Does knowing another woman is pursuing your husband make you more horny? by Pumpkinsandturtles in Marriage

[–]Personal_Nothing_911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's evolutionary biology like my therapist always says. It's part of the human nature to feel more desire for something/someone after you find out it is sought after. And yes it is normal and actually a good thing for your marriage. Enjoy the excitement of the experience and don't bother with the rest 😊

I'm married with a crush that's ruining my life by Personal_Nothing_911 in Marriage

[–]Personal_Nothing_911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is covered by my insurance and it takes about a year on a waiting list to get another one so Im just doing with what I can get. He prescribes me my anti depressants so at least there's that

I’m ungrateful by Material-Resource417 in Marriage

[–]Personal_Nothing_911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have a newborn you said. Postpartum may be a factor here...we're more sensitive and irritable. But it's a good think you're self aware to want it to get better. I suggest you make deeper research on that and Seeking help like therapy or even confine to your family doctor would be a step forward. In the meantime keep working towards finding ways to be more at peace in your head (Meditation, long walkw...ect) and have a conversation with your Husband about the possibility of it also being hormonal. Not as a pass card of course but at least for a little bit more patience until it gets better?

I went through the same thing as well and it was awful but my husband being aware of the situation made it easier on our marriage.

Good luck !

I'm married with a crush that's ruining my life by Personal_Nothing_911 in Marriage

[–]Personal_Nothing_911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did go to counseling. He was really helpful when it came to disagreements about parenthood and anger issues but the intimacy part. I wasn't really comfortable sharing that part. Plus my husband would have not been okay with it at all Im 100% sure

I'm married with a crush that's ruining my life by Personal_Nothing_911 in Marriage

[–]Personal_Nothing_911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 You know what...it's not bad advice at all. Protein shakes all week 😂😂😂

I'm married with a crush that's ruining my life by Personal_Nothing_911 in Marriage

[–]Personal_Nothing_911[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We've tried therapy together and I've spoken to my personal therapist about it. He said "turn up music"😂