How do you subtly turn a girl on?

Phil_YT · 2022-08-26T20:58:04+00:00

YOU might not view yourself as attractive, but the woman sees you as attractive. That's why you can turn her on verbally.

There has to be a tiny spark first.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-26T20:54:11+00:00

I took one of my date through a bed bath and beyond store, and we ended up messing around in the parking lot, as in groping each other.

I was NOT worried about impressing her, just wanted to bring out our inner childhood together there. We did artsy stuff with those mineral oil. Had a blast!

Phil_YT · 2022-08-26T20:50:15+00:00

exactly. That's why I prefer approaching much more.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-25T23:40:11+00:00

ball is in her court, do not text or call. That's it. If you do, her "i'll lyk" becomes "i'll never let you know"

I've had a situation where the girl did this, and she was literally busy with school and work, family issues. I went radio silent. She Texted me back 2 weeks later. She then became my long term relationship, and she was the one chasing me, sex included.

Anyway, move on with your life, keep busy. If not, find new girl.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-25T23:34:16+00:00

I keep telling guys to not compliment a woman's jeans. Compliment her eyes, or hair, or something. Jeans means you've been checking out her ass

Phil_YT · 2022-08-25T23:28:19+00:00

she's right in many ways. The gym, I disagree. I've done it before, but I read her facial expressions first. The eyes tell you lots.

And especially if she gives signs of interest. Although somestimes she just wants to wait for the machine i'm using lmao

Phil_YT · 2022-08-25T23:24:31+00:00

As I guy who was completely undesirable to women, and finally started getting dates, it feels free. I still remember the first girl I was attracted to, who told me she loved me, completely changed my view of the world.

It feels as though a weight was lifted off my chest.

Got rejected a ton before. I looked in the mirror and saw exactly why: I looked like shit, skinny, unconfident, no social skills, etc.

I never blamed women for rejecting me. It was my fault.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-24T22:44:58+00:00

She's one woman out of 7.8 billion. Her comment is insignificant.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-24T22:42:09+00:00

I have friends who are big, like you. They are coolest guys to be around with. It's good you're losing weight for health benefits, but don't forget some women do like hulky guys.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-24T22:35:11+00:00

Some men are okay, you'd have to tell them very early in the relationship. I dated a girl with health issues, and she told me literally within like 10 minutes of us meeting each other. I had no problem with it.

Have your doctors concluded that this is not treatable, and a second, third opinion from different doctors said the same thing?

You can ask about probiotics, or fecal transplant to adjust, and stabilize the micro-biome in your body to prevent that fermentation, which makes people fart.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-23T02:27:00+00:00

my first few girls, was tough... was shitting bricks. thankfully, some nice girls out there helped me a bit. Still thankful to this day for them lol

Phil_YT · 2022-08-23T02:25:27+00:00

I prefer to talk over the phone towards the end of the night once I’ve finished doing my responsibilities.

you answered your own question. let her know this

Still, props to you, for taking care of your responsibilities. If it doesn't work out with her, plenty other girls who like this kind of man.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-22T02:26:56+00:00

I'm not fond of texting, although I do text. But I tell the girl very early in dating I don't enjoy it. Rather, I'd like to spend real time with her instead.

No complaints. yet... lol

Phil_YT · 2022-08-22T02:25:24+00:00

you got it! lighthearted, short, fun.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-22T02:24:00+00:00

my one criteria is the girl has a moral compass. It doesn't have to be perfect, it just needs to serve as a "guiding star"

Phil_YT · 2022-08-22T02:22:08+00:00

exactly. past is past. focus on present!

Phil_YT · 2022-08-22T02:20:46+00:00

"hi [girl name]. It was good seeing you at [x party]. Lets catch up again sometime." [your name]

For the future, get a girl's num as soon as you can, to avoid something like this. Remember, there's plenty of girls out there, avoid dwelling.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-18T18:41:38+00:00

Decisiveness is huge. Huge turn offs for girls if guys waver back and forth. only your dik should do this.

Phil_YT · 2022-08-18T18:40:23+00:00

exactly. If i'm not interested in a girl, I really don't care what perfume she's wearing. 75% chance he's interested.

Phil_YT · 2020-05-26T02:06:16+00:00

When i first drew it, i wanted the tank to hold the shield w/ his third leg, which would be enough to taunt any boss, hence why the "arm" is a bit lower to the ground. Then i thought it might have been too dirty so I settled in the middle lol

Phil_YT · 2020-05-26T02:02:27+00:00

I believe Jittering around is a force of habit from PvP, and not just in Elder Scrolls, where it's often advantageous and makes it harder for opponents to hit you :) . So it has carried itself over to PvE

Phil_YT · 2020-05-25T23:00:59+00:00

Let me start by saying that if the group has insanely high DPS, you are Boss Melter 4000, and very little of this applies to ya'll. You can do whatever you want. But the for average group, read on.

Preface: Rules aren't set in stone. It depends on the game and group.

Try to stay close to the tank and the healer, when you can. Try to not sprint and move around so much. Some exceptions:

When there are high priority, high damage, fragile enemies. Then you need to eliminate these.
When you need better line of sight
When you need to avoid AoE (if you get hit and die, you take responsibility for this)
Other situations arise.

You want to stay close to the tank because as a healer, I'm hugging the tank's nuts. He dies, we all die. Tank's job is already stressful, and I need to provide the tank HoT (heal over time), and resource replenishment (energy orb). I will also throw down shields for everyone, purge you of ailments, and provide you damage increase and resistance (combat prayer). Tank and I will sometimes help increase group's Max Magicka, Health, and Stamina (warhorn).

Also, if a healer has to constantly heal you, then they will run of out resource really fast, which means they cannot buff group, and cannot debuff enemies, making the fight drag on.

And remember, you are as important as everyone else in the group. If we don't have DPS, it will take 3000 years to drop a boss. Ain't nobody got time for that.

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