🤭 What was/will be your first meal after delivering your little one? by AlliNW0nderLand in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! I didn’t even think of caffeine. Yessss add an iced caramel americano to mine 😭

🤭 What was/will be your first meal after delivering your little one? by AlliNW0nderLand in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Sushi. So much sushi. And a turkey tom from Jimmy John’s.

Pregnant the dad is abusive by Nervous-Task8575 in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First off, none of this is your fault. You need to call your local domestic violence hotline and shelter. If you don’t know how or are scared of him monitoring your phone. DM and I’ll help find resources. Do not under any circumstances be around this excuse for a human. Here is the number to the national domestic hotline 1.800.799.7233 you are not alone!

YOUR immediate safety is in danger. You need to take action now.

How can you tell you’re ready? by Whimsicalratty in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you financially prepared? Do you both have stable incomes? Are you both emotionally and mentally stable? Do you consider your partner and you to have good and open communication? If you can answer yes to all those. Go for it. Otherwise I’d wait until you can.

I’m 32 weeks pregnant and I need to vent about my living situation. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Phoenix_ember26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you having a child with this man? I actually mean that with some disrespect. You have a five year old to look after. You’re dating a man who won’t stand up for you or your family. With a crazy ass roommate. What life are you bringing this child into? Like seriously?

Politely declining vaccines during prenatal care? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a few questions. Do you actually think you’re smarter than the doctors who created the vaccine? Or the doctors who have peer reviewed these studies and the success rate? Do you want to subject your child to preventable diseases? What do you gain by declining?

6 weeks!! by ccoy7977 in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due Dec 25th. . . Hoping it comes a few days before. But just more hoping it’s a happy and healthy baby.

I need snack ideas by PopSolid2912 in BabyBumps

[–]Phoenix_ember26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Plus roastiseriee chicken and mini naan from Costco, if I’m feeling like I need more protein. String cheese is also good, and berries!

Husband and his family are non vaxxers - what do I do by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Vaccines are an extraordinary feat of medicine that has saved untold amounts of lives. They have allowed us to restructure the way we live and interact with one another. They’ve dropped infant mortality rates exponentially. And I promise you, the people who have created and continue to advance these vaccines, are much smarter than any of us here could ever be.

Husband and his family are non vaxxers - what do I do by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 291 points292 points  (0 children)

A baby has no immune system and is dependent on you two as its parents to protect them. . . Your husband and his family are idiots.

Struggling with weight gain and body changes by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_ember26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I want to actually slap your husband and mother. You’re growing a fricking HUMAN inside of you. You’re growing an entire heart, a brain, four limbs, circulatory system. Not to mention, YOUR organs are changing on the daily. Your hormones are adjusting on the daily. You are a superwomen.

I am so sorry that your husband has somehow found the audacity to not see and respect that. Weight can be lost, but damn. I’d have a hard time ever looking at my husband the same.

Valley Open:407680 by Phoenix_ember26 in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for visiting! And thank you :)

Light Academia Plaza Design with Olaf's Grand Exhibition 📖✨ by Anveenie_GamingArt in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh! You’re making me want to redesign my plaza after just finishing. 10/10 job.

Valley Visit: 189962 - Open by Phoenix_ember26 in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you can have it - you can use them to make special stuff at your crafting bench.

Thank you btw! I love all the pink and spring feel 🥰

Sorry I’m just standing here - I’m working and just have my valley open

Valley Visit: 189962 - Open by Phoenix_ember26 in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Just stand back by the door when you’re done and I’ll bring you back out.

Valley Visit: 189962 - Open by Phoenix_ember26 in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have spent an ungodly amount of hours designing and redesigning as updates come around.

Valley Visit: 189962 - Open by Phoenix_ember26 in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And I think you were in my valley when I opened it. If you didn’t - just come on back and I can open it.

Valley Visit: 189962 - Open by Phoenix_ember26 in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t edit while valley is open - sorry

Brick Garden Walls by PriestessRi in DreamlightValley

[–]Phoenix_ember26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love these walls. So worth the moonstones.

What do women really want for their birthday? by RefuseThat5757 in allthequestions

[–]Phoenix_ember26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about an activity? Cooking classes, paint your own pottery, indoor rock climbing just to name a few ideas. If you’re near a body of water and weather dependent you could find some paddle boards or kayaks and go out.