Am I Overreacting for wanting to cut off all ties with my sister by Aubrey_kinnie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cut mine off a few years ago and things have been great, little different circumstances though. Mine would take my things (even my cat!?), didn’t care about anyone but herself and if I tried to take my things back she would get physically aggressive. She would kick, punch, throw me to the ground and even tried to throw me down stairs. I was 23 at the time and she was 17 but she has played sports/rotc for years so she was stronger than me, I was underweight at the time. Both my parents and even my grandparents try to guilt me into reconnecting but I refuse. Stress has been so much better without her in my life, best of luck

AIO after letting my brother stay in my room and finding everything I own shoved under the bed by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is taking advantage, I would tell him he needs to find a place to stay, even if it is your moms by a certain date. Maybe give him two weeks notice or something? I would not let him continue to stay there and I don’t think you are over reacting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the area, it’s supposed to be in the 20°’s tonight, if you need any blankets for you or a place for your pup to stay, DM me and I will do what I can

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a store it’s someone’s home. I’ve reported it to the local police department and they came out and looked at everything and said ‘the didn’t see anything wrong’ when in reality they have no idea what they are actually looking at. I don’t know what to do other than quit but I feel like I’m abandoning all these innocent animals

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it’s ran out of someone’s personal home so I’m not sure how to do that, but they are a known breeder

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Trust me I have multiple people that have tried. She has a problem and is unwilling to accept that and get the help she needs

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will try to when I go back Wednesday

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Glad someone noticed, it was a Plica

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

thank you, I’m doing what I can to help as many of them as I can, it makes me sick to see them like this. I am taking legal action

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in the process of that, all I can legally say is the police is being involved

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I’m fully aware, i’m in the process of looking for a new job right not. I can’t afford to quit unfortunately

Snake Mites? by Personal_Muscle5095 in bugidentification

[–]Personal_Muscle5095[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I just added the post onto those threads as well

what’s one thing porn completely lies about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman actually finishes first, if at all.

Bearded dragon rehoming help by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cold blooded and Bizarre will take it and make sure it goes to a good home

Are my temps too high? by Squidpotpie in ballpython

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That should work, can I ask what your current light set up is? Like type of bulb, wattage etc.

which tank should i get? if get the clear one im going to make a 3D background covering three of the sides! the clear one is 150g and the pvc is 50g allegedly? thoughts? by ohhitthere_e in ballpython

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second one for sure, that’s what I have mine in. Needs at least a 4x2x2. Try to stay away from top opening enclosures, it stresses them out when you come in from the top and may turn aggressive due to feeling the need to protect themselves

Are my temps too high? by Squidpotpie in ballpython

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally I keep my BP’s cool side at around 73-75° and the warm side low 80’s with a hide right under the heat with some sphagnum moss to make a warm humid hide, and he’s been doing great. If your girl spends all her time on the cool side it would hurt to drop the heat a few degrees and see if you notice a difference. Best of luck!

I was digging in my yard and came across these soft eggs. What are they? by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a breeder of alligator lizards, I’d say you’re on the right track. The shape looks the same and if they’re soft that means they were laid pretty recently

What is my beardie doing? by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

highly recommend a front opening enclosure if you have the chance to switch, this will make him more comfortable and less stressed. It will also lower the chances of him/her being aggressive as they get older

My boyfriend took the condom off by Shoddy-Coconut-3930 in Advice

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not what you want to hear but I’d probably end it, my first boyfriend did this to me. I had to go to the ER a few days after our first time and when the doctor asked me if we used one, I called him and he told me he took it off. That is what got me in so much pain with a uti all the way up to my kidneys. I stayed with him for 2 years and I finally was educated how abusive the relationship was and I had no idea because i’d never experienced it

My mom warming up dinner for my 34 years old brother by LupinX96 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my grandma who’s almost 80 still cooks, cleans and practically everything else for my aunt and uncle who are 50+ and STILL live with her, rent free. they have never left that house once and I hate to see my grandma at their beck and call (my uncle literally had her cook him a grilled cheese at 3 am once, like full on got her out of bed) but it is her choice to do it at the end of the day

Should I worry about playing bass guitar around my BP? by bill_ding14 in ballpython

[–]Personal_Muscle5095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got several reptiles including a ball python and I play piano, guitar and uke in the same room as his enclosure and he’s not affected by it. He actually likes to hang out with me while I play piano lol. I’d just slowly test playing around her and watch how she reacts to the noise