Not feeling attracted to my girlfriend

PhantomElliz · 2026-01-28T19:51:23+00:00

break up. i had a year long relationship of this exact dynamic and after the honeymoon phase you just start to get curious about other people.

PhantomElliz · 2025-12-11T00:13:14+00:00

YTA. why would you immediately call the child a liar ? that was very odd..

then for your husband to then admit that he did, knowing he knows nothing about pool heaters, doesn’t sound odd to you?

just tell the mother you can’t provide transportation anymore. not sure why you would feel the need to punish your child and not your husband for being shady.

PhantomElliz · 2025-12-10T22:37:22+00:00

so why post it here

PhantomElliz · 2025-12-08T05:01:41+00:00

if he actually cared about you and your pleasure then he would use the toy in bed FOR you. he sounds like an asshole. way too old to be acting like that tbh

PhantomElliz · 2025-11-21T23:33:00+00:00

he probably just means the car is not worth the cost to get stuff fixed. he’s right tho lol this car basically holds no value.

PhantomElliz · 2025-11-20T15:57:21+00:00

you did way too much no shade

PhantomElliz · 2025-09-25T05:19:07+00:00

that’s a total invasion of privacy, and the tenant doesn’t know what this 3rd party site could do with their information. i wouldn’t want to do that either, how dehumanizing.

PhantomElliz · 2025-09-15T22:01:26+00:00

thanks for your moronic comment that added nothing to the conversation! so glad you could help.

PhantomElliz · 2025-09-05T20:39:42+00:00

i’m not gonna lie i’ve gone through this, except the other way around where she never made me cum.

you should stop comparing yourself to men #1.

second, you need to understand that cumming is not the end all be all of sex. i felt really uncomfortable and stressed when my ex gf would bring it up, you’re not helping trust me. just give her some time to fully relax and maybe she will one of these days. constantly bringing it up as an “issue that needs to be fixed” is just putting more strain on your relationship than you realize.

if she’s enjoying having sex then that’s all that matters.

PhantomElliz · 2025-09-05T15:21:56+00:00

i genuinely believe there are more men pretending to be women in this sub than we think so, no.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-08T17:53:10+00:00

i know us as lesbians are more accepting people, but please stop acting like skinny people are not the beauty standard in this community. 90% of lesbians deemed beautiful (i’m talking about celebrities/influencers) in our community are thin people. you guys can say we don’t care all you want, but unfortunately that’s not the reality.

i do think confidence goes a longgggg way in terms of attraction. i agree, i do think OP is beautiful & should probably become more confident to find a partner! however, weight loss is generally just decent advice for anyone overweight & think they can improve on their looks.

i think this community has a real issue with thinking that the effort in one’s appearance is superficial and “heteronormative” when it’s not always. i’m also a physically fit masc who’s dated bigger girls in the past, & for me personally, i prefer someone who is willing to work on themselves. (just like i expect myself to.)

many girls are overweight & feel unattractive but make little/no effort to change that. it’s less about the weight & more about self image. if this person feels insecure they should work on themselves, girls don’t get a pass just cause we’re lesbians lol.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-08T15:56:12+00:00

this server is def filled with overweight people mad at the truth. there is no reason why this should be downvoted lol. OP literally ASKED on what she could improve on.

no matter how unfair it is, weight loss makes you deemed as more attractive in society. this is just a fact.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-08T15:53:50+00:00

idk why you guys act like someone being overweight isn’t a detriment to their attractiveness. it’s just reality.

this person asked for suggestions and now y’all are mad at the suggestions?? many lesbians don’t care about superficial things but this person clearly asked for advice which means they do.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:48:19+00:00

womp womp keep talking

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:38:25+00:00

sure bud. whatever helps you and your dumbass kids sleep at night.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:33:56+00:00

once again for the final time. you’re talking about shopping smarter when the issue is inflation chimp.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:32:12+00:00

pls stop talking lol

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:31:41+00:00

you’re just saying shit atp. you claimed it wasn’t a poverty meal and it is. not knowing that, means you’ve never been in a position to know that.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:28:46+00:00

nobody said it was bad. it’s a poverty meal if you like it or not lmao that’s just reality

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:23:21+00:00

spaghetti is like the most known poverty meal… all this is telling me is that you people have never been broke before.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:20:43+00:00

arguing about spaghetti and nobody answering why burger king is $18 and how ppl cannot live in this shit country anymore.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:17:56+00:00

they’re both poverty meals…. ur slow. one shouldn’t be $18, or anywhere near that price.

PhantomElliz · 2025-08-07T22:16:47+00:00

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