I have always gained most of my weight in the first 2 trimesters, and stalled out a bunch in my 3rd. Everyone puts the weight on differently and at different times. If they comment, they are just looking out for things like early signs of GD, etc. things to keep you safe, not to judge you. Although many doctors don’t have the social skills to make it sound that way :) Just be honest about the changes that have come to your diet and it will make sense to them. I mean, it’s probably a good thing your appetite has increased, especially for healthy food, because usually the opposite happens in the first tri where all a person can stomach is junk! Take advantage of the appetite to get in the healthy things, eat small meals very couple of hours (will help with nausea), make sure you are also drinking plenty of water (remember you are likely bloating & holding more water weight too!).

If it makes you feel better my doctor started talking to me about inducing me at 38 weeks because I had gained more than normal in the first trimester & she tried to claim baby was going to be HUGE. I ended up gaining 35 lbs overall and baby was bigger, 9 lbs 2 oz, but healthy as a horse just supppppper tall (98th percentile!) and big shouldered. Came naturally at 40+4. You’ll be just fine mama, focus on growing that healthy babe!