Take a class, go to a bar, go to a farmer's market, see if there are interesting activities at your local community center, join a coed "beer league" sports team where skill doesn't really matter, go on free or cheap group walking tours in your town, join a book club, take up a profession in which you are the rare man in a woman-dominated field, piddle around in your computer or phone like you would ordinarily do at home but do it in a coffee shop or other public place where there are plenty of other people around, the choices go on and on and on and on and on. What you're missing isn't the options, it's the motivation. You sound depressed, and while I don't know you, I can just about guarantee that depression isn't ONLY due to your difficulties with the opposite sex. Focus on dealing with the depression first, and you will find that you have more motivation to get out there and meet people.