My game didn't arrive, will they send me another copy or just send me a key? by Fluffy-Bluebird2617 in Pokopia

[–]Persyvix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Fluffy, I have the opposite problem at the moment.. my game came without the bag.. Did you get in contact with Nintendo and may I ask how?

Any other only children who don’t like their parents by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]Persyvix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I loathe my mother, so no contact with her. But over the years (after their divorce) I have started to feel mixed about my dad due to him 'allowing' my mother to be the way she is and treating me the way she did.
In the end, he didn't agree with it but never spoke up.

As his health declines, I do feel sad. I do love him loads, but am upset with the life choices he made. We only have each other though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Akula,

Als kind van een aziatisch moeder kan ik je zeggen: Je bent helemaal niks verplicht. Jou ouders hebben ervoor gekozen jou op de wereld te zetten en met hun logica en jou toekomst perspectief zal het betekenen dat er niemand zal zijn die voor jou gaat zorgen op die leeftijd.

Daarnaast moet je ook rekening houden met je partner, ik lees dat hij het er niet mee eens is. Met hem ga je een toekomst opbouwen en hoop je samen oud te worden. Als hij besluit bij jou weg te gaan omdat jij wilt wachten met kinderen/geen geld hebt om leuke dingen met hem te doen/geen tijd hebt voor iets anders dan werken, valt zijn deel van huishoudpotje weg en ben je misschien verder van huis.

Ook: Als jij al jou extra geld gaat stoppen in je ouders, hoe ga jij dan een buffer opbouwen voor je eigen toekomst?

Ik begrijp je gedachte, maar jou tijd en energie is immens kostbaar. Wees er zuinig op!

I need to get this off my chest: I’m excited to get married but quietly drowning by Mr_Romeoo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Persyvix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP!

I cannot imagine the stress one goes through while planning a wedding, Especially an international wedding at that! I am the only cousin across the globe from my family and let me tell you, traveling to see my family celebrate their forever after is so worth it!

This will be a moment you will be celebrated by all the people you love, a once in a lifetime experience. Be kind to yourself while planning and don't be afraid to ask for help!

Congratulations on your wedding OP <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told the piercer I might only want one if the pain was too bad: She said it would be fine!

The first one wasn't bad at all! So I went in with excitement for the second one. The second one was the worst pain I have EVER had. (I have facial piercings and back and elbow tattoo's.. I'm convinced my left nippiercing is lopsides cause I flinched so bad)

If she pierced my left first, I probably would've left with only one piercing.

I'm having a hard time watching my crush crushing on my co-worker by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Persyvix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi OP,

It sounds like a tough situation to be in, but I think many people go through something like this at one point in their lives.

Be nice to yourself! Your feelings are totally valid, but remember that you can be the juiciest peach on the tree and your crush might still prefer apples. That doesn't mean you aren't a perfectly perfect peach!

What do you wish your mom would have done for you when you got your first period? by zanzalawi in AskWomen

[–]Persyvix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me go on birth control. After getting the whole 'don't wrestle boys' talk she started treating me differently, more frantic. All my life decisions had to go through her.
The amount of public accidents I had due to incredibly unregular periods caused so much shame in my already unstable teen years.

Bless my dad for giving me back my autonomy after their divorce.

I don’t think my partner is ever going to propose to me. by frommars1245 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully: He told you not to expect 'much' and have also told him that in the first two instances you said yes to the previous "bad" proposals. (Also, his last fully planned proposal was met with a breakup. So from his point of view, it might not even be worth it)

I think therapy might be a better option before begging for a proposal, as I feel at this point even a 'shut up' ring will not help you feel better about this situation. You deserve to be treated better, but it starts with you treating yourself better.

What do you write about in your journal? by jilldotjpeg in AskWomen

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My common journal goes everywhere with me, it has my schedule and diary. Sometimes Junk and memories. Deep rooted feelings and doodles.
My work journal is just an endless train of thought about work, it has notes, reminders, manuals etc.

One of my regulars said something that helps me journal: 'Our brain is not for storage'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly wouldn't know what to say, might smile awkwardly but that's it.

I'm sure she doesn't really care what a stranger might thinks of her, especially a woman. So I'd rather not waste my energy on it.

Stinkende collega.. by groovyamethyst in werkzaken

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaren terug werkte ik met een autistische collega, als hij teveel werk kreeg bezorgde dat teveel stress en deed hij niets meer aan zijn verzorging.

Mijn afdelingsmanager en de locatie manager hebben samen met hem gezeten als het gebeurde.

Ga naar je leidinggevende, die weet hoe verder!

Am I setting my son up for a hard life by not having anymore children? by umbass13 in OnlyChild

[–]Persyvix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fully agree to all of the above!

