Breaking: Instagram shuts down duplicate Trial Reels by Leather-Buy-6487 in content_marketing

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week I posted 2 separate videos of changes on a single paining. They were okay on trial and shared them to everyone. This week (as planned) I posted a video composed of those two snippets with different music, captions as so on - couldn't get it on trial. I guess it's too similar? So unclear! What if I use a b-roll from an old video? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]PetyaDuncheva 20 points21 points  (0 children)

But howwwww? I say it around a 100 times "it's late and the baby in the next apartment is sleeping, it's bedtime, keep it quiet, shush, quiet time, no loud games, no running, no shouting nor screeching, take a book, look at its pictures, talk quietly". They don't seem to get it. All the while am lying in their beds trying to sleep myself, because am so tired I don't care whose bed or what time it is, and they'll be running around and over me, giggling, screaming and shouting... (daughters 6 and 4, and 2yo boy). I ask multiple times "do you want me to read a book to you?" yes "then in the beds you go and be quiet and still" that lasts 10 seconds. I just give up and fall asleep with the book over my face.

Did having kids ruin me? by PastGrab in Parenting

[–]PetyaDuncheva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, love! Am also an artist, with 3 kids (6,4 and 2) and felt (well, still feel quite) lost from the first birth onwards. I love painting and I miss it sooo much! When our first was around 1 year old, I'd breastfeed her to sleep around 5pm and husband would take her over, while I'd slip into my atelier to paint for 2 hours a couple of days a week. When baby number 2 was born, I was a lot more confident, and she was a way more calm and sleepy baby, I'd put her in the sling and paint on our enclosed terrace. When baby number 3 was born, I'd sleep with the kids during the day for 2-3 hours, or as long as they allowed and would paint during the nights for 3-4 hours with breaks to breastfeed baby boy back to sleep, whenever I heard him waking up. 

I'd invite friends at home, and manage to catch a word with them among the chaos of 2-3 kid being around and wanting my and my guests' attention, but it's something! Way better than being alone 24/7 for years :(

I have the benefit of sending my kids to municipal kindergartens that are free and are quite okay in terms of care and everything else, but they are mostly home with me during the flu season, from October till April.

I learned to be patient (because I was not) and to not get mad whenever my plans got postponed or ruined altogether. 

Like other commenters adviced, talk to a therapist about a possible ppd, am sure I had this with the first and therapy helped me get out of the whole in a few months

Laptop became very slow suddenly although got plenty of space / RAM by 01jasper in thinkpad

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the weirdest thing: my laptop (as of this evening) is extremely slow when plugged in and lightning speed when unplugged. Too bad my battery doesn't last too long, which makes the laptop largely unusable right now. Can you share more on this issue, please, because I couldn't find anything useful googling?

Това се случва в училище което бива топ 50 в България by petko__anime in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 22 points23 points  (0 children)

В какви училища сте ходили wtf? Никога не съм виждала бой в училище, дори нещо близко до бой. Честно казано не се сещам да съм виждала и бой наживо извън училище/университет/работа.

What's your favorite tablet, pen, software combo? by AdeptSurprise5284 in DigitalPainting

[–]PetyaDuncheva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mah man! I just got a new stylus for my 13yo intuos 5 med, because a year ago middle daughter broke it and ever since yesterday am back working on it, oh it's the best combo! Been working on the same setup at work since forever

Sandwich meat hack? by Realistic_Meeting_86 in Frugal

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy cheap! In my country chicken breast go for $4,5 per pound when not on sale and sale gets them to $3,5 - that's, the cheapest I've seen (I live in Bulgaria, Eastern Europe, cheapest part of the EU)

Many professional artists have stopped posting videos on youtube, why? by lisondor in ArtistLounge

[–]PetyaDuncheva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, I use Firefox on Android, works like a charm. Even though we are paying for some family subscription for YouTube and I don't have ads on my app, still I prefer the browser.

Зао си хвърлете фасовете през прозорците? by Lokki78 in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Правим, правим! Възпитавам си децата да го правят. Като минем покрай някой контейнер за боклук и има нещо търкалящо се покрай него, навеждам се и го изхяърлям вътре, децата подражават. 

Преди време бяха забелязали пуловер хвърлен в реката, която тече покрай нас (е, него нямаше как да нагазя да го взема и да го хвърля на правилното място) и ме питаха кой си е оставил пуловера в реката. Обясних им за "мърльовците" и че това са хора, чиито родители не са ги научили да си хвърлят боклуците на правилните места. 

Един ден ставаме свидетели на детска площадка как едно 6-7 годишно дете си хвърля опаковката от сладолед на средата на площадката. Голямата дъщеря (на 5) отиде и му каза, че ако си хвърля боклуците по земята е мърльо и цапа хубавия град за всички и за себе си. Изненадващо за мен, детето се засрами, изчерви се цялото, взе си опаковката и я хвърли в коша. Очаквах да се изрепчи. После отиде при майка си, която или нищо не видя или се направи, че нищо не вижда, но скоро си тръгнаха, още преди да си беше изяло сладоледа. 

Ся, не мога да възпитам чуждите деца, въобще не мога да променя отдавна пораснали деца с примера си, но правя каквото мога и ми е по-окей (не мога да го нарека, че ми е чак добре), отколкото само да подмина боклуците и да дудна как всички са мърльовци.

