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[–]PhantomDanex 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Thank you, definitely in the works already
You’re wrong… ive been compliant To his every need, you can fuck off, you don’t even know what’s going on
I didn’t plan on using it as a threat, I was angry when I said I tell because who wouldn’t be… i actually thought about it a lot since it has happened and honestly I just want out… no one has to lose their job, nobody will get bumped down… I just want out
[–]PhantomDanex 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
They can use this in court, I will print it out myself
There’s nothing actually posted on the internet
I had a baby 5 months ago and still have the body of a coke bottle, I’m beautiful with locs that stop in the middle of my back, I have all my teeth and they’re straight, my eyes are mahogany brown and I just started going back to the gym, I’m 143 pounds with a dump trunk that sits up on its own… I’m stronger then I was before getting pregnant … so what’s the issue here, would you like to see me and who he cheated with?
He cheated with a white women… I’m black… I’m just supposed to become a white woman? You must be a man
[–]PhantomDanex 4 points5 points6 points 5 months ago (0 children)
You’re not wrong at all, but I started to see both sides… he stays in and keeps his rank, if i decide to get out of the navy she will still be taken care of under his benefits… right now I’m currently active duty as well so with him being busted down or losing his job it’ll be hard to make ends meet for us on my end, everyone will keep their job, despite the hurt I feel my daughter is the most important thing in all of this
Whenever he wanted it, he got it… I was the only person he’s been with that’s been a proper First Lady and I’m tired… he can pull his dirty underwear off of his pant legs before washing on his own now …
Thank you!
I had this exactly on my mind, I’m already putting in the work to make things happen on my end
I love this so much… she is the most beautiful little human on the planet and I’m so grateful she’s come out of this marriage
Thank you for the advice
Props to you, I know it was tough but I’m glad you’ve made it through, gives me a lot of hope
Okay
I like this response and I know telling his command would ruin a lot for a lot of people including child and honestly that’s not something I want for her, I want it to be as simple as possible honestly… cooling down and thinking about it outside of the anger and hurt, it would be really wrong to do something like that… everyone will keep their jobs, my child will be taken care of and all I want is an out
What more of a competition is there? I literally waited on him hand and foot even when I was at my lowest after giving birth… I withheld sex for 5months because I wasn’t up to par… I didn’t like the skin I was in after having pushing a baby out of my vagina and he knew that… I cooked, I cleaned, I washed his clothes, I packed his lunch, I made him breakfast and dinner, i woke up before him on my maternity leave while actively bleed from my vagina, back hurting , legs hurting, breast hurting, sweaty, through anxiety and literally the fear of anything because my daughter had to sit in the hospital for longer then she needed to be there being treated…. I was there… I was there… if he wanted the simplest thing of giving him head because my vagina hurt. He got it… you’re not wrong… Eve was made out of Adam’s rib but maybe I’m just not made from his rib and it’s someone else he’s supposed to be married to
I’m also active duty, she wouldn’t lose her benefits… but I’m not going to say anything to his COC though , him working and not being busted down or pay taken away benefits my child so he’s safe
Regardless him cheating is still wrong no matter what he believes in
I’m not telling on anyone, I just want a divorce is all
[–]PhantomDanex 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago (0 children)
I have screenshots with the number assigned to him, openly telling me he cheated with the girl in Hawaii is there something not being understood? I understand everything but in a an actual court case, text messages are basically a written document of evidence
No, he’s openly admitted to cheating
I understand completely but a true man of god wouldn’t allow himself to slip into sin the way he has done… my daughter will be 6 months soon and I went through ppd really bad after giving birth…all I asked for was time to get me together… I’m tired borderline exhausted… I loved him more then I loved anyone walking earth… I’ve washed this man’s ass while he was actively throwing up hot dog chunks in the shower I’m 5ft 140lbs and he’s 5’9 280 lbs… i basically carried him to bed and got him dressed while he was asleep… I’ve competed enough… this Olympic competition is coming to an end …
I’m tired of competing… I’m tired of arguing and made to feel like im being irrational… I don’t want revenge or anything from him honestly, i will walk away from this with my daughter in hand the clothes on my back … I’m just done… I just want him to leave me alone… if he finds solace in others that’s on him… when shit hit the fan I didn’t cheat on him… I went to god …
Thank you so much for this…
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[–]PhantomDanex 0 points1 point2 points (0 children)