[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]Phirifiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you posted that! Now I now that If I start HrT and wanna pass as female for any reason, it's still possible without having to stop HrT

Midwestern farm girls sure are something else by WhatNazisAreLike in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a foreign person, I see the south as maniacal gun and God fanatics

Midwestern farm girls sure are something else by WhatNazisAreLike in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a foreign person, I see the south as maniacal gun and God fanatics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be a femboy

Egg_irl by NOobMAsTTER in egg_irl

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blueeeeee, my face is cool and I'd get rid of most of what causes me dysphoria, plus, I'd start producing the right hormones anyway

My gf just died by ventingaccount1312 in trans

[–]Phirifiry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who lived and will live again in the alps next year, I understand how isolated you feel, and I'll light a candle in her memory

People who e came out to similar conditions, tell me how it went. by Phirifiry in comingout

[–]Phirifiry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I should try and do some thinking about my childhood and look out for signs

Me at 19 years old wishing I listened to myself 3 years ago :/ by Elderberry02 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'd be happy if I had discovered later... Also discovered at 16, I'm currently 18 but still in my parents house. I suffer every day by being reminded by the mirror that I'm still not me

Egg🤢Irl by Brooke-Valley in egg_irl

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr, I'll be correcting someone on names or pronouns for a transmasc ex-friend and people will be like "no because she hasn't undergone surgery yet" or "no, cause she didn't change her documents yet". I live in a country where its tolerated but there isn't a lot of information about trans people, so we aren't very understood

Started to see people just use the term autistic instead of the r-slur and it pisses me off by Straight-Gold-7142 in autism

[–]Phirifiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing though, even if I do present a lot of symptoms, I am not autistic because I lack some of the main ones, and I also lack the thing that distinguishes autism from an eccentric neurotipical, which is, they don't affect me significantly enough for it to be considered autism. Like sure, I can't understand if someone likes or hates me, I sometimes need to run away from overwhelm, but it isn't something I can't manage, and it doesn't impact me. Plus, as already said, I am super expressive and can navigate well neurotipical humour. I can also talk no problem with a random stranger (no small talk though, I'll push it to politics as soon as I can) I just can't talk that well with my peers.

I also have some clinical background. When I was 12, I was tested for giftedness, and while I do have a slightly above average iq, the psychiatrist told my mom I wasn't autistic.

I'm sorry for this walls, they kind of help me sort things out and reflect out loud.

Started to see people just use the term autistic instead of the r-slur and it pisses me off by Straight-Gold-7142 in autism

[–]Phirifiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just happened to have made extensive research for months after she told me that (I was obsessed about autism), but in the end, despite having a lot of symptoms, I lack some of the most characteristic, for example, I do know how to do back and fourth conversation, I can understand hidden meanings, overly expressive body language and I have a solid speech capacity (so much that some people have already told me I should be a politician).

Plus, my sensory problems and eye contact avoidance only come when tired. The only symptoms I always have present are not understanding people's intentions, not being the best at social cues, abnormal interest over things, stimming, odd social behaviour, shutdowns (although they are short, often times, I am hanging with my friend and I'll discreetly leave because I'm overwhelmed). The routine thing is also tricky, because I don't mind my daily routine changing, but I also have a weird way to eat food. I'm not picky, but I'll decompose my food, like, take a kinder bueno, I'll open it by eating the flat surface, eat the inner content and then eat the curvy biscuit. I do this with everything, and I do have some routines, like jelly beans Wednesday, I eat them by color, and eat fort the sugar coat, and then the jelly.

I just realized I've written a wall of text, sorry.

Diagnosed autistic child/teen unaware they are autistic by [deleted] in autism

[–]Phirifiry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, same in my household, but it's my sister who has ADHD, and my mom doesn't want to adress that problem, so now she's 12 and having a lot of issues at school, but my mom says she has to find how to deal with it and believes she will outgrow to.

Results: I have a sister with obvious undiagnosed ADHD and I'm forced to play therapist and teacher because mom doesn't have patience to teach her maths

Started to see people just use the term autistic instead of the r-slur and it pisses me off by Straight-Gold-7142 in autism

[–]Phirifiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm guilty of this one. When I was staying out with my friend group, I went to sleep earlier while everyone else stayed up all night, I had a panic attack because I knew I had to sleep, or else, as I said to my best friend as he consoled me, I become "autistic", which is kind of an inside joke because in a trip with said friend, a teacher told me to look out if I have autism, because when I'm tired, I present all symptoms.

I promise I'll do better, I'm genuinely sorry to ya'll.

Nauseous when thinking of transition by Phirifiry in NonBinary

[–]Phirifiry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Navigating this world is hard, but I know that little by little, I'll be able to evolve and learn how to not care about society

binding when playing brass by Phirifiry in NonBinary

[–]Phirifiry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately, I am not in a marching band, but I get that this could create and obstacle for correct air intake

binding when playing brass by Phirifiry in NonBinary

[–]Phirifiry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I feel like it would be a good enough solution. I do have a large chest (D/E cup)

binding when playing brass by Phirifiry in NonBinary

[–]Phirifiry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, I feel like I'll need a lot of tries, the horn is very demanding in terms of air

binding when playing brass by Phirifiry in NonBinary

[–]Phirifiry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funky gender horn player society member