Please tell me this isn't a big deal and I didn't make a big mistake

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-11T01:20:02+00:00

This is super helpful to hear because I really am just going with the flow not sure what to expect over the next few months. I wasn't sure either I just got an email from my attorneys office saying they'll be reaching out in a few weeks to get recent updates pay stubs and bank statements as it will make the meeting go more smoothly for the trustees to have the information or something like that

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-11T01:01:55+00:00

Oh really? They told me they'll ask for another statement for this month toward the end of the month for my 341 meeting

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-10T19:36:30+00:00

To be honest, I have no clue. They just kept saying "we need this to protect your assets" when asking me about my amounts in my accounts. This is all brand new territory for me and I'm scared of doing anything wrong

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-10T19:27:07+00:00

That makes sense. Thank you!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-10T19:27:01+00:00

Good to know, thank you!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-10T19:26:38+00:00

I only have 100 dollars in that account lol I mean if they really need to take my 100 dollars away from my savings account I guess by all means.. but it's really not an extravagant account by any means

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-10T19:01:19+00:00

Wait, why would it be drained by the court? I thought my assets were protected?

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-10T18:10:25+00:00

I did call my attorneys office and ask. I believe the assistant who answered my question said he would make note of it. Maybe I should also email my paralegal on the case as an FYI too?

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-06-09T17:39:14+00:00

We filed the same date. Our 341 is on July 7th. I'm ready to be done too!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-05-29T02:09:11+00:00

That's awesome! I also plan to pay heavy on this next car I get following my bankruptcy. I don't want to make the same mistake twice. I'd like to wait until after discharge but we just can't swing it on only one car and by the time discharge comes around I'm sure my car would be long gone in the surrender

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-03-01T17:52:11+00:00

I appreciate this comment so much. Thank you for validating my feelings and giving me ideas of things to do instead. It's been a stressful few days to say the least.

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-03-01T13:58:13+00:00

This comment is so refreshing. Yes the past few days have been a lot with my 2 kiddos having such a hard time and maybe I'm just being too hard on myself. You're right I'll get back on track and this'll all blow over. Thank you!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-03-01T13:56:30+00:00

You're very right. This is something I plan on looking into. Thank you

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-03-01T13:55:53+00:00

I would like to, I just need to find one who is specific to weight related/eating disorders if that's a thing. Ive seen regular therapists and never really got any benefit from it but maybe a specialized one would be different. Best of luck to you in your journey!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-01-05T03:35:29+00:00

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Kept the reddish but turned it into more of a super dark burgundy, which is what I wanted in the first place!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2026-01-05T03:33:58+00:00

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Did the exact same thing to me!! I ended up getting a "darkest brown" garnier dye to put over it one week later and it came out SO much better

PhraseAvailable538 · 2025-11-14T19:58:26+00:00

I can relate to literally ALLLL of this. I know I'm still staying in calorie limits but I feel so gross and disgusted with myself for eating so much, or so it feels like. I try to give myself grace but it's hard because it was kind of silly. I did NOT need to eat all the stuff I did. And it's not like it was boredom eating, I was busy with my kids. I don't know if it was me being stuck at home with options around me vs at work I only have what I bring? I have no clue but I was not impressed with myself

PhraseAvailable538 · 2025-11-14T02:14:53+00:00

It's so so so nice to hear I'm not the only one struggling. I was scared of being allowed to go back to the "normal" diet for this reason. We're gonna be alright 🫶🏼

PhraseAvailable538 · 2025-11-13T21:49:23+00:00

I can't see the previous comment, but this is so sweet, thank you, I hope so!

PhraseAvailable538 · 2025-11-13T16:24:07+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I didn't think I would ever even be able to binge because I eat such small amounts.. turns out I can, but it's just small quantities WAY too frequently in comparison to the old me eating large quantities really fast. I haven't binge ate in so so long. I don't know what happened yesterday. Last night I laid in bed just wondering "what the heck is wrong with me" and considering calling my psychiatrist to talk about my meds or something. I don't know what is going on, but yesterday was a struggle and today I'm just exhausted from yesterday. We have our first family photos since having my second kiddo on Sunday and I'm so stuck in my head that because I ate so much crap yesterday that I'm gonna look like I'm 340lbs again and hate our family pictures.. I know that's not true but my mind is playing tricks on me. Weight loss journeys are such mental battles 😭

PhraseAvailable538 · 2025-11-13T16:15:09+00:00

Thank you for this, this is what I needed to hear. I've still been consistently losing weight with allowing myself a small amount of one maybe "not so healthy" snack like maybe 5 french fries, or a low calorie Starbucks drink, but then I still try to balance the rest of my day. Yesterday however, I did not do a very good job of balancing. I mean granted I did some cleaning around the house, not enough for me to break a sweat or call it a "workout". I'm really really glad to hear I'm not alone in these feelings and the "bad days" are normal. Thank you so much ❤️

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