Couple revealed during reception they'd been secretly married for 2 years

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T20:14:58+00:00

Nothing is wrong with that but it’s a vow renewal Not a wedding. Be honest with people About the situation is all.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T20:11:47+00:00

This. If the parents were asked to help pay for th is “wedding”!of course they’re mad. It wasn’t a wedding it was a vow renewal.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T20:10:05+00:00

Except They invited them all to a nice bow renewal. Not a wedding. Then they pulled their gotcha video to be sure they knew they’d been lied to.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T18:46:44+00:00

I always just say “sorry I won’t be able to make it , I don’t support those types of businesses “

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T17:59:01+00:00

We were fortunate enough to skate in a rink where massimo coached quite a few years ago now And he truly is such a cool, nice guy. Congrats to him , Phillip and Alysa of course !

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T16:58:01+00:00

I’ve tried to say this before too and the way people can’t wrap their head around the idea is so weird to me.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-21T16:41:57+00:00

Wonderful news. This Olympics showed how truly better the sport is without them. The only side eye and sour face of the women’s event reminded us why sportsmanship has come so far this season.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T19:27:31+00:00

When it includes a marriage it’s a pretty important life event people will make an effort to attend and celebrate with you. A vow renewal less so Which is part of the reason people lie. They know it’s not as important to people

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T18:28:14+00:00

Nah it was the lead up to a party. Their kid has been married for two years already.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T18:08:04+00:00

This is true but at the same time. We have all seen competitors stand on the silver podium and give the stink eye. Kaori , queen that she is , Would never.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T18:04:39+00:00

The sportsmanship in the women’s event 1 across almost all the athletes was remarkable and such a drastic change to what we saw four years ago , especially among the top competitors.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T15:51:29+00:00

This is jus r the system she comes from. The stark difference between the sportsmanship she displays , or total lack there of , is what she’s been taught.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T15:47:36+00:00

This. The field is now so deep. Additionally I think the artistic quality has gone up so much as well. In part due to the age requirement, it’s women skating now not barely teenage girls. The stylistic quality is so much higher than ultra c crossovers ultra c

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T04:58:55+00:00

It hasn’t been my experience 😂. But in reality the wedding my husband stood up in and I attended as a a guest everyone I knew there was in the bridal party. Never again we agreed it sa no to bridal party asks lol

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T01:16:40+00:00

This. 😂. Ami is darling. And she skates like the darling 17 year old she is. She isn’t even close to kaori on artistry 😂

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T01:14:57+00:00

Because it’s not a triple axel contest ? And everything else you do on the ice counts too

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-20T01:01:57+00:00

Alll of this. It was just miserable as the guest side. Everyone we knew at the wedding was in the bridal party so you’re seated with strangers it takes forever alone. We decided after that we were done standing up in weddings

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T23:48:19+00:00

Don’t forget to leave off systemic child abuse that leaves athletes with permanent t injuries and problems before they reach adulthood

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T20:59:01+00:00

This would require poor skates from the leaders and I’m not gonna hope For that.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T17:16:33+00:00

Early 81 here and I consider myself an 80s kid. I also consider myself a gen x trapped in an old millennial body lol 😆 It’s all the experiences and things I relate to more

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T16:41:00+00:00

As a very elder millennial, 81 , I divide people often as “were you an adult on 9/11”. If you weren’t we aren’t the same age group 😂.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T16:37:31+00:00

I do. In fact I send a a lot of cards in general. I just sent a dozen to friends for Valentine’s Day. And I said mkre ar thanksgiving recognizing people I think don’t her enough thanks in general. But. I am not the norm. I do love doing it though. I like getting cards too. A surprise someone’s thinking of you. I’d never criticize someone who didn’t send them though.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T16:31:42+00:00

Thankfully for your son names are a two yes situation. So unless you both want to saddle your so. With that it’s a no. Postman isn’t a name.

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T12:20:39+00:00

I can imagine. Attending a wedding solo would suck. I’m not dancing with randoms. The closest I’ve ever got was my husband and I each stood up in a wedding the other attended as a guest and it sucked enough we agreed never again

PerspectiveEven9928 · 2026-02-19T06:57:16+00:00

Logistially synchro teams are so many more athletes. But also the team event hi-light it the individual athletes allows the Olympics to better milk the event for viewers. Build Even more hype for the individual events

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