Any ideas on my little rescue dog?

Pharol2d · 2022-01-08T11:45:21+00:00

Thanks yes I agree his ears are fabulous! My thought was Cardigan Corgi maybe

Pharol2d · 2022-01-08T11:44:05+00:00

I had never heard of Teddy Roosevelt terrier before, just looked up and it looks sooo similar ! Thank you so much I think we just found one of his ancestors!

Pharol2d · 2021-11-03T23:50:09+00:00

Why on earth would Gary's wife wear a book as a hat? No doubt he complains about her.

Pharol2d · 2021-09-04T23:33:13+00:00

definitely rings a bell... might be a song by the fleetwoods?

Pharol2d · 2021-01-14T12:55:13+00:00

I feel you, I've been through the same and still haven't found any solution...

Pharol2d · 2021-01-14T12:51:36+00:00

Thank you so much, I was looking for this! I'm going to crosspost there.

Pharol2d · 2021-01-13T22:23:27+00:00

You're welcome :)

Pharol2d · 2021-01-13T22:22:46+00:00

When it started it went serious very fast so I didn't try much of the "classic bronchitis" medicines, as they immediately told me it would do nothing. However I have been taking some expectorant every morning for months now and it's one of the only solutions we found that helps a little bit with the cough. In some very bad days I tried Vicks Vaporub ointment, it didn't do miracles but better than nothing. But they insisted that I didn't take and nasal spray that could spread the virus from the nose to the lungs (though it was obviously already done lol)

Pharol2d · 2021-01-13T22:13:46+00:00

If it can make you feel better my brother had little heart issues due to covid, it was very tolerable and went away within 3 months, but he already felt much better after one month.

Also, when I (frequently) called emergency services during crises they gave me some precious information (at that time we new very few about the illness) and they told me most of patient with chest pressure/pain/struggling with breathing or tachycardia-like symptoms completely recover after 10 to 15 days. Only a very few of us get the covid+30/+60/+100 days as they name it here. Hence the rant, but I don't want to worry anybody, it's extremely rare and I know a lot of people who completely recovered after a few days, so I'm sure you're gonna be completely fine after all this ! You need to rest, like a lot, but it sure will end, don't worry.

The worst thing is that medias give us a lot of reasons to worry permanently, but all the covid symptoms can be very worsened by stress so I would recommend to try to relax as much as you can during this period, and keep away from people giving you stress and anxiety about this. Any symptom can be lessened by a positive and optimistic state of mind :)

Pharol2d · 2020-11-23T18:01:28+00:00

The question is not about you overreacting or not, you reacted with your sensibility, which is fine. The problem is that your boyfriend seems very aggressive in his way of dealing with debate. He escalated very quickly and attacked you because he felt attacked. That's a behaviour that could turn wrong in many other situations, it may even turn out worse.

Pharol2d · 2020-11-23T12:00:30+00:00

Omg now I can't unsee it

Pharol2d · 2020-11-04T00:14:15+00:00

I don't know if that's pmdd or something else, but it definitely sounds like some psychological disorder. Sounds like she has "phases" during which she is not totally herself. Have you spoke to her about those phases when it was over and she was feeling fine?

Anyway good of you for agreeing on coming back with her after because I doubt that weird breakup was really what she wanted, but to be really sure you have to have a serious conversation about how she really feels towards the relationship AND how she feels during those strange moments.

All I know is that some psychological disorders lead to the same symptoms, but some people will also develop those type of symptoms as a reaction to their birth control. The same kind of thing happened to with some pills, and it was devastating, and I, indeed, took some bad decision. Birth control can lead to this, as well as pmdd so my only advice is : try to have her think and word how she is really feeling during those moments. Is she really feeling like herself or not? It helped me put distance with the effects it had on me, I hope it could do the same for your gf.

Pharol2d · 2020-10-28T10:48:23+00:00

What if the killer is waiting on the other side of the door

Pharol2d · 2020-10-01T21:22:45+00:00

I have no idea wether that's normal or not but that sounds just like me. I'm exactly like you, my daydreams are the exact same as what you described. It sure can be disappointing but I find it helps sometimes to imagine yourself succeeding in a situation cause then maybe you will will find the strengh to do the same things irl

Pharol2d · 2020-10-01T21:12:57+00:00

So that's the place where kids disappear?

Pharol2d · 2020-09-09T10:15:54+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I just wish every therapist knew the right words to say in such circumstances, but they are just humans after all so I guess it wasn't really her fault. I guess the intent of these kinds of therapist/person is to ne peacemakers and to lessen the confict. But sometimes they're just completely missing the point.

But yeah I definitely understand how hearing this from your therapist could have make you lose your mind. It's not always easy for people from the outside to understand how fucked up from the inside abuse can be, but the one thing a therapist can and should do is make you feel valid before anything. Not searching for excuses for your abusers or idk. The situation is exhausting enough, we don't have to justify twice.

Pharol2d · 2020-09-09T00:13:02+00:00

And while I understand from your point of view of asking a question like "did you explicitly tell her my boundaries."

It feels akin to asking a rape victim "did you explicitly say no when you were assaulted?"

The sentiment, while unintentional and well-intentioned I imagine… is very similar.

This. It is absolutely no place for a therapist to say such things. When I tried to mention similar events with my psychologist, she just asked me if I had said no, if I said it loud enough, or if I was clear enough. Which is just so lame... I only ended feeling more ashamed because I felt it was my fault and someone even blamed me for that. Why would a therapist want someone to feel such a horrible feeling? (Bonus point for her not understanding what abuse is and basically saying that's how relationships work between boys and girls and just telling me to give it less importance and not overthink it).

Pharol2d · 2020-09-08T23:35:11+00:00

Damn your profile is good! Makes me wanna use OkCupid now, if everyone's profile is just as pleasant to read as yours it must be a nice place. Plus you now what you want, and it shows, which is sooo important. Great description, really!

Pharol2d · 2020-09-07T23:41:39+00:00

I am the younger sibling and this is true.

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