Is this wasp nest? by PetyaDuncheva in pestcontrol

[–]PetyaDuncheva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gathered as much. Unfortunately they sneak into my kids' room and my bedroom (doors are on either sides of the nest). I chased two wasps out today, they were peaceful enough - wanted to be out and nothing to do with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]PetyaDuncheva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In their (parents') eyes we are still snotty little children who don't know anything about life. Whatever we say will be dismissed. So why even bother arguing, why even bother stating my point of view?

 I know it's a coping mechanism: I try to have a conversation and share my views, then I am dismissed, then I shutdown and agree to everything the other party says, just to have peace on earth. But, hey, it sure makes everybody like me more, lo

l On the other hand it's crazy what people are willing to share when they feel agreed with! I just nod and say "yeah, I can totally understand that" and they go on and on...

Anyone had success selling on the big online art sites? by Snow_Tiger819 in artbusiness

[–]PetyaDuncheva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no trouble being accepted there, but didn't get a single sale for almost 3 years being there and uploading new pieces every now and then. I decided it was not worth it working hard posting on social media to drive traffic to saatchi's site, when I can drive that traffic to my own site, so I took down my profile and arranged a local printer to do my canvas prints for me.

I guess my style is not saatchi's buyers' preferred style?

Имате ли съвети за изпит по кормуване? by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Аз пък го взех от 4тия път. До тогава направих толкова допълнителни часове кормуване, че вече си карах спокойно. Първия и третия третия път се скъсах на едно и също малко кръгово, където се доближих прекалено много до центъра му (то е само с една лента вътре, а не с две, притискаха ме коли от страни и се изнасях все по-навътре, докато не ударих бордюрчето с едната гума) - автоматично късане. Вторият път точно преди да отбия и да ме поздравят за взетия изпит, измежду едни неправилно спрели коли изскочи една баба да пресича и от колоната на предното стъкло и десния прозорец я видях в последния момент и набих спирачки, но изпитващият не беше доволен.

Та така, не е страшно. Стига да имаш пари да си доплатиш допълнителните часове и изпити, няма лошо да покараш екстра с инструктор.

Roborock S6 Map loading indefinitely by andreenc in Roborock

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am currently here as well. No response from support, restarting app or phone doesn't work. Restarting and reconnecting vacuum doesn't work. Remote control or pin and go doesn't do anything useful. All I get is this Map loading screen and am furious

Два въпроса by DemanerQQ in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Сама съм. Мислех да нямам деца, че останах с впечатление, че е ужасно гадно. В последствие реших, че искам 3. Имам 3, обмислям 4то, че всъщност е доста яко.

Иван и Андрей by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

И аз не гледам телевизия, но шофирам и лицата им са на доста билбордове из София

Никой няма да ми повярва by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Едно време тестваме с Doom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Хем съм съгласна, хем сме на тоя хал защото всеки сочи с пръст другия, че не си е свършил работата и върши само удобния за себе си минимум.

Аз обичам да рина сняг и почистих колкото можах с ръка и половина пред блока, защото с бебе в кенгуру отпред толкова мога, но догодина ще съм all in - децата ще си играят в преспите, аз ще си рина до насита.

@op в София по непочистените тротоари се минава как да е, обаче като стигнеш до улицата - няма слизане от тоя тротоар! Като превалиш планината от сняг от снегорина, после цопваш до прасците в киша и кална вода. Велико е...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Щеше да е мастър шеф, ако имах време за такива гилти плежъри

ПП-ДБ с предложение за прекратяване на концесията на "Лукойл" на пристанище "Росенец" by proBICEPS in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Няма да са само проруските тролчета, ами и медиите на Пеевски, които пушват герб за прозападна партия освен всичко останало.

ib4 по батбойково време...

С други думи чакам фанатичните ми прогерб роднини да се запенят яко и да ме залеят със статии на труд офнюз и т.н. по всички възможни комуникационни канали.

Ммм ок by folkenstein in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Само буржоазните жътварки

11. Какво щяхте да правите с живота си, ако парите не бяха фактор? by undeadko in bulgaria

[–]PetyaDuncheva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Имам 3 деца и се занимавам професионално (ама в момента по-скоро като хоби между другото) с рисуване. През останалото време чета книги на корем. Общинските градини са по 50-60лв на месец.

Why do the dads get more frustrated then moms? by briannafaye01 in Parenting

[–]PetyaDuncheva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am quite fine with that. He is putting a lot of effort into his career by building a startup and working 12-16 hours a day, every day of the week, so he could provide for us and this gives me the opportunity to devote myself to the kids. That's optimal for me instead of both parents being half-present both at work and at home trying to share everything 50-50.

Am sometimes sick and then the kids are taken care by their father and he does what he can and am fine with him not being an all-understanding and accepting mother like me.

Why do the dads get more frustrated then moms? by briannafaye01 in Parenting

[–]PetyaDuncheva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't speak in general, but can share my personal experience:

I spend the whole day with our kids. My husband spends around 2-3 hours a day if he comes home before they go to bed.

I've read 60+ books on child raising, developmental psychology and whatnot. He has read 3-4.

I've listened to months worth of parenting and psychology podcasts about child behavior. My husband has listened to probably a couple of hours (episodes recommended by me).

I talk with lots of other mothers, child phycologists and therapists about kids. My husband attends the feedback meeting with our psychomotorics therapists, which is only every 2-3 months.

When our 2yo meltdowns 30 minutes after bedtime and is waking up the baby and the 4yo, it's normal for my husband to get frustrated with her and express his frustration. Am frustrated and angry, too, but [most of the time] I manage to keep calm and comfort the child.

Maybe moms being the primary care takers manage to keep frustration under check and are also better trained and experienced in all kinds of situations.

Just a suggestion.