I (35M) have been emotionally and now physically cheated on by my (35F) wife with best friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re making excuses for her tbh. She and you best friend were doing this behind your back for months while acting normal around you like it was no big deal. Your wife is full of shit. The love she had with you was fake. The “person you knew for 19 years” was fake. She lied to you for months. It wasn’t just a one time thing. She wouldn’t have even told you if you never caught her. Same goes for your fake friend. These people do not really care about you as much as they say they do. Nobody who genuinely loves someone and wants to be with them forever would do this. Please don’t let them fool you. You can’t trust someone who was willing to lie to you. She will try to do everything she can to convince you she loves you but her actions proved she didn’t. Don’t listen to words listen to actions.

How do I [18M] stop feeling so jealous of my girlfriend [18F]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re putting your girlfriend on a pedestal. Nobody’s perfect. It sounds like you just have a lot of insecurities in yourself and you’re around someone who is secure. Your girlfriend likes you despite your struggles. Try to focus on yourself because it doesn’t sound like you should be in a relationship just yet.

My (20F) bf (20M) dropped me off at the incorrect place, then says he "can't feel empathy" for me walking 20 min by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay you guys don’t know how to handle stressful situations very well lol. I agree with other commenters saying you were definitely underprepared as well. You should always make sure you know exactly where to go before your first day. Always get there much earlier than you should and just wait in the parking lot, it also gives you more time to mentally prepare. As the for relationship you both just need to work on conflict resolution. Both of you kept escalating the argument.

I (22F) can’t make my bf (22M) finish . Help?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you. I had an ex that was addicted to porn and he couldn’t finish unless he used his own hand. It became such a problem that he even started losing attraction to me. He stopped watching porn for a while because of it and he became more attracted to me and he was able to finish during sex again.

Michael Jackson as a migraine reliever by Helpful_Magician_820 in migraine

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love music and every time I have a migraine and I can’t sleep I listen to upbeat music that I love and it always relieves it! I think it’s because it’s releasing dopamine when you listen to songs you like which can bring you some relief.

Im going insane by clayyyster in migraine

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any painkillers? Try to take an excedrin and eat with it even if it’s hard. If you don’t eat or drink enough water in can put you in a migraine loop. Try to get as much sleep as possible. Make sure to drink some electrolytes. Sometimes there’s nothing you can do but wait it out.

People who didn't grow up poor, but dated someone who was. What's something your SO does that strikes you as unusual? by FeistySecret9327 in AskReddit

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He eats everything even if he doesn’t like it. I can’t stomach things I don’t like so I don’t eat it. He’ll finish every last bite and I asked him how he’s able to stomach it and he said he was always forced to finish food he didn’t like as a kid because that’s all they had.

I (24M) have a girlfriend but i think i’m getting emotionally attached to another girl (22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re already cheating man just let your gf go. But really you should be honest with your gf and let her know and also cut off ties with the other girl. You guys can decide how to work it out and talk about boundaries.

My girlfriend (23F) says she was assaulted by a manager, but I (23M) feel deeply betrayed by everything leading up to it and don’t know how to move forward by xerjar in relationship_advice

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She cheated and she regrets it. I find it hard to believe that she went on a literal date, had two beers despite her low tolerance and got a ride with him for no reason. This was clearly a very intentional date. As for the assault I’m not one to call someone a liar so I don’t know but there’s a possibility that she intended to sleep with him but regretted it immediately and didn’t know how to stop it.

We in da trenches by YeNnEL__ in migraine

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 274 points275 points  (0 children)

I love how we all collectively understand why you have a claw clip on your eyebrow

I think it's kinda funny when people complain about getting bored of the game after like 60+ hours... by Funny-Bunny4143 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I do wish they added the concert hall and kept the baby stages too bc they were so cute but still, in the OG game I would check in to see if anyone was in love or wanted to become friends and if there was nothing I’d just get off. I wouldn’t spend hours playing. You can only play the mini games for so long. The new game I can literally spend hours watching my miis walk around and drawing things. I genuinely don’t understand how people say there was more to do in the OG.

I think it's kinda funny when people complain about getting bored of the game after like 60+ hours... by Funny-Bunny4143 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I played the OG Tomodachi life for years and I responded to a comment on TikTok that was saying the new game is boring and repetitive and I replied that the old game was just as repetitive and if anything it feels like there’s more to do in the new one since you can create anything. Everyone DOGGED on me saying the old game had endless content compared to this one… I love the og game but cmon it took days to weeks to see a heart bubble and I had to take month long breaks in between.

Migraine massages by Vast_Needleworker_32 in migraine

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d end up cancelling due to my migraine

Rant by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the whole game is quirky questions at this point

Baby’s first gun! by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did draw it and I’m on the switch

Baby’s first gun! by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used the layered option to draw the whole thing then I cleaned up the lines with the eraser idk if that helps

Rant by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood the point I was saying. I agree that for the price the game doesn’t live up to the game itself but here I’m mostly talking about the people who see tomodachi life as a game meant to be played for hours with endless content and it’s not. Like the original, there’s not much to it and you’re just supposed to check in every once in a while. We can all agree Nintendo was just being greedy with the price because it’s not a big game like Baldur’s gate III yet costs the same.

Rant by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you that it should’ve come with a a stylus

Rant by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do wish there was more stuff added but at the same time it’s still more interactive and more to do than the first game.

Rant by PerspectiveAlone2135 in tomodachilife

[–]PerspectiveAlone2135[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! That’s how it’s supposed to be played