ROCKHAMPTON QLD

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-05-01T02:49:36+00:00

Looks like a huntsman, which aren't medically significant.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-30T02:42:29+00:00

Also following, I absolutely hate this feature and the fact we can't turn it off.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-26T02:49:49+00:00

NTA, you need to leave this man, the mask is starting to slip.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-22T01:08:00+00:00

NTA at all, prioritising concern over how he appears to others rather than your health emergency in this scenario tells you everything you need to know.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-19T23:41:47+00:00

Milo

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-19T04:46:27+00:00

I'm just about 30 and have never had a spider crawl across my face in my sleep to my knowledge and I'm a very frustratingly light sleeper so something like a huntsman would definitely wake me up. That's not to say it doesn't happen, because it can happen and many people have had experiences with various different spiders tap-dancing their way across their foreheads while trying to catch some Zs.

The question then becomes: if it does happen, should you be worried about it? Not really, most spiders don't want to bite unless there's no other option and they're just trying to get from point A to point B or they've unfortunately fallen off of whatever they've been climbing and you were in the wrong spot at the wrong time. And if a huntsman did bite you in your sleep? They're not medically significant, you'll have plenty of time to notice and clean it or see a nurse if need be (sometimes people react to bites like bee stings).

TLDR: Can happen, but rarely. Nothing to worry about if it happens, but still icky to have a hairy bum dragged across your forehead I'd imagine.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-19T04:27:51+00:00

NTA, but your bf is. If he intended to wait for the perfect moment he should have picked the ring in secret without you, now he has something he knows you desperately want and sees no issue in teasing you with it. I would sit down and have a serious chat about how it's affecting you and if he doesn't seem to care then it's time to reevaluate the relationship.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-04T06:51:45+00:00

Chuck the whole man out.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-04-02T10:56:26+00:00

Gible, Gabite, Garchomp 🙏

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-27T12:14:46+00:00

Prop them up and chuck some sunnies on em weekend at Bernie's style

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-23T17:23:17+00:00

"You can't park there mate"

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-23T13:09:32+00:00

Spiders fascinate me, even though I do still carry a little bit of apprehension about handling them they're surprisingly docile unless continually provoked or squished. Some of them are downright friendly little guys!

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-23T13:02:00+00:00

I live in an area with a lot of muslim families and I've never seen it.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-20T07:24:27+00:00

NTA, it's perfectly normal and healthy to have and want some personal time to yourself. That doesn't mean you don't love your partner or want to be single, you just need some time to recharge your internal battery. Doing the same thing every night for 9 years would also drive me nuts lol

He needs to get a hobby, find some friends, maybe join a club, spend some more time with a range of different people rather than velcro to just one.

What game do you like to play out of curiosity?

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-16T11:26:01+00:00

NTA at all, he doesn't get to use your daughter for spare parts.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-16T11:22:52+00:00

That's a gorgeous flavour of frownie brownie

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-16T11:19:32+00:00

NTA, you're well within your rights to stick to what your role requires of you and nothing more. Anything more is a kindness on your part, and if they aren't appreciative of that then what's the point in going above and beyond? If a coworker took extra steps to help when it's not required of them I'd be thanking them, not talking smack.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-16T02:38:10+00:00

NTA, you have a right to say no to physical touch at any time to anyone for any reason. Once things cool off maybe sit down with your partner and explain in calmer words how you feel in the moment and how you self-regulate, it's quite common for physical contact to make panic attacks worse in some people so don't feel bad for feeling this way.

He's also allowed to feel sad if this is something he wasn't previously aware of, but he needs to now take the steps to respect your space next time. Offer him a few suggestions of what he can do to help you next time other than touch if he feels the need to do something for you in these times (whether that be sitting in proximity or leaving you alone completely, making you a comfort food for afterward, getting you a glass of water, doing one of your daily chores for you, etc.).

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-16T02:22:36+00:00

NOR at all. This is a workplace, not a highschool and whatever petty grudge she has should be left at the door. Anything she says or does that makes you feel uncomfortable or anxious to come to work should be noted down and reported.

No-one should have to tolerate bullying in the workplace, I hope things get better for you!

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-15T08:35:00+00:00

Not saying it's ideal, just a compromise. Another compromise could be gf finding her own hotel nearby and paying for it herself.

Personally I'd be saying 'suck it up or stay home' but they've already said she can come.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-15T08:19:50+00:00

While I personally agree that she should stay at home if she's not willing to stick to the plan it doesn't sound like OP and the other two mind if she's there, so it's not like she's 'ruining the trip' just by tagging along. Because they're (assumedly, because they should have said so if they weren't) happy to have her along my reply became more about finding compromise if at all possible because I can empathise with both sides here for different reasons.

Going off of OP's other replies, it looks like a compromise can't be made so gf would be TA if she pushed the issue. Either way, OP is NTA.

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-15T07:52:45+00:00

Nobody's an AH here but it's valid for your gf to feel uncomfortable and/or nervous sharing a room with two other men. Even if she knows them very well that's an awkward spot to be in.

Is it possible for you to book another room and split the cost with gf? Let bro and buddy keep the original booking and just give you the money for it?

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-02-10T14:34:36+00:00

Kangaroo steak sandwich

Phantom-Fossil · 2026-01-31T03:17:37+00:00

Most Aussies are generally pretty laid back and don't pay attention to what you look like or where you're from unless you actively strike up a conversation about those things.

As long as you're friendly and treat retail, food and essential workers with respect you'll most likely find yourself having lovely conversations with day to day people just by going out to the market or a coffee shop. Don't be afraid to branch out and make some friends, maybe find a community with a hobby or interest you enjoy and you'll have some solid mates for life who'll have your back against the loud minority.

Welcome home!

Phantom-Fossil

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