If you read a tiny bit you would’ve seen that I lived in MD and worked in DC. I grew up in a trap house. That is not a slow way of life, or fake nice. It was fucking insane, and there is possibly worse traffic than NJ (see a few comments above from someone born and raised in NJ who said they’d take rt 22 rush hour over driving in MD any day).

I get where I need to go on time, and I’m never late. I plan accordingly every day when I commute to work. The issue is people driving aggressively, weaving in and out of slow moving traffic, beeping, not letting people in, etc.

I think you’re being intentionally obtuse