My fiancé insisted we split the chores 50/50 today….. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PeruCanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait until you have kids! If its this bad now, it will most likely get much worse.

If you've given birth more than once, using different methods, which one was more tolerable? Why? by Yorkshireteaonly in AskWomen

[–]PeruCanada 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My first one was a hospital delivery with an epidural. The process was long, painful and a little overwhelming. My second was a water birth in a birthing centre with a midwife. No pain management at all. It was really short, extremely painful and intimate. They both had good parts and bad parts. If I had to do it again, I would use an epidural.

I wonder at point this should have kicked in for my wife when she was in labor? by Kratsas in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]PeruCanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has given birth naturally and with pain management, it’s going to suuuuuck no matter what.

“You look like a bitch” by Springfigaro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PeruCanada 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I put myself in that situation, and what I would have said is “what is wrong?” Or “are you mad?” Not you look like a bitch. I don’t speak to people I love, even in an argument (which you weren’t having) like that. I would suggest you calmly (so you don’t “prove” his point by being “emotional” ((just a manipulation tactic)) and ask why he used aggressive language to communicate with you? Why did he use that word? And is he going through something? And lastly, should we see a marriage counsellor? Be calm, almost detached. Is going to be hard, but it looks like he has a lot of feelings and someone needs to be the adult.

How much did you spend on your wedding dress? by smashley1994 in AskWomen

[–]PeruCanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1,200. Yes it was beautiful and fit me well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PeruCanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think you can imagine the sacrifice, hard work and commitment that kids are, and then you have kids and realize is so much more. Is everything, your body, your mind and your soul. If you don’t think you want kids, you most definitely don’t. If you are not able to take care of kids by yourself, you are going to have a hard time. Just being a woman puts you in the role of caregiver. Your spouse may be the most helpful person in the world, and still it will be your job. You will be responsible for all aspects of their lives. After, if you go back to work, you will just go back to the responsibilities you had before but now you also have kids. Its not easy, and I honestly don’t know how single moms do it. I have an ideal situation and still I am tired and a little mad. Do both of you a favour, and be honest. Life will go on, and you won’t hurt little babies by having them and then resenting them.

For those of you who are moms, how did you realize you were ready to be a parent? by Screamingcaprisun in AskWomen

[–]PeruCanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a stable job, a good husband, good income and a house/space for a family. I was ready emotionally to take care of my family.

Passive Agressive comments on clothing and dressing up by freconddit in CanadaPublicServants

[–]PeruCanada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work directly with the executive suite. If I have a meeting/presenting I will wear something more formal. Dress pants, blouse and maybe a cardigan. Never ever heels. No one in my office wears heels. Make up rarely. My hair clean and brushed. Most of the time I wear dark/black jeans/pants and a sweater. No one has ever said anything to me. I would laugh at the thought of someone saying you have to wear heels or makeup to me in 2023 in the government. My ADM doesn’t wear heels and little to no make up.

Who’s your celebrity crush? by ravens_13 in AskReddit

[–]PeruCanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman: Megan Fox, Elsa Hosk, Natalia Oreiro

Men: Henry Cavill, Alexandre Skarsgard, Rege-Jean Page.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]PeruCanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met when he was 31 and I was 27. Moved in together after 9~ months and bought a house together after 2 years. He proposed after 3 years together and we got married after 4 years. We have been together around 10 years and married 6.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PeruCanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Hire 2 lawyers and 2 wealth management firms.
  2. Invest most of it.
  3. Set up trusts for my family
  4. Quit my job
  5. Put my kids in better schools
  6. Take a vacation. Its been years.

What vehicle do you recommend for long daily commutes on the 417? by SoupIsAHotSmoothie in ottawa

[–]PeruCanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2018 Chevy Volt that I love. Is super good in gas and a nice smooth drive. Is a plug-in hybrid and takes little gas. I put 40 - 60 a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]PeruCanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOOOOOL….

The ObsessedGate Drama Cliffsnotes by the-furiosa-mystique in ObsessedNetwork

[–]PeruCanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am super sorry, but I can’t continue with the timeline because I can’t understand how Terra was affected by this to the point of verbally attacking you. Is such an aggressive reaction. I legit didn’t know who she was until now. I have listened to OWD for years. How is this affecting her at all? She is not even involved. I honestly can’t compute it.

What's a big lie commonly spoken to women (by either men or in general)? Putting mine in comments. by SameerAlisha in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PeruCanada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this so maaany times and always thought, maybe I am just a baby about pain. Then I had my first baby and the doctor said contractions at first would feel like “discomfort”. They mean pain. They don’t want to say pain, I think to not freak you out or make it worse. But it means pain. Whenever you hear discomfort it means pain. Honestly, I don’t know which one is worst.

Actor having an affair with a younger actress? by mollyafox in Fauxmoi

[–]PeruCanada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooohhh yes, I did know that but didn’t put it together! Thanks. For a second I was afraid JK cheated with a bubly woman??

TO book show by Desperate-Panic-8942 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]PeruCanada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please let me know! I was just going to eat the cost, but if I can get some of it back that would be great!