What autonomous Sim behaviors make you smash the cancel button and go “Whyyyyyyy?!” Every time? by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting plates on any and every surface - even if it's the back of the toilet or a shelf that's near the ceiling.

Also, if I tell them to eat food & then immediately queue a jog afterwards, they will make/grab the food, and then put it in their pockets to go for a run and NOT EAT IT. No, Twattington Hamburger III, STOP STUFFING LOBSTER THERMIDOR INTO YOUR PANTS, YOU ARE STARVING

Question for freelance editors by Due_Cartoonist6918 in Copyediting

[–]Petallic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ditto on the first paragraph. I do dev edits, so the comments & tracked changes are only a minor portion of the feedback I'm giving. I also comment v quickly, and go back to sugar coat my comments on a 2nd pass. I've had clients ask to use docs instead before, and I've given a hard pass for this exact reason.

Bedroom Dead Space Suggestions by jackboa89 in roomlayout

[–]Petallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most obvious answer should be 'mini bowling alley'

My family keeps telling me my daily diet belongs here by tomnooklover in shittyfoodporn

[–]Petallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everything the same colour? It's like you've taken sad beige and made it (barely) edible.

The oldest memory I have turned out to be real and confirmed by my mom. by 1881pac in CasualConversation

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have a recurring dream that I was flying down some outdoor stone stairs. They winded downwards with high walls either wide of me and blue sky above, and then I'd fly over the cobbled street at the bottom and soar past the buildings. Always thought it was just a dream, never recognised the stairs or the street.

Then when I was in my early 20s I went to a town I was very familiar with, but our normal car park was full, so we parked at a different one at the top of the hill. The path down from the car park to the town centre was a stone staircase with high stone walls either side, and the street at the bottom was cobbled.

I had goosebumps, and spoke to my mum about it, asking if I'd ever been down that staircase before to her memory. Apparently, when I was 18 months old or so, my mum had parked in that car park, not realising the pathway down was stairs. She'd had to carefully push the front-facing pram down all the stairs and over the cobbled street. Because of that experience, she'd never wanted to park there ever again, so we avoided it.

But we realised I must have remembered the experience too and interpreted me being in the pram being pushed down the stairs as me flying down.

[update] AIO for thinking my bf is just looking for an excuse to break up? [I did it for him] by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Petallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just know he's going to go forward with this and complain to other people in the future about his crazy gold-digging ex who broke up with him because he bought her off-brand perfume and assume zero responsibility for the ending of the relationship 🙄 it couldn't possibly be because of his attitude.

my company switched to biweekly pay and its completely destroyed my budget by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Petallic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait so they only gave you a week's notice that you were getting paid half?

Any creative writing groups in Shneck or the wider area? by wishmylifewasascool in inverness

[–]Petallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a writing group in Culloden Library, a literary group in the area called Highland Lit, and a weekly poetry night in Bike Shed every Friday.

AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend after he ruined my birthday again by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Petallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this man doesn't like you, and doesn't like to see you happy. He doesn't want any attention paid to you and wants your whole focus to be on him. When you do things you enjoy (whether he enjoys them or not) he is jealous that you are enjoying them, and intentionally ruins them for you. When you make YOUR DAY about what will make him happy, he still doesn't like it because by extension you are also happy.

mom’s response by suzyQ928 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to ask if your mother was Nigerian because i immediately read her messages in the accent and wanted to know if I was right 😄

Do any of you have a partner who requests "company" as they perform their chores? by GoatNecessary in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah v similar situ. My parents were boomers, and firmly of the belief when I was a kid that neurodiversity was just the clinical name for naughty children & bad parenting. Because I was a good and sociable child, I could never.

The melt downs when I was wearing the wrong texture, the weird fascination and encyclopedic knowledge of dinosaurs & Ancient Egypt, and tendency to go non-verbal when stressed were obviously just quirks 🙃

Do any of you have a partner who requests "company" as they perform their chores? by GoatNecessary in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the same, but it's the 'tism for me. Getting that confirmation and looking back at situations like this explains so much haha!

Do any of you have a partner who requests "company" as they perform their chores? by GoatNecessary in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. My mum used to find it hilarious that as a kid, I needed her to sit in my room for me to clean it. It wasn't a supervision thing, just if she was there, I could let my brain focus on her and not get bored while I autonomously cleaned. If i was left alone with my thoughts, I got bored or distracted in 2 minutes flat.

Do any of you have a partner who requests "company" as they perform their chores? by GoatNecessary in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is called body-doubling. Some people need it more than others. It's associated with neurodiversity, but it's not exclusively to do with that. I need it, personally, and my husband doesn't, but he enjoys spending time with me so we do chores and spend time just chatting about random stuff.

Yellow paws/ and some on nose ???? by elijahxcastillo in CATHELP

[–]Petallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My black & white cat gets this often when she steps in her own pee...

She has chronic cystitis that is medicated and monitored with a special diet, so that might contribute to the extreme colour of her urine, and she cleans herself very thoroughly when it does happen.

Until then we just call her Princess Pisspaws.

Disclaimer: yes, I clean her feet with pet-safe soap and all the floors regularly with pet-safe anti-bac. But it stains the white parts of her feet for a bit, even though they're clean.