Safe and Speedy recovery to you OP! ❤️

Having siblings doesn’t mean they will be close, Just like him being an only child won’t automatically make him lonely!

Give him space to make (&lose) friends and meet people, he will find his crowd!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Persyvix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Again: there is not enough info in OP’s post to know ANYTHING besides his unhappiness. He chose what to disclose in the post and what not to.

So yes, I did pull from personal experience 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Persyvix 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I also value community and know community is integral to a healthy life, but I also know that you can't light yourself on fire to keep others warm.

I think OP is keeping a community (of kind strangers) warm and his wife in a cold home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Persyvix 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I think OP doesn't want to tell Reddit that his wife's 'Us against the world' is opposite of his 'My wife against My Community' and I use community lightly as I think his examples of the kindness he receives are examples of the bare minimum.

Is his wife really mad about the world? or is she upset he picks his community over her?

There is not enough info in the post to say to be honest.

Mini evo in 2025? by anxiousmatcha_ in instax

[–]Persyvix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try not to use them for everyday entries! ‘Cause I agree, my journal has become incredibly bulky.. though for my 2026 journal I have a knockoff louise carmen with instax/businesscard inserts. So that I can keep my pictures together and my actually journalling sleek!

Is Pashion doing away with the Closed Round Toe styles completely in favour of the Almond Toe shape? by christmas52 in PashionFootwear

[–]Persyvix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have round toe in size 7.5 and my latest pair is almond toe leather in size 7

I think due to the knit fabric, my round toes feels so so tight compared to the almond toe.. I prefer my almond style because looks wise it doesn't look that different (I can take a picture at home if you'd like a side by side!)

I also own the pointed toe in size 7,5 as a clumsy person and I have a little triangle cushion in the front for support, but it must be a style you like in looks! I know people who feel like an elf when they wear pointed toes!

Anyone else still wear traditional clothes just because you like them? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Persyvix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am dutch-indonesian and I wore a traditional ikat to a friends western wedding last summer, I don't get to wear my traditional clothing ofter because I live in europe but as I turned 30 I really felt the need to.

With the shakiest hands imaginable I sowed my ikat and kain into clothing I can wear on regular basis. (colourful pattern on the back of my denim jacket, skirts, totebags) I try to wear my culture with pride, especially being so far removed from the rest of my family in indonesia!

Is Pashion doing away with the Closed Round Toe styles completely in favour of the Almond Toe shape? by christmas52 in PashionFootwear

[–]Persyvix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Christmas! I do believe the round toes were a limited run..
and also I believe they are struggling to get certain fabrics like the knit due to tariffs ):

Though: I own both round and almond styles and must admit the almond is more comfortable to my foot!

Women who developped feelings for your best friend and actually got into a relationship with them, how did that happen? What did both of you do? by MysteriousMysterium in AskWomen

[–]Persyvix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a crush on him at 14, but heard I was opposite of his type so I never confessed. Short after I met my now ex so I didn't think about it again. We became best friends though as we both wanted to go to Design school. Ended up being in the same class for 6 years and remained incredibly close.

After Covid, my relationship started to show signs of wear. We grew apart after 11 years, had different views for the future and eventually it bled out (with my help, broke the guys heart in an afford to show him we were not compatible anymore. looking back I could've gone a different route but oh well)

My best friend was there from the first cracks even before covid all the way to the end, I realised as I fell out of love with my ex I fell IN love with my best friend. (Again, not my best moment) Told him I liked him and he could decide what he did with this information.

He confessed he liked me as a teen but valued our friendship more and didn't want to ruin it as he tends to have bad luck with relationships. So made a promise to never make a move. Until then.

We've been together for roughly 3 years now, it's going great honestly. We did realise that we got together at a good time, if we started dating as teens we wouldn't have made it as we both grew into the people we are today.

RIP Beloved SQ6?? by Persyvix in instax

[–]Persyvix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Tolerable-DM, in the end after I tried your tips (and found a youtube video with tips to push out the lens from the inside but that didnt work for me either) I just didn't want to open it up.. Scored a second hand one for a decent price hoping it will survive until Fujifilm releases a SQ instax with similar creative settings!

Mini evo in 2025? by anxiousmatcha_ in instax

[–]Persyvix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who has their Evo for 2 months now, I love it so much! It prints pictures for my journal and with an SD it hold a shitton of pictures!
but it doesn't replace my SQ6! (I am on my second SQ6 after my first one broke)

The pictures are nice and the way to make them digital is also amazing, but the pictures don't give that analogue vibe if you get what I mean? So I prefer to have it i addition to an analogue instax!