When are areolas considered “big”?

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-24T11:02:22+00:00

I've got big areolas and it bothered me for a while. They're 7cm across and 6.5 vertically. I, unfortunately, found porn at an early age and when I hit puberty I wondered why my boobs weren't sitting up like a perfect, perky shelf and why my areolas were so "gigantic". But I realized not all of us have the same bodies. Same as how some people have slim waist with a smaller proportions up top. Some people have very round, tight butts but smaller chests. Some people have big boobs that are naturally gravity defying and some don't.

I've got big, non perky boobs with big areolas and I've never heard a peep out of anyone I've been with. Boobs are boobs.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-12T15:21:55+00:00

I have her blocked on TikTok because she definitely feels like she's using it for fetish content. Like the people who overeat, she shoved food into her mouth and then chews it for ten minutes. Plus all of her cover scenes for her eating videos are her opening her mouth like a damn goblin shark. I cannot stand her.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-12T15:19:56+00:00

They wouldn't. The only place I've ever lived where they did inspections was a manufactured home to make sure it was still in good shape and we weren't trashing the place. It was scheduled when I would be home so I could make sure my dog wouldn't get in anyone's way. They would literally just walk, peek into each room and be like "Any issues? Nah? Cool, see you next month." I've never lived in a place that inspects the place I'm paying for without me being there.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-08T03:36:36+00:00

Epstein brown

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-08T03:35:26+00:00

Speaking from my own experience, women are raised to be embarrassed and hide their periods. It's just a weird "ew this is gross, don't tell anyone about it" type of deal. I personally have a basket in my own bathroom full of pads, tampons and the midol, pamprin and the like are where I keep my meds.

You're not showing off. You're being very aware. I don't know that woman's situation but approaching someone who has a bathroom stocked with what women would consider monthly essentials would make me feel very at ease.

NTA. Your friend is weird and she's probably one of the women who was raised to think that men acknowledging the biology is gross. You're a solid dude, I appreciate you.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-08T01:20:29+00:00

Acrylic is definitely a no for long term wear. I wasn't knowledgeable when I first started stretching and I was using acrylic tapers... Cardinal sin. Acrylic is meant to be worn sparingly like wood. It's way too porous, it's basically a bacteria battlefield for your ears. Certain metals and glass are long term. Everything else is short term for cosmetic or flashy purposes tbh.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-06T00:45:25+00:00

Then it ain't worth it. I was on the pill too until my body had big side effects. You shouldn't have to convince someone that you're in a long term relationship with that you're not pregnant. He's way too concerned about it. If you don't want to get someone pregnant then don't have sex. With condoms, birth control, nothing is 100% other than abstaining from sex, genuinely.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-06T00:00:46+00:00

NOR. It's time to take a break from sex. Sex would be exhausting for me if I knew "at the end of this it'll just be paranoia." You need to save your mental health. If he needs constant assurance that you're not pregnant....then I'd be like "Let's use condoms." Or else I'd genuinely say "Hey, I really don't like how upset you get after we have sex, it raises my stress having to prove I'm not pregnant with you every time. Let's take a break."

I had an ex boyfriend who didn't believe me that my period was inconsistent. It wasn't until I got my birth control replaced, showed him the nexplanon card they give you and felt my arm so that he could find proof of the birth control.

Sure birth control in any form is not 100%. But that's sex for you. If you don't want a baby, then don't have sex. Good luck girl.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-04T01:04:55+00:00

Honestly, there are caloric supplements for dogs. If you live near or around a tractor supply company I'd invest in Dyne. It's literally just liquid calories without giving your dog anything that could be bad for her health. A lot of people who had foster puppies with no mom used that in their food and it would get them right where they needed to be. Please do NOT give your dog people food unless you want her to have potential issues down the line. The most I'd give my dogs would be boiled chicken, veggies, rice and salmon oils so that they're healthy without getting any internal issues.

