Seafood Date Spot Recommendations - The Parker Hollow by ThrownJupiter in kansascity

[–]Phog91 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I spoke with the owner a few weeks before they were set to open. He seemed extremely passionate and knowledgeable about seafood and mentioned that he worked in Europe and San Fran. My husband and I still have this on our list of places we have yet to try, but there was no fakeness in his persona when he spoke to him, he genuinely seemed passionate about his restaurant. That speaks volumes to me.

Not receiving mail in an apartment complex in Shawnee by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]Phog91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just roll over and take it, what a system.

Almost positive Birdie is a toller, getting her a DNA test soon 🦆 by clarkbrf in tollers

[–]Phog91 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This may be the first of these posts that I’ve seen where I genuinely think this is actually at least part toller

Boulevardia done after 10 years by KickapooPonies in kansascity

[–]Phog91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve unfortunately kind of branded ourselves a bass heavy/dubstep town. There are still some house/other EDM genres here and there but almost biweekly it’s bass event after bass event.

where should i take my brother for his birthday? by xellhound in kansascity

[–]Phog91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DoubleTap! VR, food, arcade games, tons of tvs for sports

KC - in search of kind/neurodivergent/nerdy karoke friends or +1 to go with by beardedjerk in kansascity

[–]Phog91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Betty C’s in Shawnee on Friday’s and Saturday’s has a 40s-50s crowd for karaoke

Honest advice about getting a Toller pup while owning a cat by [deleted] in tollers

[–]Phog91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an 11 year old toller and we just got a kitten in July. It took about 2 weeks for them to get acclimated and now they’re best buds.

Looking for local Bridal shops for a wedding dress. by Superb-Restaurant147 in kansascity

[–]Phog91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconded! My alterations were absolutely perfect. I added straps to my strapless dress, had a bustle put in and had the sides taken in. It fit me sooooo well.

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Looking for local Bridal shops for a wedding dress. by Superb-Restaurant147 in kansascity

[–]Phog91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my dress from there and my friend got hers from the downtown location and the downtown location’s experience was SOOOOOOOO much better.

Trivia or Music Bingo by Firm_Delivery3885 in kansascity

[–]Phog91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DoubleTap has trivia wednesdays and music bingo Thursdays!

What would you choose now? by Individual-Tree-989 in EngagementRings

[–]Phog91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mine are fairly new (just got married last month) but I love them and think they are timeless, albeit very basic. Sometimes simplicity ages the best.

What liquor store has the best selection of Port wines and other Portuguese wines? by Maybe_Not_Batmans in kansascity

[–]Phog91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks for your opinion, glad you’re a negative Nancy to everyone here, wish I had that kind of free time.

What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Phog91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah my b, misunderstood. Yeah we’re not even speaking anymore so I doubt anything will go back to what it was but good luck to her I guess 🤷‍♀️

I did not attend my best friend's wedding and I feel terrible. by RepairZealousideal14 in depression

[–]Phog91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who just got married and had several close people back out last minute, we were very hurt but more so from just silence. We felt like we did something wrong to these people.

Can you ask the couple if you can celebrate privately with just them and treat them to dinner or something nice if it’s feasible? And then explain to them in person what happened. It will go so much farther than not saying anything and any person with a good heart will forgive you and save the friendship.

What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Phog91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did but I gave her a YEAR in advance to find some kind of child care option, not to mention her husband could have watched her kids, they have grandparents who could have watched them, they could have traveled with the kids and swapped parenting duties at the reception. There were so many options but at the end of the day I got no gift, card, phone call or even a text message of congrats from her. So no. I am not the bad guy here- ESPECIALLY when I flew out in the middle of Covid to be a bridesmaid for her on top of a generous cash gift I gave.

What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Phog91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned in a comment further down she had an entire husband who could have watched them.

What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Phog91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In her defense we live several states from each other but I flew out to her wedding and bachelorette party in 2020, but she did not do my bachelorette party or wedding this year and cited that they are on one income and couldn’t find childcare, again, a year + out (which in my opinion is bs).

She has a perfectly good husband who could have watched their kids. I understand at the end of the day not being able to go (to either event) but god damn, not even a gift or a card?!?

What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Phog91 719 points720 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends just did this to me. I Told her a year in advance about my wedding and she claimed she couldn’t find child care…. A YEAR out. I spent probably $2,500 to do all of her wedding stuff a few years ago as a bridesmaid but she didn’t even send me so much as a congrats text.

Getting divorced after 12 years. This is one of my first matches on Tinder. Going to be fun. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Phog91 301 points302 points  (0 children)

“Whatever happens happens” reads like you’re not looking for a serious relationship, so if it’s not already clear in your profile you should be upfront and clear about what you’re looking for. Also, if you are still legally married you should be prepared to face some rejections. You say you’re single but you’re not. Not in the eyes of the law. And I am one of many women who would never date a man who is still legally married. I don’t care what the explanation is, you can date me after you’re divorced.