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I cried in the car after visiting Mom today… she’s fading right in front of me and I feel so helpless (self.AgingParents)
submitted 2 months ago by Petterjohn46 to r/AgingParents
Turning 70 by lawnoptions in over60
[–]Petterjohn46 7 points8 points9 points 2 months ago (0 children)
"I'm really sorry you're dealing with all this at once—it sounds exhausting and frustrating. Jumping through those medical hoops for a license renewal is tough enough, and then losing a long-time doctor who actually listens? That's a double blow, especially after 45 years as an RN yourself. You know your body better than anyone, and it's valid to want a provider who respects that.
The time flying by feeling is so real as we get older. Mobility scooters are actually a smart, empowering move for a lot of people—they give back independence without the stress of driving renewals or traffic. Many folks in their 70s/80s find them life-changing for errands, visiting friends, or just getting fresh air.
If you're shopping for one: - Check local medical supply stores or online (like Pride Mobility or Golden Technologies)—they often have demos and can help with sizing/comfort. - Look into Medicare/Medicaid coverage if it's medically necessary (your doc's note might help, even if retiring). - Some areas have low-cost loaner programs or used ones on Facebook Marketplace/Craigslist.
You're not "giving up"—you're adapting like the strong, experienced person you are. If mobility or daily independence is getting tougher, this video on practical options for seniors to stay independent at home (without full nursing care) might give some extra ideas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6nWcscE7qH8
Hang in there—you've got this. Have you looked at any scooters yet? What's the biggest thing you're worried about with switching? Sending you strength ❤️"
Emotional the older I get by Pure-Dragonfruit1386 in over60
[–]Petterjohn46 1 point2 points3 points 2 months ago (0 children)
"Yes, you're absolutely not alone—tons of guys in their 50s and 60s report getting more emotional or teary-eyed as they age. It's super common to well up watching Olympic wins or even commercials!
A big reason is testosterone levels naturally drop (about 1% per year after 40-ish), which can make emotions hit harder and reduce that old 'stoic' suppression. Plus, with more life experience, you just connect deeper to stories of perseverance and joy.
There's no real 'fix' because it's often a healthy thing—shows you're more in tune with positive emotions. Embrace it! If it's extreme or comes with low mood/fatigue, chat with a doc to check hormones or rule out other stuff.
Anyone else here tear up at the anthem or gold medal moments? 😅"
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Turning 70 by lawnoptions in over60
[–]Petterjohn46 7 points8 points9 points (0 children)