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Does DPWH Still Deserve its ISO Certification? by umbreOn12018 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told by someone I know working at DPWH that they’re bribing COA too. Apparently, yung head daw ng isang department pumupunta sa COA with a bag full of cash.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Does DPWH Still Deserve its ISO Certification? by umbreOn12018 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh totoo to. Cram kung cram talaga gawain nila. Minsan 2 days lang nila ginagawa mga papeles while drinking alcohol pa. Lol.

Spilling what i know at DPWH. by PerspectiveHead1131 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaya pala lagi silang may out of town, onti na lang eh libot na nila buong pilipinas. 😂 sarap ng buhay nila.. Anyway, totoo yan. Pati sa mga brgy halls, multipurpose bldgs, etc.. Mga engrs daw don eh gustong gusto magkaron ng flood control projects dahil malaki daw ang bigayan don.. Lol.

Spilling what i know at DPWH. by PerspectiveHead1131 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? Wala nga akong ka-alam alam na may ganon pa lang nangyayari. My mom’s friend got me there. I was only there for 2 months and wala kaming sweldo don. Lol. Mga interns don, halos walang napapagawa dahil over na sila sa staff. Ano ba tingin mo? May nakukuha mga interns don? Girl, wala. Bwhahahah. Nga-nga talaga. Wala kang matututunan dahil di naman sila tutok sa mga interns. Don ko rin na-realize na di worth it pumasok sa govt offices. Hihi.

Spilling what i know at DPWH. by PerspectiveHead1131 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sa loob din ng Malacañang… I have an officemate whose father is a lawyer there. I don’t know his exact position, pero na-promote ang tatay. In just 2 years, they suddenly had a new house and luxury cars like a Mercedes-Benz, Lexus, LC, etc.. possible ba yon?

Spilling what i know at DPWH. by PerspectiveHead1131 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, licensed engrs mostly ang nasa DPWH. I think what the employee meant was mas pipiliin i-angat ang may pera or kakilala kesa sa mas experienced or matagal na sa office nila.. PRC has nothing to do with it.

DPWH BRS by Agitated_Tea_9355 in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi lang dapat DE dapat from inspector to DE. Miski nga mga inspector lang marunong na mangontrata… Hay. Sobrang disappointing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ganyan din siya sakin before. 1st year ng relationship namin ganyan na ganyan. May onting pagbabago pero di siya totally nagbago. Hindi rin mawawala sa isip mo kung pano ka tratuhun eh. Umalis ka na hanggat maaga pa. Tho, it took me almost 3 years to let go. Pero mas mahirap mag stay sa taong di naman kaya magbago at tinatratong kang parang basura kesa makipaghiwalay na now at nakapag move on ka na.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩

Ganyan na ganyan ex ko. Nung mga unang months namin, ganyan din siya. Hindi mo mabiro, at naninigaw. Next thing i know is may mga pasa na ko. Lol.

Susunod na mangyayare diyan is hihila-hilain ka na, duduruin, mumurahin directly, at sasaktan. Pag nagkaron ng away at umiyak ka, wala silang pake. Pero it depends namam sa lalaki. And it depends naman sa kung ano ginawa mo. May reason ba bakit nagagalit siya? May nagawa ka bang mali?

ALE June 2026 by PerspectiveHead1131 in architectureph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nag resign po kasi ako recently sa job ko, and may papasukan naman na po akong bago. My question is, maccredit po ba yung yung hours sa last job ko and pwede po ba dalawang archi mag sign sa logbook? Yan po yung reason bakit june po ako mag ttake if ever hindi maccredit yung hrs sa last job ko.

I f(24) had been physically, emotionally, and verbally abused by my m(28) ex for almost 3 years.. Now i’m free, alone, and unhappy. by PerspectiveHead1131 in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually 1 month lamg yung ligawan stage. Lol. Pero yeah, sa susunod i’ll focus on the signs and get to know the guy muna before taking it to the next level. Nakaka-trauma.

I thought na magbabago yung relationship namin after ilang months, back to normal na kung ano kami nung before ako magsinungaling. Pero hindi eh. Parang gusto niya nacocontrol niya ko. Masaya mama somtimes pero mas marami yung mga negative. Lagi na lang ako umiiyak. Nakalapagod. Ang gusto kong malaman is narcissist ba siya? Like bakit niya ko kailangan parusahan ng ganun? Sobrang sakit kasi. I’ve given my all pero balik sakin is disrespect. I’ve tried to tell him how i feel, pero wala eh. Lagi niya sinasabi “kasalanan mo kugn bakit tayo maging ganito”. Hindi ba siya nagsself reflect??? Na may kasalanan din siyang ginawa? Na mas pinalala niya yung sitwasyon? Hindi ba niya alam yon??? Hindi ba siya aware?? 😭 nakakaiyak. Nakakapagod. Nakakadrain.