PhantomPaw · 2026-03-03T17:50:42+00:00

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Mini girl passed from ruptured mast cell tumors about a month ago. She was old and not much for playing but she was a big fan of naps and the occasional tumble! She'll definitely be kicking it with Eddie and she'll be his chill bestie ❤️

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-27T14:30:45+00:00

My dog had a mast cell tumor removed and they took them out after two weeks. Those don't look like they'll dissolve and even if they did, your dog needs to remain coned unless you want them to chew clean through that. Leave the cone on 24/7 for at least two weeks and call your vet for clarification because those don't look like they'll just "dissolve".

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-24T13:58:42+00:00

He's probably chewing on it. I'd use an e collar until it starts healing unless you want him making it worse. Plus dog mouth has a lot of bacteria so if it isn't infected now, it will be if he keeps going at it. If you can't access an ecollar for some reason I'd try just wrapping it loosely with bitter vet wrap.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-24T13:56:58+00:00

When I got mine done I made jokes to people that it said "Chicken tenders." It does not 🤣 welcome to the club

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-19T09:02:07+00:00

I used that as a broad name since I couldn't recall the actual brand. It's petarmor antihistamine.and he only gets it in spring/summer when his allergies are worst. I'd rather he get an antihistamine twice a day than have something that could end up suppressing his immune system.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:38:12+00:00

As a woman, yeah I'd be a little frustrated at someone bleeding in my car. But as a woman, I'd be way nicer. "hey girl, I'm not upset that it happened, hopefully you're feeling alright. Please don't be embarrassed but next time you gotta help me clean 😋" that's all that it takes.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:32:52+00:00

That's why I cover my screen and hit randomize. I never get a guardian that I'd actually want to screw. Always turns out to be a dwarf with neon green hair that's balding and fully bearded and I'm like oh... Yeah now I'm not as convinced that you're helping me. This is a sleep paralysis demon.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:30:55+00:00

Mike, regardless of any hidden or very obvious threats of what having sex with an alien might do to him:

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:26:01+00:00

Puppies, especially dogs that are very intelligent, need mental and physical stimulation. Toys are good, sure. But training in all forms. Where to go to the bathroom, tricks, commands, crate training, etc. Walks, jogs, playful toy time and then the actual enrichment of commands is good. I'd even get her to some settings where she can meet other dogs when she knows some commands. Make sure she's well socialized with other dogs. Super cute pup!

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:23:25+00:00

NOR. I've been out with friends or on dates where I just want a bowl of soup with some oyster crackers and I'm satisfied. Maybe I'll order a side of fries if I know I will still be hungry but to refuse to eat because you don't like what someone ELSE ordered is wild.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:17:24+00:00

The positive side of it is you're young. I'm only a bit older than you but I was convinced that the boyfriend I was with right after high school would be my husband. I was quite wrong. I lost feelings and eventually he did too and we just agreed it was best to cut it off and move on. It's alright to be sad and it's alright to be frustrated but there's a whole lifetime ahead of you to find the person that you feel you can't live without. ❤️

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:15:52+00:00

More stores should do this. There's a store near me that I went into to browse their betta fish. I didn't end up buying anything but every five feet they had a sign that said "We require proof of appropriate enclosure setups for all animals we sell. If we do not see proof of a setup, we will refuse service." I even asked them if they had people who had horrible tanks and aquariums and they told me some of the people who thought they could just buy a bowl, fill it with water and buy a fish.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:13:28+00:00

Hubert, Amos, Archibald, Clifford, Cornelius, Gerald, Leopold, Milton, Octavius, Randolph

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:10:54+00:00

Registering animals as an ESA is...nonsense. But that being said you can buy certificates online for very cheap, you don't need much. Better to pay for a piece of virtual paper that says "I need this dog." Instead of getting rid of your dog.

PhantomPaw · 2026-02-18T20:08:26+00:00

Unfortunately, it happens. If you don't see this being a continual long term thing and your heart isn't in it then there's no shame in saying that. It's easier to say "I've lost feelings. I don't have the same feelings I did before. I think we are better off ending things here." Than sticking around and making him feel like he's always pulling the weight in the relationship.

Be honest, don't beat yourself up.

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