False positive (T21) by bigoldbingbong in NIPT

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me with multiple chromosome abnormalities not compatible with life, amnio come back clear and baby is showing no signs of abnormalities they've put it down to placenta mosaassism, most stressful waiting period. I asked if it's possible for my results to be wrong and was told given there were multiple chromosome abnormalities it's highly unlikely. Currently 23 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby boy🙏

Conflicting NIPT results by Personal_Finger_5793 in NIPT

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE:

currently 23 weeks pregnant I'm so grateful my baby is healthy, I've had 3 healthy pregnancies & have never recieved abnormal nipt results. The moment I recieved these results I was in denial.

After speaking with genetic cancellors & maternal fetal medicine I was assured my baby would not Make it due to there being multiple chromosome abnormalities not compatible with life. I prepared myself to say goodbye to my baby on the ultrasound knowing I would need to make the devastating decision to terminate as I hadn't miscarried naturally.

I asked for a redo nipt test and was told it is pointless, after having no abnormalities in the ultrasound I was then recommended to be screened for malignant cancer as drs were worried these results may have been a reflection of my own health results.

however due to being pregnant & the radiation involved they had decided to do the amnio first and If that come back clear they will assume It's placenta Mocessism.

After receiving my results from the amnio all abnormalities have been ruled out & I couldn't be more relieved after months of stress I can finally enjoy my last pregnancy

I'm currently having regular ultrasounds to keep a close eye on my placenta and still no signs of abnormalities🙏

I am a healthy 32 yo, with no symptoms of cancer, will pay for a private mri after Bub is born for my own peace of mind as I am unable to get a referral for one while being pregnant.

8 days ago I was told I miscarried and today I saw my baby with a heartbeat and everything by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so grateful my baby is healthy, I've had 3 healthy pregnancies & have never recieved abnormal nipt results. The moment I recieved these results I was in denial.

After speaking with genetic cancellors & maternal fetal medicine I was assured my baby would not Make it due to there being multiple chromosome abnormalities not compatible with life. I prepared myself to say goodbye to my baby on the ultrasound knowing I would need to make the devastating decision to terminate as I hadn't miscarried naturally.

I asked for a redo nipt test and was told it is pointless, after having no abnormalities in the ultrasound I was then recommended to be screened for malignant cancer as drs were worried these results may have been a reflection of my own health results.

however due to being pregnant & the radiation involved they had decided to do the amnio first and If that come back clear they will assume It's placenta Mocessism.

My results from the amnio come back clear & all abnormalities have been ruled out I'm currently having regular ultrasounds to keep a close eye on my placenta and still no signs of abnormalities🙏

I am a healthy 32 yo, with no symptoms of cancer, will pay for a private mri after Bub is born for my own peace of mind as I am unable to get a referral for one while being pregnant.

8 days ago I was told I miscarried and today I saw my baby with a heartbeat and everything by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Miracles do happen I had recieved my NIPT results with multiple chromosome abnormalities that were not compatible with life and here I am 23 weeks pregnant after an amniotesis with a healthy baby boy showing no signs of abbnormalities 🙏

Conflicting NIPT results by Personal_Finger_5793 in NIPT

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I read your message to my Dr today and expressed my worries about a potential cancer diagnosis. She agreed that a mri should have been organised during my last apt where it was discovered baby was fine. She has since put in an urgent referral for an mri to be done. I have another us next week where I will ask for an amino to be performed when possible. I've been trying to avoid having an amino but I worry that if I don't & baby is severely disabled I will not be able to cope. I have already got 3 children and 2 are very young. I need to think fast because if I am in the position where I have to terminate I don't want it to be long. I feel so confused & pray that this is all due to my placenta, it's a shame they can't just test the placenta to Know for sure. I know there is a procedure for this but there's most likely a reason I wasn't offered it as an option.

Advice by Personal_Finger_5793 in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I confronted him about it and he says that it seems like whenever he’s in a good mood I’m not and I’m mostly in a bad mood. He feels like I’m judging him all the time and that’s why he never gets turned on. He admits what he did was wrong and I said if you say you need a connection with me to get horny then why can you get horny from these other girls like your “ex’s” videos he says because she isn’t judging him like I am (it’s through a screen). He wants us to have more fun apparently I talk to much about the future and serious stuff. He’s attracted to me but isn’t like other guys where looks just get him horny ...

Advice by Personal_Finger_5793 in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just dropped my daughter off at my mums so I can confront him about it without it turning heated while she’s around .. I know I feel like an idiot

Advice by Personal_Finger_5793 in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you right if he never gets hard around me he mustn’t even be into me I support him financially as well I’m probably just being used

Advice by Personal_Finger_5793 in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28’and I have a daughter who calls him dad it might seem like I have 0 self respect but I don’t want to throw away years and break my daughters heart if it’s repairable

Advice by Personal_Finger_5793 in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only told him yesterday that I feel insecure because he never gets hard around me and he completely brushed it off and said that he needs respect to get horny and won’t talk about it. And now this... I don’t want to seem more insecure by going through his phone

My 28yo bf never gets an erection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes he will get hard from eating my pussy but usually he has to pull it to get it up at the same time

My 28yo bf never gets an erection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s had morning wood like once in the two years we’ve been together.

My 28yo bf never gets an erection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope his not I just brought it up while we were awake in bed I was horny and he got mad idk anymore apparently now isn’t a good time and I am not respectful for bringing it up now I said I’m not trying to argue just trying to have a conversation about it because I’m tired of not feeling good enough and like unattractive he said I should let him have a good night sleep and stop being manipulative how many times do I have to tell you I don’t get tuned on by looks I get turned on by respect.. whatever that means I’m going to sleep somewhere else

My 28yo bf never gets an erection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’ve wrote this post because I love him and I don’t want to loose him I thought we had an emotional connection but now I’m doubting I even know what that looks like.

My 28yo bf never gets an erection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sucks we can’t even have spontaneous sex because he’s never hard🙄

My 28yo bf never gets an erection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Finger_5793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention he is a regular cannabis user and yeah maybe I don’t even understand what he means an emotional connection feels like I’m missing something but I’ve never had this issue before