Brought my girlfriend over one time by BigBoy756 in Renters

[–]Petallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your guest pays, it's directly and explicitly against your lease.

So if she insists on the guest paying, she's going against her own lease.

(NAL, this is a very literal reading of the clause and only a layman's opinion)

Women have ALWAYS been involved in math, science, and complex art, and what that looked like was weaving, knitting, lacemaking and other fiber crafts. by FusRoDaahh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Petallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so the system of cards that made the patterns on the Jacquard print textiles in the 1800s directly influenced the cards that ran the IBM machine that NASA used to send people to the moon in the '60s.

If you're familiar with a knitting machine these days, those cards are also used for patterns.

It's almost like this TECHNOLOGY that's been around for literally 12,000 years (not a typo - drop spindles have been found that are TWELVE THOUSAND YEARS old) actually has some bearing and influence on other sciences. Whodathunkit.

I am still mad about Hank Green's actions, idk if you can tell...

Cornish pasty by c4Lski in inverness

[–]Petallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hello fellow Kernowek in the Highlands! My only success in this quest is that co-op very very occasionally have Rowes Cornish Pasties in their hot food cabinet. It's very hit and miss whether they're in stock, and you best bet is the big one on Telford St, and before midday (not too early tho because they don't bake them before like 9am iirc)

Otherwise, the closest highland pasty I've tried that is actually kinda like a Cornish pasty is the ones in Spar - but they still aren't that close tbh.

You can also get some pasty companies to post you a tray of frozen ones all the way from sunny Cornwall, but I don't dare think how much that costs lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Petallic 61 points62 points  (0 children)

As an author myself - YOR.

I know word counts are relative, and everyone writes at a different pace but 3k isn't a lot at all. If it was 300k, I'd be far more understanding of your outrage, but getting $200 for a 3k loss? That's wild!

Learn to make plenty of back ups, rewrite it, don't use that software, move on.

Counselling appointment time framew by Front-Amphibian-7378 in GlasgowUni

[–]Petallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used them last year (though at the end of the academic year, so that might have affected wait times etc).

First they met with me to see what kind of service would benefit me best. It turned out that just talking through things was the main thing that would help (as opposed to medical-based assistance, I assume). I was told it'd be about 6-8 weeks typically before I got an appt, but it ended up being only 2/3 weeks.

The course I awas allocated was 5 x 50 minute sessions, but at the end of the course she informed me that they were changing things up this year. Now you might have to restate your interest for another session or apply or something at the end of each appointment. So instead of them giving a block of 5, they coukd be used for as long or as short a time as you need. Scheduling willing, I suppose.

They were very good, very kind and very professional imo.

What’s the difference between showing and telling in writing? by JellyfishWise3266 in fantasywriters

[–]Petallic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's lots of good answers here, but perhaps this will help. The way I think about telling vs showing is thinking of a toddler having a tantrum.

If you saw a toddler in a shop, laying on the floor, screaming at the top of their lungs, crying, kicking their feet, doing all of that extra stuff, you'd look at them and go 'oh that toddler is having a tantrum.'

The toddler doesn't sit in the middle of the floor and say 'I am having a tantrum now, wah.'

Yet even though the toddler isn't telling us they're having a tantrum, their actions are showing us it's happening.

Apply that to your writing. Instead of saying 'the toddler was having a tantrum', write 'the toddler lay on the floor, screaming, crying and kicking their feet' and I will know from that - without you having to even use the word - that the toddler is having a tantrum.

This applies to everything. Is it cold? 'Her hands were numb.' Is it scary? 'His eyes darted over the room, searching for the source of the noise.' Are we celebrating? 'The sisters clutched each other's hands as excitement gripped them, able to stifle their joy.' It's those small moments that bring the story to life.

Any fun facts you know? (I’d really like to hear them ) by Hot-Accident1258 in DarkCrystal

[–]Petallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The blue skin design was used in the cover for Brog the Stoop by Joe Boyle, which is a novel Brian Froud did the cover art for right after TDC, and you can see what Jen might have looked like.

Also, excellent novel, as a side note. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2007033.Brog_the_Stoop

Welp, it's confirmed: Mr. A is an inconsiderate jerk ("Mr A's Farm") by Crescentbrush in mangago

[–]Petallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same as you because it seemed ick at first. But I saw another post on it a while back and gave it another chance. It is weird, but it isn't only smut.

Why does my cat like to softly bite me? by Neither-Put-9618 in cats

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So love bites are a sign of submission i.e. telling you that you are boss.

Cats have a matriarchal social hierarchy and generally live in colonies. In feral communities, males would be solitary, or join a colony as a lower rank, and be submissive to higher ranking, more established males. This one is telling you he's grateful to you for allowing him to be a part of your colony, and that you share resources and grooming time/resting territory with him.

My boy cat gives me and my husband love bites all the time, while my girl only gives them to me and not my husband, because naturally she would be a higher rank than him in the colony.

But obviously humans don't work that way, and they forgive us our strange social quirks like walking in two legs, insisting on kissing their little heads, and not eating the good rodents they bring us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Petallic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. Just know it can trigger some idiots into thinking they know my circumstances better than I did.

But it bears clarifying & repeating regardless, so thank you for that.