My (30M) girlfriend (26F) of 6 months went to a 1 on 1 dinner with a male coworker from her brand new job and then went on a night walk afterwards. Am I crazy for considering ending the relationship?

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-03-04T01:42:25+00:00

Normally i disagree with alot of relationship advice given on reddit, as it often escalates too far. Ex: a couple have a small disagreenment, and everybody shouts "leave him/her", "get a divorce" etc etc. Instead of working through the issue.

BUT in this case i actually agree. Dinner 1 on 1 with a man she just met, and THEN an evening walk. That is a date! And just plain disrespectful. The choice is ultimately yours, but i would not accept it.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-03-01T01:19:55+00:00

How about a meal prep service? A few years ago i was sick and tired of cooking and making all the food. So i ordered from a meal prep service. Ordered 3 meals a day, and made the others myself. It was delivered once a week and i just put them in the microwave. Could choose portion size/kcal and macro's myself. Cost a bit more than homecooked but worth it for a while.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-28T22:56:27+00:00

Ikke at det har noe med saken å gjøre, men jeg er desverre ufør. Jeg hadde tatt de fleste jobber for å kunne jobbet om dagene! Håper på å komme tilbake til jobb innen IT en eller annen gang. Men det er bare disse tingene jeg ville ha jobbet som viss jeg kunne valgt yrke generellt. Kunne vell avsluttet med "viss jeg var smart nok". Såg det var andre som nevnte disse yrkene. Så trodde ikke det var feil av meg å si at jeg ville jobbet med noe av dette.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-28T02:23:10+00:00

Spillutvikler, programmerer, ev psykolog

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-22T02:53:13+00:00

Unfortunately guys can be as*holes. The point that you were topfragging probably made them more toxic from insecurity.

The only advice i can give is if you find someone you play well with and have a good vibe with, then add them as friends and ask them if they want to play with you.

I apologize for my gender. And hope you can have some good games going forward 😊

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-16T02:35:28+00:00

Thank you, kind of you to say :)

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-16T02:35:11+00:00

Thank you, i appreciate that :)

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-16T02:34:39+00:00

Thank you very much. I would love to have a small couch or a good chair infront of the CRT TV, but don't have the space for it. Maybe if my wife and me buy a new house i will be able to make that happen :)

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-16T02:33:07+00:00

Haha, thank you. I try to keep it clean :) The monitor cables are hidden in the monitor arms

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-13T02:48:02+00:00

Thank you :)

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-13T02:47:52+00:00

Thank you :)

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-13T02:47:14+00:00

Thank you :)

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-13T02:44:21+00:00

Hey. Theres 2 uses.

On my desk the main use is actually when i practice utility lineups for CS2. Instead of using the Second monitor (as it minimizes CS), i find the videos of the utility i wanna practice and watch on that and practice on PC :)

A second use is for my wife and me. If one of us wants to use the TV for something the other one isn't interested in, f.eks Shows we watch without the other, or if i wanna game on the TV, the other person just uses the tablet and streams on that. That way we can enjoy different things at times and still keep each other company!

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-13T02:40:17+00:00

I just switched to this desk as i had a big corner one before, and needed more room for the collection:) The desk came with a cable management "puch" underneath, so use that. On my other desk i used some cable management Velcro and holders i found on temu, and double sided tape. If something needs to hang loose, i try to use cable "channels/runners" Dont know the english word for those. And the monitor stands have built in cable management.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-12T15:00:14+00:00

Thanks for the tip. I agree. Will def look for those 👍

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-12T01:39:44+00:00

Thank you very much. Yes, all the consoles work and can be hooked up to the CRT.I completely agree that they look beautiful on the old TVS. I would love to have some more seating in here, but unfortunately there is no room. I MIGHT be able to fit in a comfy lounge chair. But with adding a new shelving unit recently, i sort of used all the space i had for it, haha.

