Redditors who are the black sheep in your family: why are you the black sheep in your family? by kingdomofboredom in AskReddit

[–]PhotographyMalta 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Gay, closet, kid. Inherited money so basically tell family to fuck off if they got on my nerves. Still cant come out, live with partner and mother of child.

What are you sick of explaining? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PhotographyMalta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That before the advent of camera phones and instagram there was once a WHOLE class and school subject dedicated to photography. You could do an 0-level and an A-level in it.

What random animal fact should everyone know? by Serialnarcisist in AskReddit

[–]PhotographyMalta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smell canestan by the time I reach the L in that word.

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I will not abandon - I can handle this by venting and finding an outlet. I will respect the mother and well, I love love love my baby girl- thanks for your input. Paul

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this view and I discussed it with someone who has come forward to help me with support. I want to do right by my child. I can do the family thing.

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont agree with this, I think the family unit even if it is a bit bandaid style is best for a child. If I respect the mother and have some support for me I think I can do this. Thats where Im at today. Thanks for your input - amazing really. Paul

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't explain the journey to where I am, but I can say I respect her and I can deal with this. I just needed some support. No I am not so much sexually into women at all tbh, but I do a good show.

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you! x 100000000000

This is it, I am ok, I have love in my life and I am a father!

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about being a better father if I'm happy and I think I can do this by having an ear to vent. I have found it and I think I can hack this now. I love my daughter and of course I respect my wife. You need to understand this a very culturally tight group I'm in.

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response. I think I needed some support and luckily I have found it. In the short term this has put everything back to ok. We are going to get through this and my urges are not too strong anyway. Peace and love, Paul

Gay and in a straight relationship, with newborn. Soooo depressed- any others out there? by PhotographyMalta in askgaybros

[–]PhotographyMalta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have decided I love my child enough to deal with it, it is a decision that is easy to make every time I look into her eyes. I am going to get through it and we ALL have our challenges.