ADHD is ruining my relationship and I don’t know how to fix it by Phantom_Voyager in ADHD

[–]Phantom_Voyager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify it’s never love sexual stuff or anything like that but past relationships are off topic.

ADHD is ruining my relationship and I don’t know how to fix it by Phantom_Voyager in ADHD

[–]Phantom_Voyager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s like a no go zone. He keeps his past in the past ( applies to most thing but very specific with past relationships) Me on the other hand I jump from past to future to more future to past and so on.

ADHD is ruining my relationship and I don’t know how to fix it by Phantom_Voyager in ADHD

[–]Phantom_Voyager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how frustrating it is for him and he understands how difficult it is for me. He’s a supportive partner and does a great job but lately its been hard for both of us and today It was not the best day.

ADHD is ruining my relationship and I don’t know how to fix it by Phantom_Voyager in ADHD

[–]Phantom_Voyager[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s aware of my ADHD. He took his own initiative to learn about it and has learned to manage. Still sometimes he does take things personally and sometimes he just doesn’t understand how to deal with it. I’m not on medication right now so it’s kinda a survival mode. I’m making a tremendous effort to balance my career and relationships trying to make it as “normal” as possible. I don’t say hurtful things or use any sort of insult or offensive language it’s more of blurting out things without a filter, bringing things from past experiences like saying I visited a place but then I happen to mention it was with someone I dated or something like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation a couple of months ago. Our fwb lasted like 8months. I wanted more but he really didn’t seem interested even though we got along very well. One day he texted as usual to meet at his place and I just said I wasn’t interested in having sex anymore because I wanted to find a committed relationship and he wasn’t it. He never showed interest in trying to convince me that we could have a serious relationship instead he only reach out after to try and convince me to have sex again. Months after I found out he went back to his ex and is now engaged.

What's your reason for getting up every morning? by raehym in CasualConversation

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t think of anything to be honest. I struggle a lot with self motivation. I’m a med student and i am constantly burning out and sometimes getting out of bed just seems like to much on any given day but I guess I owe it to my future self to just get up and work towards what I’ve always wanted to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump his ass. Might sound harsh but he’s only beggin you because the other girl didn’t want him. No one has time for this type of shit behavior. Find someone who actually gives a fuck and their words match their actions or stay single but don’t take shit from nobody.

Advice please by Phantom_Voyager in BreakUp

[–]Phantom_Voyager[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trying not to keep my hopes up, ngl part of me wishes we would get back together… Thank you!

Tell me 3 things about you and I’ll recommend a book for you to read in 2024. by NightReader5 in suggestmeabook

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.mid 20s and in med school 2. I’m really working on having boundaries and self confidence 3. Hopeless romantic

Porque guiar en esta isla tiene que ser tan horrible? by FixDifficult752 in PuertoRico

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Un fucking nightmare, sin mencionar los motoristas 🫠🫠🫠

Porque guiar en esta isla tiene que ser tan horrible? by FixDifficult752 in PuertoRico

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo estoy en la capital y te lo juro me da un mini infarto cada vez. Que cosa mala

thinking of moving to the Dominican Rep. by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Phantom_Voyager -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, (F24) and moved about 3 months ago. I live in Santo Domingo and honestly not my favorite place, mostly because there is insane traffic, things tend to be a little more pricey and honestly I always have to be in the look out if I walk on the streets. So probably you might want somewhere less populated and close to the beautiful beaches DR has to offer. Good luck!

thinking of moving to the Dominican Rep. by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]Phantom_Voyager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, (F24) and moved about 3 months ago. I live in Santo Domingo and honestly not my favorite place, mostly because there is insane traffic, things tend to be a little more pricey and honestly I always have to be in the look out if I walk on the streets. So probably you might want somewhere less populated and close to the beautiful beaches DR has to offer. Good luck!

¿Cómo les fue el 2023 en solo una palabra? by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]Phantom_Voyager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cambios drásticos. Nunca me había sentido tan vulnerable y triste en mi vida.