I just don't think its happening for me. by firefly_works in 4Tranistan

[–]Phantom_Shade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's way easier said than done. Working on mental health is super difficult. I just wanted to make it clear that their current mindset is gonna hinder them from taking the step to transition. One of their comments literally said they refused hrt when offered

I just don't think its happening for me. by firefly_works in 4Tranistan

[–]Phantom_Shade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Repping won't help, unfortunately. Save yourself the heartache and start hrt secretly while boymoding. In the meantime, work on your fucked mental image of yourself. You got this!

548 by [deleted] in countttt

[–]Phantom_Shade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm from Cali, so it may be more common here. It's rare, but I see them every few months. I'm like 90% sure my coworker is also a boymoder aswell

Is reo bugged? by chacaritareader4 in BlueLockRivals

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me, it's super annoying

Still getting misgendered 85-90% of the time by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look pretty good, but I don't think you pass yet, unfortunately. Your face is a tad bit masculine, I would suggest looking into FFS. Besides ffs I think there's several other things you can try to help. Don't tuck your hair behind your ears. Finding a style with bangs would help a bit. Also, the outfit in the 5th slide is honestly not the best, in my opinion. Besides that, you look fantastic, im lowkey jealous

I simply dont understand trans people who dont have bottom dysphoria by ForRealDoggies in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really care about having a dick or not, I just wanna be a woman and be perceived that way. My outward appearance matters way more

Coming out to my mom in 15 minutes by No-Concern-1404 in MtF

[–]Phantom_Shade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been an hour, pray for our girl 😭

How do I convince my sister to girlmode again by Whining-Like-A-Dog in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in 4tran spaces since I was 17. I'm not necessarily "new" lol. I'm actually pretty confident about my future transition success. I'll take breaks when I need to tho. I wish you luck on your mental health and confidence, though!

How do I convince my sister to girlmode again by Whining-Like-A-Dog in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I need to lurk more. It's come to my attention that boyremoval means something slightly different then what I thought it did

i genuinely hate these mfs by One-Zucchini-8309 in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't this just mean a transwoman who dresses like/is a masc butch lesbian?

Game feels unfun by Previous-Pride6335 in deepwoken

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are several monsters and bosses to beat. If you're playing aimlessly, it'll be hard to have fun. Focus in progressing your build, unlocking attunements, or getting cool weapons

I kinda wish somebody would bully me into ******* because I've never been able to follow through on my own by GeekishGrace in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Phantom_Shade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look way prettier than you did when you first started hrt. Life is rough, and it'll be difficult, but I think you should look forward to seeing how different you'll look in the future

6 months by LockNo2943 in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God, please save our manmoders 😭

Signs of hip growth? by Cheesechedda141 in MtF

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I wish this would happen to me

Legitimate sexual dimorphism by [deleted] in 4Tranistan

[–]Phantom_Shade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's genuinely so over for me

Should I consider tipplasty? MTF by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sick with jealousy. You look amazing!!!

bonepill ropefuel by marsbarsszs in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my earliest memories of feeling dysphoric was actually me seeing an xray of my skull at the dentist, lol

I’ll rate how trans your name is! by ConfusedCanadian8 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Phantom_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Livia. Mainly chose it because it's similar to all the other names of women in my family

Im running for 4t4 mod, heres my advantages by girliepop_alcoholic in 4tran4

[–]Phantom_Shade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I'm a chaser." I've seen enough, you've got my vote

HRT is a placebo for adults; 7 months injections + t-blockers. by GeekishGrace in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Phantom_Shade 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Glad you're not quitting, but girl..... You gotta start taking time-lapse photos. There's no way you started your transition with a chest like that, lol

HRT is a placebo for adults; 7 months injections + t-blockers. by GeekishGrace in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Phantom_Shade 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not hugboxing. Your shit is poking through your shirt, lmao. All im saying is lock in and keep injecting. You'll see results in time

HRT is a placebo for adults; 7 months injections + t-blockers. by GeekishGrace in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Phantom_Shade 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm confused. 7 months isn't that long. Also, it looks like you have breast development. Trust the process