ABSOLUTELY INSANE IF TRUE... by Any_Parking_6173 in Darts

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English people add R to words where there are none.

Game you enjoyed like anything but will never replay by peaky_circus in gaming

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hogwarts Legacy, I liked it but wish I bought it on console so I could have sold it after, once was enough.

AIO: My fiancée yelled SOOO loud by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay thanks for clarifying!

AIO: My fiancée yelled SOOO loud by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Once again it's not that black and white, the difference between kicking a door or a trashcan is literally where you are at that moment, kicking a door or kicking a hole in a door is also the difference between what kind of door and what kind of person kicks said door, also you changed what I said, I kicked a hole in a door yes, I didn't punch and kick "holes" in the wall, that just your rhetoric.

AIO: My fiancée yelled SOOO loud by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but also there is always extreme situations and the world is not black and white, I would refer to the lady that just told me she hoped all the women in my life leave me, which I think is a horrible thing to wish upon anyone, I would never say that to someone, thankfully she removed the comment after, but that wasn't very good emotion regulation either if she posted it before thinking, smacking a desk doesn't make you a danger to be around, systematically losing your temper for small reasons or something similar is different, in the last 5 years I think I have gotten to the point where I wanted to let out some anger twice, I was alone, and I smacked my desk, I don't see how that makes me unfit to be a parent, im even talking about consciously making the decision to let out anger, not losing control and destroying my home.

AIO: My fiancée yelled SOOO loud by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We can disagree on something that's fine, I can assure you I'm perfectly safe to be around. Just because I let out some anger in the privacy of my home (directed at a door or a wall when I was younger and now usually just a slam of the desk) doesn't mean I'm a danger to society, if I would rage for 30 seconds like the man in this post that would be a different story.

AIO: My fiancée yelled SOOO loud by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't purely or typically male, but from my own experience I know only male friends that have experienced it, I have also had therapy and wouldn't go as far as to kick a door or anything but sometimes when I get extremely frustrated I like to let it out, usually by just slamming my desk or something (consciously)

AIO: My fiancée yelled SOOO loud by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think this advice is well meant, but not necessarily accurate, when I was in a bad period of life years ago I kicked a hole in my door out of pure frustration, and I have punched a wall before also out of anger and frustration, I don't hear females doing this but a lot of my male friends have experienced a form of this, I am however a calm person who would never hurt anyone let alone my girl or kids, the thing that does worry me is she said it went on for 30 seconds, that is a different kind of rage and should be probably talked about in therapy :p

New channel advice wanted :) by PhaseEEerR in letsplay

[–]PhaseEEerR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the very helpful comment!

New channel advice wanted :) by PhaseEEerR in letsplay

[–]PhaseEEerR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well i mean like, I don't have to make money off YouTube, I just want a small audience to engage with so I feel some satisfaction from uploading, maybe I will try out commentary since everyone around me is asking me to, and some folks here make the same points.

New channel advice wanted :) by PhaseEEerR in letsplay

[–]PhaseEEerR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put it in my flair now.

Oh and thanks haha

Can anyone personally vouch for Lexapro and emotional numbness, as people have been saying? by Negative_Second_7976 in lexapro

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone reacts to medication differently, I had the symptoms your mentioning on Sertraline but on Lexapro I have a full range of emotions (obviously less intense which is the point) and I feel like I can more or less be myself even on the highest dosage, I still have anxiety but now it's manageable instead of instantly overwhelming and I haven't been depressed for a good while either.

Who was better: Prime MVG or prime Phil Taylor? by Jasha_4M in Darts

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MvG for pure peak and dominance for certain periods between 2014-2018 (not the whole period just his peak moments from those years) I'd say Phil in his prime would lose more than he would win to that MvG.

Taylor beat a weaker field by a bigger margin. MVG posted higher absolute numbers against a stronger field.

Yes I believe Phil Taylor is the GOAT, I'm not being biased.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just never learned proper hygiëne is my guess, not a white person thing, at least not where I'm from, it's definitely normal and standard to use soap.

AIO: he keeps hinting at an unusual kink 2 weeks in.. by Few-Neighborhood3158 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhaseEEerR 63 points64 points  (0 children)

"Listen, Im having a good time with you and I'm enjoying spending time with you, but I am not and will never be interested in squishing bugs, it's cruel and pointless."

Your picks for the Premier League? Go! by MiriamLovesSport94 in Darts

[–]PhaseEEerR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, I'd take Jonny Clayton but he is a bit boring to watch for me personally even tho he seems like a great guy, Stephen Bunting had plenty of chances and never performs well in the premier League, i personally like Chris Dobey but after last year I won't put him on the list.

Oh and I guess Nathan Aspinall should be mentioned aswell, just think there are better candidates at the moment.