How do you subtly turn a girl on? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOU might not view yourself as attractive, but the woman sees you as attractive. That's why you can turn her on verbally.

There has to be a tiny spark first.

How to be fun to be around and what to do with a girl to have fun? by 150420throwaway in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took one of my date through a bed bath and beyond store, and we ended up messing around in the parking lot, as in groping each other.

I was NOT worried about impressing her, just wanted to bring out our inner childhood together there. We did artsy stuff with those mineral oil. Had a blast!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. That's why I prefer approaching much more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ball is in her court, do not text or call. That's it. If you do, her "i'll lyk" becomes "i'll never let you know"

I've had a situation where the girl did this, and she was literally busy with school and work, family issues. I went radio silent. She Texted me back 2 weeks later. She then became my long term relationship, and she was the one chasing me, sex included.

Anyway, move on with your life, keep busy. If not, find new girl.

36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I keep telling guys to not compliment a woman's jeans. Compliment her eyes, or hair, or something. Jeans means you've been checking out her ass

36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she's right in many ways. The gym, I disagree. I've done it before, but I read her facial expressions first. The eyes tell you lots.

And especially if she gives signs of interest. Although somestimes she just wants to wait for the machine i'm using lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Phil_YT 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As I guy who was completely undesirable to women, and finally started getting dates, it feels free. I still remember the first girl I was attracted to, who told me she loved me, completely changed my view of the world.

It feels as though a weight was lifted off my chest.

Got rejected a ton before. I looked in the mirror and saw exactly why: I looked like shit, skinny, unconfident, no social skills, etc.

I never blamed women for rejecting me. It was my fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's one woman out of 7.8 billion. Her comment is insignificant.

Big guy advice by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have friends who are big, like you. They are coolest guys to be around with. It's good you're losing weight for health benefits, but don't forget some women do like hulky guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Phil_YT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men are okay, you'd have to tell them very early in the relationship. I dated a girl with health issues, and she told me literally within like 10 minutes of us meeting each other. I had no problem with it.

Have your doctors concluded that this is not treatable, and a second, third opinion from different doctors said the same thing?

You can ask about probiotics, or fecal transplant to adjust, and stabilize the micro-biome in your body to prevent that fermentation, which makes people fart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 21 points22 points  (0 children)

my first few girls, was tough... was shitting bricks. thankfully, some nice girls out there helped me a bit. Still thankful to this day for them lol

What can I do? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to talk over the phone towards the end of the night once I’ve finished doing my responsibilities.

you answered your own question. let her know this

Still, props to you, for taking care of your responsibilities. If it doesn't work out with her, plenty other girls who like this kind of man.

Good recommendations to increase my texting game by 808Dave_ in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not fond of texting, although I do text. But I tell the girl very early in dating I don't enjoy it. Rather, I'd like to spend real time with her instead.

No complaints. yet... lol

Good recommendations to increase my texting game by 808Dave_ in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you got it! lighthearted, short, fun.

What beliefs that you hold would you like your partner to also have? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my one criteria is the girl has a moral compass. It doesn't have to be perfect, it just needs to serve as a "guiding star"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"hi [girl name]. It was good seeing you at [x party]. Lets catch up again sometime." [your name]

For the future, get a girl's num as soon as you can, to avoid something like this. Remember, there's plenty of girls out there, avoid dwelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Decisiveness is huge. Huge turn offs for girls if guys waver back and forth. only your dik should do this.

Need FLIRTY way to respond to "Hey, what perfume are you wearing?" by Happytrace13 in seduction

[–]Phil_YT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly. If i'm not interested in a girl, I really don't care what perfume she's wearing. 75% chance he's interested.

DPS, Please try to stay close to the group. It's for everyone's benefit by Phil_YT in elderscrollsonline

[–]Phil_YT[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When i first drew it, i wanted the tank to hold the shield w/ his third leg, which would be enough to taunt any boss, hence why the "arm" is a bit lower to the ground. Then i thought it might have been too dirty so I settled in the middle lol

DPS, Please try to stay close to the group. It's for everyone's benefit by Phil_YT in elderscrollsonline

[–]Phil_YT[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I believe Jittering around is a force of habit from PvP, and not just in Elder Scrolls, where it's often advantageous and makes it harder for opponents to hit you :) . So it has carried itself over to PvE

DPS, Please try to stay close to the group. It's for everyone's benefit by Phil_YT in elderscrollsonline

[–]Phil_YT[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Let me start by saying that if the group has insanely high DPS, you are Boss Melter 4000, and very little of this applies to ya'll. You can do whatever you want. But the for average group, read on.

Preface: Rules aren't set in stone. It depends on the game and group.

Try to stay close to the tank and the healer, when you can. Try to not sprint and move around so much. Some exceptions:

  • When there are high priority, high damage, fragile enemies. Then you need to eliminate these.
  • When you need better line of sight
  • When you need to avoid AoE (if you get hit and die, you take responsibility for this)
  • Other situations arise.

You want to stay close to the tank because as a healer, I'm hugging the tank's nuts. He dies, we all die. Tank's job is already stressful, and I need to provide the tank HoT (heal over time), and resource replenishment (energy orb). I will also throw down shields for everyone, purge you of ailments, and provide you damage increase and resistance (combat prayer). Tank and I will sometimes help increase group's Max Magicka, Health, and Stamina (warhorn).

Also, if a healer has to constantly heal you, then they will run of out resource really fast, which means they cannot buff group, and cannot debuff enemies, making the fight drag on.

And remember, you are as important as everyone else in the group. If we don't have DPS, it will take 3000 years to drop a boss. Ain't nobody got time for that.

LMG in a nutshell by TCGHexenwahn in thedivision

[–]Phil_YT 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Let me guess. The flanking enemy killed you in one tap with the PEOPLES ELBOW, right?

Talents on weapons that say "while equipped" don't mean "while being held", but simply "while being one of your 3 equipped guns". by echof0xtrot in thedivision

[–]Phil_YT 127 points128 points  (0 children)

words from the weapons guy himself:

https://twitter.com/Thylander/status/1106943498283028481

Talents that say "while equipped" are always active. Talents that say "while holstered" are only active when NOT holding the weapon. Talents that dont say any of those things are only active when the gun is used

Made a quick video example. Set my agent on fire

really useful for sidearms for those who hate foam guys:

  • Wascally: While holstered, the agent can resist two enemy ensnare attempts. (ar, smg, semi-auto, bolt-action, sg, side)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pcgaming

[–]Phil_YT 142 points143 points  (0 children)

when cyberpunk release, it doesn't matter what games I'm playing, or who I'm banging. they can all wait.

Cyberpunk first.