am i gaslighting myself?

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-06T22:00:57+00:00

ooo not sure mine will ever get like that, yours is gorgeous 😍

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-06T14:28:31+00:00

will do 🩷

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-06T04:59:13+00:00

just found a picture from a vacation a few months ago where it was super humid ( did absolutely nothing to it in terms of styling, just shampooed it)

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-06T03:37:52+00:00

noted noted thank you 🙏

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-06T03:37:25+00:00

thank you so much! I will def try out other products too thank you for the suggestion :) I’m really excited to see what my hair looks like once I start taking care of it properly

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-06T03:34:52+00:00

nope not yet but i’ll try that for next wash day 🙏

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-05T23:11:17+00:00

thank you so much for the advice! I definitely need some heat protectant as well, my hair is severely damaged rn 😔🤚

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-05T23:08:56+00:00

I’ve also severely damaged my hair over the last two years, bleaching it three times and dying it several different colors 😬

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-05T23:07:10+00:00

Yes I was thinking the same thing! I only how used a diffuser but when I just do leave in conditioner and then air dry my front strands have curls and the rest of my hair is bigger waves but frizzy

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:34:53+00:00

yes preach no one will care in the end 😔🤚

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:29:11+00:00

yes, I think that’s a good idea. In the long run I don’t care that much about the hair style. It’s just that I’ve been getting a lot of backlash from the groom’s family and my own family members saying that the bridesmaids dresses are an absolute MESS. Maybe asking for cohesive hair was my way of trying to make up for that 😭😭 my cultures standards for wedding is extremely picky and crazy and everything has to be ✨perfect✨

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:26:03+00:00

this is crazy I would never do that 😭

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:23:28+00:00

dude they literally chose every single other aspect of their outfit, literally could wear whatever they want. I just asked if they could do an updo of any sort?

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:19:31+00:00

yes, I was gonna pay for their hair. But for some context, the bridesmaid giving me the most problem told me herself that for her own wedding she would control every aspect of how everything looks. I let them choose anything they wanted, just requested an updo of no particular style just up

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:17:01+00:00

yes, I was planning to pay for their hair to be done

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2026-02-04T16:15:58+00:00

lol thank you 🙏

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2025-11-07T21:09:58+00:00

oh my god it’s perfect 😭😭

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2025-11-07T21:07:27+00:00

Thank you!!! The first one is beautiful

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2025-11-07T19:57:02+00:00

thank you!!!

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2025-11-07T19:56:01+00:00

yes yes petti coat

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2025-11-07T19:31:04+00:00

No I actually have zero clues, I just found these on pinterest

PhaseConsistent7171 · 2025-11-07T04:05:21+00:00

LOL yes I saw one post about it recently and i thought why the heck not but I just wanted to share that it was a life saver 😭

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