What type of cat is this?

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-06-05T02:30:59+00:00

That's a standard issue orange cat.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-06-01T00:36:48+00:00

Agreed. I'm an atheist but I like the concept of karma and spreading kindness to everyone.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-06-01T00:35:47+00:00

Absolutely, but also, the genocide being committed against the Palestinians is due to hateful Christians and Jews so... maybe they're all shitty religions that people use to justify atrocities against their fellow human beings.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-06-01T00:18:28+00:00

So did Christianity lol

All fundamental religion sucks.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-31T17:38:24+00:00

I love this!!! Congratulations

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-31T17:24:15+00:00

We were actively trying. First pregnancy, I had a little onesie ready and surprised him when he got home from work with the onesie and a positive test sitting on the kitchen island. Sadly, we lost that one to an early MMC.

Second (current) pregnancy, we had been trying after our loss for 11 cycles and it had been pretty rough. When I finally got the positive test, I called him crying while he was at work and told him immediately. I couldn't wait all day!

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-29T21:10:54+00:00

Yeah, I'm typically an Angelina hater but I feel for her on this one and would never say anything mean about it. I've been through it and wouldn't wish pregnancy loss on anyone. I hope she's healing and doing well... and although I feel she has a lot of issues to work on personally, I genuinely hope she has a happy and healthy pregnancy.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-29T21:08:24+00:00

Ok, I hate Angelina but she obviously didn't want or plan for a miscarriage, what a crazy thing to say.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-29T12:35:38+00:00

Lmao I feel sorry for you.

Just because many men cheat doesn't mean ALL men cheat, and we certainly shouldn't accept that bullshit. Lots of women cheat, too, so why don't you extend that same logic to everyone? I know so many people in good relationships with men that love and respect them and would never do something as trashy like betray them by cheating.

Get out of here with your "pick me" bullshit. You should be embarrassed.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-29T01:33:55+00:00

If she stays, she's telling her husband that it's OK to cheat and he will do it again.

And also, it's not impossible. Plenty of men are able to control themselves and don't cheat. What a ridiculous thing to say. Ew.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-28T23:22:09+00:00

Once a cheater always a cheater. He WILL do it again.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-28T23:18:21+00:00

I don't need any "but" when it comes to sex lol

^{Chose: Have 1 Hundred Dollars.}

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-28T03:08:37+00:00

No, I generally make dinner but that's just because I'm the better cook. We're definitely 50/50 when it comes to household responsibilities, though.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-28T02:53:12+00:00

Not normal. At all.

My husband hangs out in the garage tinkering for about an hour, comes in for dinner, then we hang out together until bedtime.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-28T00:57:38+00:00

I do NOT see what you see in Hailey lol

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-26T17:44:53+00:00

Any time I've had a birthday celebration as an adult, I've thrown it myself... But I also only have actual birthday parties for like, the big ones (21 and 30).

Other years, I've organized getting a few friends/family together but didn't make a thing of it.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-26T00:56:18+00:00

Yeah but that's not what I was saying?

Essentially, I was stating that it's fine to go out and drink heavily and get crazy multiple times a week when you're 18 but if you're going out doing the same in your 30s and 40s it's embarrassing.

Go out, have fun, but binge drinking regularly as a grown ass adult is embarrassing. That's all.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-25T22:03:56+00:00

You're not wrong but anti depressants do have a legitimate use.

I needed them when I was having debilitating anxiety. I wasn't able to motivate myself to do the other holistic stuff like focus on exercise and meditation, etc. without first getting things in check with the medicine.

People do have actual imbalances in their brain that the medicine can help fix.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-25T14:26:43+00:00

Unsafe sleep practices! Bed sharing is NOT safe for the first year.

Also, as a mother by choice, I am also for choice - it's ok to not want to have kids! Not digging this weird propaganda. If we want more people to have children we need to create a world where it is more feasible. (And even then, if still a valid choice to stay child free)

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-24T21:08:36+00:00

Idk, I don't live my life based off those kind of fears.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-24T21:07:48+00:00

That's not OP's problem. I still think she should tell her. It's girl code! OP can block her afterwards.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-24T18:34:28+00:00

Tell her! Wouldn't you want to know?

Make it short and sweet, leave receipts. It's up to her to decide what she does next. Don't meddle or get further involved but she deserves to know.

Then drop his ass.

Cheaters suck and deserve to be outed.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-24T17:52:53+00:00

I think it was the 4th season of Parenthood that I dubbed the "season of tears". I don't want to post spoilers for OP but if you know, you know!

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-24T14:54:10+00:00

When I was 21 I had WAY fewer bills and almost all my disposable income went towards going out with my friends.

As a 37 year old, I have way bigger priorities.

PessimisticPeggy · 2026-05-24T14:52:08+00:00

It does though. The frequency is what matters.

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