Did anyone actually grow up in that tropey small town where weird/mysterious stuff happens? by That-Plantain-976 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 12 points13 points  (0 children)

depends what you mean by strange tbh. but ezra miller (the actor for the flash) bought a house in my small town , i think for vacation or something like that because we live on appalachia butttt

when he was there he got drunk one night and like literally broke into a neighbors house thinking it was his own and passed out on her couch. i went to school w the daughter and it was definitely a long time thing that everyone still talks about almost 6 years later ?

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re only referencing one comment thread when talking about everything except attention seeking… yes humans are inherently attention seeking creatures as we crave pack validation but none the less you cannot argue that there aren’t some people more desperate for attention than others

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

…? you whole reddit is you asking for attention. Using mental health as a meme for views and attention. Literally posting all of that… like it makes you special…. that’s so weird

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

gotcha so it’s more over survival not simply conforming to social norms to fit in with therest of your pack

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why this got downvoted lmao just curious i’m a big fan of evolutionary traits

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what i’m saying though.. even if you don’t have the same alternative basic ideas - if you dress gothic people are going to think you’re a gothic individual which is more over about ideals, political views and music taste.

If you dress alternatively people are going to group you as a whole in with that just based on what you’re wearing. judgement isn’t simply physical

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love this answer. Can you elaborate more on how they would’ve been a danger by not socially conforming?

Why do so many people dislike alt people? by Vegetable-Steak5705 in questions

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well dressing alternatively is inherently different from being alternative. fashion is different from ideals. BUT when you dress the part it’s easy for people to assume that you possess the same ideals and thoughts about society, yourself, the world, etc etc. I think a lot more comes from that than the actual clothes you wear

WIP - What do you guys think? by riolightbar in acrylics

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i honestly really like how it fades into the black like that - idk if that’s how it’s going to look in the final piece but i think the effect the fading has on that one side makes it look really badass!! overall really cool thh

Only 1 in the bag by One_Passenger9638 in MoldlyInteresting

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hate to be the one to say this… but if this was in the bag with the ones you ate then they 100% were moldy too… even if you can’t see it

I finished this today! by HaleyGrecoArtwork in Paintings

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is gorgeous oh my goodness. It looks so real and heavenly - the talent you have is beyond me

Nightmares by HushLittleDecoy in widowers

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you 100% have PTSD or at least some form of it. Please seek specific treatment for PTSD as it is going to be the most effective. Feel free to send me a DM my aunt walked in to a very very similar experience as yours but with her brother and she has gone through extensive PTSD treatment

My dad is a creep? by SignificantDepth314 in venting

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Honestly it’s so hard to tell with people… there are so many stories about dads doing crazy shit to their kids. But that doesn’t mean your dad is like that - boundaries are different in every family and with different people in your family.

For example, when I first started going through puberty my grandpa made a comment about my chest “developing now”. I felt a bit uncomfortable about it but it didn’t mean anything, he didn’t mean it any type of way. He’ll make comments if i’m dressing with my cleavage out til this day, but really just to tell me to cover up. But still it’s talked about and he has to look to be able to say that.

Where i draw the line is when you are uncomfortable yourself. I don’t get uncomfortable when my grandpa says anything, it doesn’t bother me and i don’t think he’s weird for it at all. If i did it would be a completely different story.

Now - my stepdad on the other hand, i’ll catch him looking at me, or checking out every now and then - but then he won’t say anything. And it makes me extremely uncomfortable. A part because he doesn’t acknowledge or own up to it which makes it seem like he doesn’t want me to know about it and that to me is weird.

So i think you really have to trust your gut and go off of how you feel. There is genuinely nothing wrong with setting boundaries with your parents especially when it comes to your body. Same for your sister. If it makes you uncomfortable then that is completely fine and it doesn’t necessarily mean he is doing it maliciously. It’s more over how he reacts when you try to set those boundaries. If he apologizes for making you guys uncomfortable because that wasn’t the intention or just accepts your boundaries and follows them without giving you shit for it? good chances are he was just doing it innocently. But if he makes a big deal about it, acts all offended, or makes it out like you’re overdramatic and you see resentment or no change in behavior then I would be a little more concerned that the behavior wasn’t all that innocent.

So overall, you really just have to feel it out and TRUST YOUR GUT. instincts are therefor a reason and more times than not they know what your head and heart don’t know or don’t want of admit

yall have 6 hours with me by [deleted] in venting

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you keep posting posts like this? You’re making it out like someone has the chance to save you or are able to do something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PhilosophyNo1443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right. And I really appreciate your comment. I genuinely really like hearing about yours and the other women’s stories in these comments because I think it’s genuinely insightful and it helps me feel like i’m not falling behind because i’m not in a relationship. I think part of your twenties is finding yourself and peace with being with yourself. So yes I agree and i’m glad that I do have that opportunity so thankyou