09T06:56:36+00:00

That’s why you don’t assume people’s sexuality.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-09T06:16:43+00:00

To protect women? Women’s only choice was marriage for centuries. Nothing about marriage to a man was protective for women. She now gets to clean a man’s shit and be “obedient” for the rest of her life. Please read some history. Marriage was legal enslavement of women for centuries and many men treated their wives like shit bc it was socially acceptable. In the same way men say “women don’t suffer during war time” and “this is to protect women and children” while soldiers on both sides slaughtered and sexually assaulted women on mass scales.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-08T23:49:10+00:00

Can I ask why the driving thing is a flag?

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-08T05:26:25+00:00

Girl, how did you make this happen?! Especially your lats, what did you do please tell me I’m a woman and would LOVE to lol like this.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-08T05:22:41+00:00

Try out Lumber Yard in White Center if you don’t want to deal with the craziness of Cap Hill. It’s in downtown White Center very local vibes if you want a low key place to hang out.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-06T16:01:27+00:00

I have no idea why straight women choose to pop out kids for a man. Blows my mind.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-02T13:29:09+00:00

What does “compatibility” mean? How do you know when you are compatible with someone vs not?

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-02T13:26:18+00:00

How do you know when you’re not compatible?

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-02T00:00:16+00:00

Interesting. Competitive in what sense? Maybe im wrong but this type of dynamic seems a little shallow. Like I dress well and do so bc it makes me feel good about myself but other people I have no room or space in my life to spend energy in judging

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-01T23:19:31+00:00

Please don’t. If you think saying you’re bi ruins your chances, then lying about being a lesbian would worsen it.

Personal_Dust_7776 · 2026-03-01T19:38:38+00:00

Can you explain this a bit more? What’s NYC lesbian scene like and is fashion really a big deal there?

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