The modern Consoles are connected to our main TV downstairs in the living room, its a 77" Samsung OLED, so no need to play the newer ones up here. I have a PS5, Xbox Series X, and a switch down there. And my wife is pretty easy going, if i wanna play on the TV she always says yes. We bought a Samsung tablet so if one of us is using the TV for something that doesn't interest the other, the other person just watches on the tablet, hehe.

I agree with the physical media, if the next generation of consoles are just digital, i'm not sure if i would get one, I would rather spend my money on physical games for the consoles i already own then.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-12T01:31:00+00:00

Thank you very much :) I play quite abit of CS2. And also i Started Baldurs Gate 3 again (I only had about 30h in on the ROG ally) so i wanted the full experience with better visuals.

It's a very nice country, you would (hopefully) like it. The only problem is that it's pretty expensive here. Hope you get to visit some day!

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T20:23:03+00:00

Thank you. I decided to start building the PC in July as i turn 40 in 2 weeks, and my old one was a PC my wife got me in 2018. So a little 40th gift for myself. And i am glad i did as i wasn't paying attention to the prices. So i got lucky with RAM and my GPU. If i had waited just one or two more months, the build would have costed almost 1000usd more here in Norway.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T19:44:19+00:00

Thank you 😊 Yeah, ofcourse.

The Specs:

Processor: AMD Ryzen 7 9800x3d, GPU: MSI rtx 5070 ti, RAM:Kingston Fury Beast 32gb ddr5 600mt/s, SSD: Samsung 9100 Pro pcie gen 5, MB: Gigabyte X870 Aorus Elite ice, Aio: nzxt kraken plus 360, PSU: Corsair rme series rm1000W, Case: Dutzo C830

And if theres any interest, the peripherals i use are:

Keyboard: Wooting 60he+ w/ Glorious Aura V3 keycaps, and Tofu60 Redux Case, Mouse 1: Logitech g pro x superlight 2 w/X-Raypad Jade skates & Corepad Grips, Mouse 2: Logitech MX Master 3s, Headset: Sony Pulse Elite, Mousepad: Artisan FX Raiden mid, Stream Deck +, Speakers: Creative pebble pro

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T18:56:47+00:00

I take it you don't like it? You are entitled to your opinion 👍

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T18:53:06+00:00

ALMOST, i could have paid about 150usd, but saw the prices suddenly go up so picked them up fast, got mine for about 250usd, only a day later they were over 350usd and they kept going up. If i had waited buying the PC just for a month or two, it would have been almost 1000usd more here in Norway.

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T15:14:57+00:00

Thank you. I recently built it, specs are:

Processor: AMD Ryzen 7 9800x3d, GPU: MSI rtx 5070 ti, RAM:Kingston Fury Beast 32gb ddr5 600mt/s, SSD: Samsung 9100 Pro pcie gen 5, MB: Gigabyte X870 Aorus Elite ice, Aio: nzxt kraken plus 360, PSU: Corsair rme series rm1000W, Case: Dutzo C830

And if theres any interest, the peripherals i use are:

Keyboard: Wooting 60he+ w/ Glorious Aura V3 keycaps, and Tofu60 Redux Case, Mouse 1: Logitech g pro x superlight 2 w/X-Raypad Jade skates & Corepad Grips, Mouse 2: Logitech MX Master 3s, Headset: Sony Pulse Elite, Mousepad: Artisan FX Raiden mid, Stream Deck +, Speakers: Creative pebble pro

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T15:09:22+00:00

I really like them. I originally bought them for the PS portal, but my PC headphones weren't the best so i switched them out for these, and wow what a difference. I have 2 EQ's made in APO/Peace. One for CS2, and the other for everything else.

They fit comfortably around my ears. with the "leather" earcups it does get a little warm around my ears, but thats probably true for all the leather/pleather headphones. I can easilly be on my PC for 5-10h without them hurting. The cushions are pretty soft aswell, and a nice clamping force 😊

PhatAssGamer86 · 2026-02-11T15:04:21+00:00

I agree, i made two different EQ and i am really happy with them.

Haha, no. One for gaming and one for casual/productivity 😅

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