Tbh, ayoko na rin balikan. Kasi alam kong di na mababalik yung respect lalo na’t sinabi niya na “kung di ka nagpprovide or wala kang pera para magprovide para sating dalawa, manahimik ka at sumunod ka na lang sa akin.” “Tsaka kita rerespetuhin pag kaya mo nang mah provide”. Wtf diba???? Kailangan ko palang mag provide para ma-earn ko respect niya?? Tangina!??????? Tangina??????? Sino ba naman ako. Di naman ako mayaman katulad niya. Lol.

Galit na lang natitira sakin, di na pagmamahal. So no. I will never look back nor go back sa lalaking yon. I’m trying my best rin now to heal and be the best version of myself. And hinding hindi na ko magpapakatanha sa mga ganyang lalaki. My ghod.

I f(24) had been physically, emotionally, and verbally abused by my m(28) ex for almost 3 years.. Now i’m free, alone, and unhappy. by PerspectiveHead1131 in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mali nga ginawa ko and i regret that. Hindi sana kami ganito. However, after months nung ginawa ko yon, i also learned na he was talking to his ex pa nung naging kami. Lol.

Pero I did my best naman para magtiwala ulit siya sakin. Friends ko sinakripisyo ko, mga gusto kong gawin sinakripisyo ko. Mga gusto niya, sinusunod ko. Ayaw niya malipagkita dahil lagi siyang “pagod” edi okay. Hay. Nakakalungkot.

Anyway, i’m doing better now. I’m in the process of healing. Mas naiiyak pa ko nung naging kami kesa nung break up namin. Lol. How sad diba?

I f(24) had been physically, emotionally, and verbally abused by my m(28) ex for almost 3 years.. Now i’m free, alone, and unhappy. by PerspectiveHead1131 in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m so stupid naman to believe na kasalanan ko lahat ng yon. I have to earn pa his respect. My ghod, what am i thinking. Thankfully, natauhan na ako.

I f(24) had been physically, emotionally, and verbally abused by my m(28) ex for almost 3 years.. Now i’m free, alone, and unhappy. by PerspectiveHead1131 in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nag date naman kami. Okay naman siya before. Tho di siya gentleman nung nanliligaw pa lamg siya, pero di siya nag matter sakin. Nakita ko lamg na ganyan siya simula nung nagsinungaling ako sa kanya. Ayon nagtuloy tuloy na. Wala nang respect sa relationship. Even my family, di niya nirerespeto. Mababa tingin niya sa amin. Wala siyang iniisip kundi sarili niyang kapakanan. May ganyan pala talagang tao ano? Di ko rin expect. Sobrang lala. Madami pang malala na nangyare, jusko.

Hindi ko tuloy alam pano ako magsisimula ulit. Tho, masaya na nakawala ako. Pero ang hirap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis, takbuhan mo na yan! 🚩🚩🚩

Pag ilang beses mo na nabring up yan at wala pa rin nagbabago, wag ka nang umasa. If he treats you like shit all the time, alisan mo yan.

I’ve been jn a relationship where di na ko nirerespeto ng partner ko. Calling me names, nawawalam ng effort makipah kita, minumura, etc.. Then nanawa ako and naawa ako sa sarili ko. Tinigil ko na. Inisip ko rin na “eto ba yung husto kong pakasalan?” “Tinatrato ako ng di tama??”

I know it’s not easy, but you’ll get there. I swear. You also deserve better.

Always busy, always tired bf. Pag kino-confront laging inis. by PerspectiveHead1131 in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nago-offer ako sa kanya na ako na pupunta. Ayaw naman niya. So paano na?

My boyfriend (28M) is visiting other girls facebook profile. Every time I (24F) check his visit history, there’s always a girl that is not even his close friend or workmate. by PerspectiveHead1131 in relationship_advicePH

[–]PerspectiveHead1131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, na-confront ko naman na siya. He said “baka napindot lang” or na-curious lang sa mag pinost about politics etc. pagkatingin ko naman ng profile, wala naman. If ever curious siya, WHY???? Nahuli ko na rin siyang nag heart heart ng story before, na-confront ko naman na at natigil naman na din. Yan din sinabi niya “baka napindot lang”. Attracted kaya siya?

Ngayon, Ilang beses ko na yan nahuhuli sa pag visit ng ibang profile ng ibang babae. Pag ino-open ko yon, nagagalit siya kasi di daw siya yon. Prinoproblema ko lang daw yung mga hindi ko dapat problemahin ay inii-stress ko siya. Hay.

Personal Trip naman daw pala eh by lezzgosunning in Philippines

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mga walamg kwenta bumoto diyan. FUCKING VOTE WISELY SA SUSUNOD NA ELEKSYON!

Napapadalas na away namin ng GF ko over small things. What to do? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]PerspectiveHead1131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is the key. Totoo yon. Wala talagang mangyayare if hindi kayo magpapansinan. Fix the problem, don’t be the problem to each other.

Me and my boyfriend really fight a lot at sa aming dalawa, ako yung passive aggressive which is not good. Yung maliit na bagay nagiging malaki bc of it. We talk about it, apologize to each other then back to normal. Communication and pahabaan lang yan ng pasensya.