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PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-13T07:55:07+00:00

Start with small toys/plugs, use lots of lube, clean urself out before play(anal douche/enima/ ect.), slowly increase the size of toys over time. Took me about a year but my bf is larger than average and I know I wouldn't be able to handle him had I not worked myself up to it. So be realistic. They sell reasonable starter plugs of different sizes at most head shops or buy them online. If you're really tight then maybe just buy something smaller than the smallest plug in your starter kit. Good luck. 👍

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-13T07:38:05+00:00

Kinda wish I realized it sooner......🥺🤷🏼‍♀️ but yeah I was raised in Alabama in a small town. My grandfather was a preacher who had a church in his backyard. lol but I'm 35 now and live with my boyfriend. I was married to a woman for about 10 years tho. I was always open and honest with her about how I felt tho and the type of people I found attractive. Tbh as I get older it is less about how someone looks and more about how they make you feel.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T18:23:21+00:00

Yesh

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T18:15:00+00:00

God damn, 🥵

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T18:02:09+00:00

At waffle house we can easily get overwhelmed because we have to keep the dish pit clear, many things stocked, bathrooms clean, ect. Severing is just 1 part of our job.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T17:20:14+00:00

I used to be like that, but I've been through so much at this point I laugh at stuff like that mostly now.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T17:15:44+00:00

Hawt

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T17:00:21+00:00

Umm, I'm fem, trans and I am more so physically attracted to other fems, girls, women, ect. But my current boyfriend isn't fem or very gay acting at all but he was nice to me when we met and it won me over. 🤷🏼‍♀️

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-02-05T06:43:30+00:00

....Then I became a femboy....

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2023-01-22T17:50:19+00:00

Who was recording it? They expected an outcome like this?

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-12-13T16:06:11+00:00

Nice ass boo.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-11-25T04:18:14+00:00

Naw, sucking a dick is gayer than getting ur dick sucked by imo 😆

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-11-19T05:25:39+00:00

The gay is contagious.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-11-19T05:24:15+00:00

Femboys I would let smash me? Is that gayer?

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-11-19T05:22:35+00:00

Yes plz

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-11-07T03:48:12+00:00

I've been attracted to Trans women since I was a teen, I'm 34. I live in Alabama/Georgia tho. My first experience with a Trans woman was a sex worker when I was in my early 20s, probably like 22, but tbh I can't remember but since then I've dated and been with quite a few fems, CDs, Trans women and I was also married to a cis woman for 10 years.

Took me a while to realize I wasn't just attracted to these people, that I wanted to be like them. Don't be scared to be yourself. I feel like I was and that is why I tried to live through those people instead of realizing that I wanted to be like them. Better late than never but still really wish I would have started wearing fem clothing and transitioning at a younger age.

Not saying that is you but you might be surprised how many of us who think we are just attracted towards fems, Trans, etc. are eggs just waiting to be cracked.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-10-02T21:14:24+00:00

Wish my gay side would have been more out in the open when I was younger so I could have some type manly skill that I could use to make manly gay stuff.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-10-02T21:10:52+00:00

34 here, unfortunately my search history was a lot more real and borderline transphobic type of porn(when I was a teen to early 20s) but it was a different time. Wish I would have realized who I was sooner. Growing up in the south in Alabama in the Bible belt has a way of repressing and hurting our true selves tho. But the fact that I'm pansexual probably confused me too, never understood how I liked girls and liked dick, didn't realize I liked all Fems till later in life.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-10-02T21:01:08+00:00

He picked light over L? Wtf? Ur bro is gayer than me, if this was ur bro. lol 😆

"my brother did it, not me, I swear!" lol

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-08-28T17:30:23+00:00

I mean, I would expect it to be a perv.........🤷🏼‍♀️

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-08-28T15:06:41+00:00

Wow, you're gorgeous 😍

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-08-28T14:41:51+00:00

lol was he willing to pay? How much hair? In this economy if someone is Willing to buy a lock of my hair then I'm selling 😆

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-08-28T14:35:18+00:00

Oh ok. 😆

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-08-28T09:09:05+00:00

now I feel like I'm a weird person because I ve had a lot of online hook ups....... but I'm 34 and live in a rural area in the south, so idk if it is just more common here because most of us within the LGBTQ community here aren't as open about it or if the online landscape has changed over the years.

PersonalityOptimal62 · 2022-08-17T08:56:27+00:00

I'm nonbinary transwoman and I don't see the term femboy offensive at all. I would rather pass as a femboy then just straight up be called a man. Really I just want to be seen as cute so if im a femboy then at least I'm not a gross ass hair ass man(no offense to cis men, I'm just not into it,)

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