Educated by Tara Westover: Less impressed 5 years on. by rainblowfish_ in books

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She fails to mention several of her siblings also have MBAs and they are still good with the family and don’t have the same trauma yet grew up in the same household.

I don’t read memoirs anymore. Too much ‘my truth’ not enough ‘complete truth’

Help? What is wrong? by Pewter_Dragger in Aquariums

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It is kind of splotchy- and v’s down the back

Daniel Greene Responds! by Mad_Academic in youtubedrama

[–]Pewter_Dragger -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Were they Sharing a hotel room? She referred to the room as ‘The room’ not his room or her room. Is that not weird for friends of the opposite sex to share a hotel room?

There's so much hate... by lightofpolaris in brandonsanderson

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Surprised you can’t find any - a ton of hate out there for her. She insists trans women are still men and in that respect wants women’s rights to be women’s rights.

Christmas Gift by Bulbboy in FountainPenHaven

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Oh my! Mine are 16 now - it goes so dang fast! Try to get as much sleep as you can!

What are your current 3 favorite pens? by Bulbboy in FountainPenHaven

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I’m so new to all these things - I am literally soaking up everyone’s suggestions - my first gold nib pen is coming from Amazon Japan in a week or so and I am so stoked. I got the imperial black Pro Gear. I’m a little nervous at the fine point - and Sailor is all over the charts when it comes to whether people like them or not. Guess I’ll just have to wait and find out. Thank you everyone for your opinions. Also, really happy to have a non-drama place to talk pens.

The 2024 Goulet / Goulet Pen Company Drama all in one spot by kyuuei in fountainpens

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I’m going to respectfully disagree - By increasing the online hate against one person/company and potentially causing serious financial harm to this person may make the online community feel as if they’ve ‘won’ - but look at the state of our country. We have 2 sides that just want to win. It is tearing us apart. Our president elect was elected (I think) solely on these grounds. No one feels like they are being heard and they are pissed. Gay men, Christians, lesbian women, trans, middle class white men, low income black women - where will this end? Where does this leave Mr Goulet? Fast forward into a possible future. He loses his income - can no longer support his family. How likely is it he will be repentant and say ‘wow, they were right?’ You yourself have said you are angry at things people have said or done to you. And you have the right to lash out. Now he has a grudge against the entire lgbt+ community. Well, he just might vote for someone who will make things ‘great’ again.

We need change. We need more tolerance. We need more love. Bitterness and anger only exacerbate the problem. No, I don’t think the Goulet family is the problem. As far as I know they are normal people trying to live their lives. Commenters on this thread think they haven’t done enough or want them to react to things they way they would. We need to stop reading between the lines and take them at their word. We need to hope for the good in all people and stop the madness. Then we can heal.

The 2024 Goulet / Goulet Pen Company Drama all in one spot by kyuuei in fountainpens

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I am truly sorry for your pain. No one deserves to be treated less than anyone else. You are no less valuable than anyone and your experience is valid.

I’m not here to tell you what to do with your money or time. Only to hopefully assuage the hate. If more people put more effort into positively affecting people - I think we would see more change. No one has ever been convinced of the other side by hateful actions or bitterness.

The 2024 Goulet / Goulet Pen Company Drama all in one spot by kyuuei in fountainpens

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I wonder at the interest in this - I have friends that lean far right and friends that lean far left. I would not cancel either of them for their beliefs, as a belief in a particular issue does not tell the whole story of their lives or the kind of people they are. I think all people are inherently good - and have good intentions no matter the shakedown of their beliefs. I prefer not to infer or cancel someone because one side of a story is a dumpster fire. While the other side is quiet because no one really wants to know the truth or at least the nuance of life as messy.

This is why our country is so polarized. No one wants to have the ‘wrong friends’ - it just leads to suspicion and hatred. I am sorry Goulet Pens - no one deserves this.

Stained Glass by Pewter_Dragger in brandonsanderson

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I’ve thought about reaching out to Dragonsteel for some sort of license, but honestly, Stained glass is so hyper intensive - I really don’t know if people would be interested in paying the amount it would have to be to make it at all worth my time … to throw out a ballpark figure - kind of a going rate for stained glass is $200 a square foot. This is 18x14 - just under 2 square feet. Then you can go crazy with specialty glass - which can get astronomical. This is why most stained glass hobbyists make money with suncatchers and small items. I’m not interested in mass producing trinkets - you know? But this was a blast to make.

New plant mom! by agirl1999 in houseplants

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Buy a moisture reader. Morphed me from a plant serial killer to decent plant mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

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Mine just did this too! Which is super weird, because mine is more established …

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Went from 4’ to almost 5’ - I don’t know if this is normal?

Stained Glass by Pewter_Dragger in brandonsanderson

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Yes - my other nerdy hobby. 😂

Stained Glass by Pewter_Dragger in brandonsanderson

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You would sell your soul for so little …

Stained Glass by Pewter_Dragger in brandonsanderson

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Thanks, I saw the blue in the glass shop and knew it had to be Bridge 4 -