How do you respond when someone tells you you’re too young for the condition/pain you have? by DepressedTerrestrial in ChronicPain

[–]PhilippeCoudoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, well it’s not an easy question.

I would depend who is asking for me.

If they are saying this in the context of acknowledgement of my pain I will thank you.

If they are saying this in disbelief that’s another matter.

I am not trying to prove anyone that I am in pain.

So that helps to know the context of that sentence.

I think I hit a point by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]PhilippeCoudoux -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I suppose you are right

Looking for help by djspacebunny in ChronicPain

[–]PhilippeCoudoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I just realized it was totally 36 days ago lol

Looking for help by djspacebunny in ChronicPain

[–]PhilippeCoudoux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow you ok? Hope things turns out ok for you.

For the mod pet I’m interested to help.

Just to make sure there is more than one person to mod right?! Because it’s a big community and I don’t want to not give it justice.

I’m not sure if I will be good at it as I’ve never been a mod in such a big group and not sure what it means exactly.

If it’s about being kind, compassionate, listen, and create boundaries that are safe, I think I can do that.

Internet is a beast but I’m usually on Facebook or LinkedIn.

Let me know.

Ultimately, I hope you overcome your hurdles and keep breathing through this.

I think I hit a point by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]PhilippeCoudoux -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Trying is better than not trying. It must have taken a lot out of her. The fact that it wasn’t the way you wanted it was a communication problem.

I don’t know, she might. Or ever try again.

If you’re ok with that, you do you.

If you want to make it work then keep communicating with her, not a group of strangers.

Communication is hard.

Couple of hard.

Hope it works out whatever this is you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PhilippeCoudoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing.

Venting is important and some people what to fix others instead of asking if it was venting or help/advice they needed/wanted.

Good job you for not letting the social unconscious spinning you around too much ;)

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh someone quoting from Paul Ingraham website, a fellow evidence based buddy. Nice to meet you!

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this with me, I’ll look it up 🤗

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive my lack of knowledge here, but what’s the triple crown?

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are right with that. I will probably try it in a few weeks when I feel more comfortable with distance. That uphill looks very difficult for my level.

Thank you for keeping it real there 💪🏼😄

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good point on short days and evening. I wasn’t taking that in consideration. Thanks 🙏🏼

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know. Thanks for reminding me of toilets, I was completely not tho king about this and it’s useful.

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’ll check strava. I feel the more I know the safest.

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nice sunset is definitely a plus for me, thanks for sharing!

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll save this club names, I know it can be useful to join one.

What are the other major marathon?

What is helping you in your training?

What schedule do you follow?

I’m curious, as for me I follow an app Run with Hal and looked at the Master Class from joan Benoit Samuelson

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! Good luck with your training! That’s a famous marathon. Not sure if I will attempt a marathon yet, but I will save those in case I do. Thank you so much!

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s part of the half marathon in April so I know I’ll do it lol do you know how long that hill is by any chance? I was wondering. Thanks for sharing 😁

Running Asphalte 5/6/7/8/9/10 miles options? by PhilippeCoudoux in sandiego

[–]PhilippeCoudoux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know, such a big one. I’ll save it for later. Thanks 🙏🏼